[peterthephoenix]

I'm wondering if anyone else on the forum has experienced this. Getting a boner over a girl who doesn't typically deserve one. Lately for me this has been 28 year old girls (I'm 21) who are in average shape/average looks, when I feel like I could be pulling much better if I put in the work.

Is this a mental thing? Thoughts?

[Jackhammer]

I'll bang a 5 or a 10 if they both pass the boner test. The only difference is that I might try to bang the 10 again after that. I think you're just over thinking it

[blackglasses]

(11-12-2012 04:14 PM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

I'm wondering if anyone else on the forum has experienced this. Getting a boner over a girl who doesn't typically deserve one. Lately for me this has been 28 year old girls (I'm 21) who are in average shape/average looks, when I feel like I could be pulling much better if I put in the work.

Is this a mental thing? Thoughts?

dude stop stressing. My thing is if a girl gives me a boner I will smash. Listen to your dick. it will point you in the right direction. At worst bang the average girls to avoid neediness when 8's and up come along

[peterthephoenix]

Alright thanks guys!

[AntiTrace]

Listening to your dick is like following a compass that you hold directly in front of your stylish custom belt buckle.

Your gonna end up somewhere, but probably not where you want to end up.

For example: I recently got a blowjob from a Mexican behemoth named Yulanda (or some shit like that). I did not want to, I had my eyes set on another target. Nothing about this female was sexually attractive. She could have laid across the Rio Grande as a Human land bridge composed of glazed donuts and an irrational sense of self esteem.

she corned me in a dark room and offered to devour my cock like it was the last Cherro on earth. I said no, I felt no. But my cock jumped to attention to second those crisco laced sausage fingers reached into my pants and started massaging me up and down.

She was a champ, I'll give her that. At the 15 minute mark she said:

"Enough foreplay, I want to fuck"
"No I'm good, I'll stick with the blowjob, I'm almost there"

5 minutes later I was there.




Your penis is blind. A blind man knows no beauty, just how something feels. And a warm mouth, is a warm mouth, is a warm mouth.

That's why I never trust my penis. I am smarter than him. We're perpetual wingman. He entices me to go out and get into trouble, a caged beast that once released knows no limits. That is why I need to be the cool collected level headed wingmen that I am, to keep both of us out of trouble. I don't always win.

[Avarence]

FYI:

If you're in college, the boner test is a horrible idea.

That is all.

[j r]

I don't know about you guys, but my boner has no problem differentiating between an attractive woman and a behemoth.

[teh_skeeze]

(11-12-2012 08:47 PM)j r Wrote:  

I don't know about you guys, but my boner has no problem differentiating between an attractive woman and a behemoth.

How old are you? When I was 21 I would get a boner if the fan hit it. Now, at 29, it takes a stiffer breeze.

[Avarence]

(11-12-2012 09:19 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

How old are you? When I was 21 I would get a boner if the fan hit it. Now, at 29, it takes a stiffer breeze.

I'm 20.

I get a boner at the mere sight of a fan.

[peterthephoenix]

I can't fuck the really disgusting chicks, but when chicks have a bit of tit and ass on them then I can hit it.

[j r]

(11-12-2012 09:19 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

(11-12-2012 08:47 PM)j r Wrote:  

I don't know about you guys, but my boner has no problem differentiating between an attractive woman and a behemoth.

How old are you? When I was 21 I would get a boner if the fan hit it. Now, at 29, it takes a stiffer breeze.

Yeah, I'm a lot older than 21. Even at 21 though, I could tell the differentiate between serious differences in quality. There's two issues here. One, should you bang a 4 or a 5 when there's nothing better on the horizon? Two, should take a definite bang with a 4 or 5 over a shot at something better?

Neither of these issues are worth fixating on. Any player that I've ever known has his fair share of nights that he'd just as soon forget. It comes with the territory.

If you have a problem banging ugly broads, chances are it's not about lack of judgment. It's about lack of options. If you want to improve your quality, improve your game. As better-looking women become available to you, you'll have no problem looking past the 4 to the 7 giving you fuck-me eyes.

[Bacchus]

If we're talking about average girls, I don't see what the problem is. As long as you can do it without other people knowing. Don't spend time with them. Don't be seen in public with them. Only sex. Most importantly, go for better looking girls at every opportunity. As your game evolves, your tastes will become more refined. Running through a bunch of bitches will speed up that evolution.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Shit man, if you cant trust your dick in this world who can you trust. @peterthephoenix- Something about your original post irks me. This line "Getting a boner over a girl who doesn't typically deserve one" to be exact. You say these are average looking/average shape girls but you feel like you could be doing much better if you put in the work. Quick question though and I have a reason for asking this. Have you gamed and banged these such girls or just gamed?

[WesternCancer]

(11-12-2012 09:32 PM)IQVX Wrote:  

(11-12-2012 09:19 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

How old are you? When I was 21 I would get a boner if the fan hit it. Now, at 29, it takes a stiffer breeze.

I'm 20.

