Quote: (11-13-2012 11:31 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:
2) I'd be looking real close at the gf right now if I was looking for that money.
This was my first thought, but I was fearful of telling him what I would do if this was me -- if it's done wrong, it's a huge fail.
I would:
1. Ignore her first initiated text. Forever.
2. If she texts a second day later, I would respond "Look, if you needed the $400 you should've asked me rather than pin that shit on me."
Then go dark.
She stole the money. I have no doubt about it. Then she didn't "throw him under the bus" but she didn't turn herself in.
By ending it that way, IF she reinitiates, you end it with her having to qualify herself, and you NEVER RESPONDING AGAIN.
That's the "win" there, if you think you CAN win.
Of course, you might just go and immediately text her now and man-down by saying "I know you took the money." That's a complete fail.
So don't do anything. Just bail. Permanently.