I get a boner at the mere sight of a fan.

Same here. It must be the internet or age, but there are always questionable "would not bangs" or "bitch is a 6" thrown around here. For me the boner test is always a pass unless the chick is totally busted, fat (obese, not thick/chubby) or has a really off putting personality.

[oldnemesis]

(11-12-2012 04:14 PM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

Getting a boner over a girl who doesn't typically deserve one. Lately for me this has been 28 year old girls (I'm 21) who are in average shape/average looks, when I feel like I could be pulling much better if I put in the work.

This is called evolution. If the males only fucked the best females they could pull, the whole human population would disappear long time ago.

[christpuncher]

For me the biggest problem is taking home the girl that dresses decent and looks good with clothes on. But when you take them off you find another story beneath. After that it's kinda too late though. What are you gonna say "ehhhhhhhhh you know what I just remembered I can't fuck you right now. Need to go pick up my grandma...." - "It's 3am!" - "Yeah....she works the graveyard shift at Wendys?"

[oldnemesis]

The easiest way to prevent this kind of situation is to use your hands early in the interaction. This and the experience.

[20Nation]

(11-13-2012 09:14 AM)christpuncher Wrote:  

For me the biggest problem is taking home the girl that dresses decent and looks good with clothes on. But when you take them off you find another story beneath. After that it's kinda too late though. What are you gonna say "ehhhhhhhhh you know what I just remembered I can't fuck you right now. Need to go pick up my grandma...." - "It's 3am!" - "Yeah....she works the graveyard shift at Wendys?"

I have had this problem. Fucking pushup bras...

[memcpy]

delete

[Idlenations]

Any hole is a goal as they say and life would be boring if you did not do a fatty/ugly/old woman now and again (i call them practice girls)

[blackglasses]

(11-12-2012 04:14 PM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

I'm wondering if anyone else on the forum has experienced this. Getting a boner over a girl who doesn't typically deserve one. Lately for me this has been 28 year old girls (I'm 21) who are in average shape/average looks, when I feel like I could be pulling much better if I put in the work.

Is this a mental thing? Thoughts?

LIke most of the other guys said, your dick will not steer you wrong

[soup]

(11-12-2012 08:35 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

Listening to your dick is like following a compass that you hold directly in front of your stylish custom belt buckle.

Your gonna end up somewhere, but probably not where you want to end up.

For example: I recently got a blowjob from a Mexican behemoth named Yulanda (or some shit like that). I did not want to, I had my eyes set on another target. Nothing about this female was sexually attractive. She could have laid across the Rio Grande as a Human land bridge composed of glazed donuts and an irrational sense of self esteem.

she corned me in a dark room and offered to devour my cock like it was the last Cherro on earth. I said no, I felt no. But my cock jumped to attention to second those crisco laced sausage fingers reached into my pants and started massaging me up and down.

She was a champ, I'll give her that. At the 15 minute mark she said:

"Enough foreplay, I want to fuck"
"No I'm good, I'll stick with the blowjob, I'm almost there"

5 minutes later I was there.




Your penis is blind. A blind man knows no beauty, just how something feels. And a warm mouth, is a warm mouth, is a warm mouth.

That's why I never trust my penis. I am smarter than him. We're perpetual wingman. He entices me to go out and get into trouble, a caged beast that once released knows no limits. That is why I need to be the cool collected level headed wingmen that I am, to keep both of us out of trouble. I don't always win.

Based on this logic, if the lights were off, you'd have a good chance of letting your dick get sucked by a man.

One thing about me is that I will lose or not get an erection for a fattie fat Swamp Donkey

[Bushido]

Maybe it's just me but the boner test doesn't work for me.

I rarely get a boner upon meeting a new girl.

It takes a makeout or heavy grinding on the dancefloor and even then it doesn't always happen. If I've been drinking, it doesn't happen either.

Fortunately I have eyes so I can judge an attractive girl that way but it's rarely my dick telling me to bang her. Maybe a twinge here and there but not a boner.

Weird thing is, I have no problems getting boners with very attractive girls who I'm already dating. With one of my exes it was just ridiculous. She would always show cleavage so I would be walking around with a full-on boner during our dates which was pretty embarassing. For less attractive ones I don't get a boner until the clothes are off.

Is this low testosterone or just a mental thing? I'm only 28 btw.

[Distant Light]

Drop the boner test, bang the chicks you find hottest, you'll thank me later...

P.S...At one point in my life 95% of the females in my contacts were 5'8+ because I have a strong attraction for tall model type women. Lets just say the things I do SEXUALLY no way in hell I'd do to a chick I find average. I once took home a short hipster with a nice ass because I wanted to MAKE SURE this wasn't some ego-based thing. Well needless to say, I felt real bad hooking up with her because I DID NOT EVEN GO DOWN ON HER. She could tell I wasn't fully passionate, sucked too since she works at a Michelin star restaurant.

[reino341]

(11-12-2012 07:43 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  

Listen to your dick. it will point you in the right direction.