[DoctaWho]

I never fear rejection, in fact I welcome it as a learning opportunity. I've had girls say they're not interested, some give the boyfriend line, some pretend not to hear me when I approach, some offer to take my number...Through it all I have never felt particularly disrespected or like Rick Jamesing a chick until the other night.

I was waiting for the food truck guy to make my gyro when I see this black chick with an interesting look, natural hair, 60s style jacket...I had time to kill so I decided to get one more approach in the for the night. I got her to stop walking and have a conversation and things seemed to be going okay. Nothing great just the usual back and forth banter and no indication from her that she was ready to end the interaction.

When my food was ready, I went for the number close and she pulled out a business card. I make it a rule to never take a business card because I don't want to be a customer and who doesn't carry a phone. When I looked at the card I realized that it was not even hers. She gave me the card that some guy she met at a club handed her. In my mind I thought about asking her what the fuck was her problem, but in the end took the mature route and wished her a good evening.

Yeah, I'm bitching and maybe I took it too personal, but as a black guy I have to say that black women in my city continue to slip in the rankings.

[BurnFirst]

You could have looked at her like she was crazy and then said, oh wow I didn't even realize you were a transvestite, then tossed the card with a look of disgust.

[pitt]

Are you seriously mad over this?

I believe you dont approach that much and this is why you took this too serious. Just approach hardcore at all times, this is part of the game, get used to it.

[tomtud]

Ahhh brush it off....karma is a bitch. I know it stings, but there is always next weekend or tomorrow to find something better.

[Veloce]

I just recently had a night out where after the rejections I was like, "Damn, this sucks."

It was a night of approaching all Persians. =D

[CMan0928]

(11-11-2012 09:29 PM)DoctaWho Wrote:  

I never fear rejection, in fact I welcome it as a learning opportunity. I've had girls say they're not interested, some give the boyfriend line, some pretend not to hear me when I approach, some offer to take my number...Through it all I have never felt particularly disrespected or like Rick Jamesing a chick until the other night.

I was waiting for the food truck guy to make my gyro when I see this black chick with an interesting look, natural hair, 60s style jacket...I had time to kill so I decided to get one more approach in the for the night. I got her to stop walking and have a conversation and things seemed to be going okay. Nothing great just the usual back and forth banter and no indication from her that she was ready to end the interaction.

When my food was ready, I went for the number close and she pulled out a business card. I make it a rule to never take a business card because I don't want to be a customer and who doesn't carry a phone. When I looked at the card I realized that it was not even hers. She gave me the card that some guy she met at a club handed her. In my mind I thought about asking her what the fuck was her problem, but in the end took the mature route and wished her a good evening.

Yeah, I'm bitching and maybe I took it too personal, but as a black guy I have to say that black women in my city continue to slip in the rankings.

This has happened to anyone whom has ever had the courage to approach. It's part of the game. You aren't going to get a hit in every at-bat. It's just reality. But I do see your point about sort of being pissed with her handing you a business card that wasn't hers. She kind of insulted your intelligence there. As someone else said, there's always tomorrow. Hang in there.

[el mechanico]

I would have thanked her and rubbed it all up in my genitalia then stuffed it in her mouth.

[soup]

There might be a way to screen bitches like her out, but the obvious game thing to would be to take that anger/energy you have from getting rejected and force yourself to do 10 approaches.

The fact that you even started a thread about this means that you are not living with an abundance mindset. You need to be dealing with much greater numbers of girls.

[Gmac]

You should never feel disrespected when a women rejects you like that. It is what it is, move on. It's not like she threw her drink on you.

[haywire]

If you're not getting rejected, you're not getting laid.

[XII]

The reason this rejection hit, as others didn't, is because you experienced the cold truth: that women are are incredibly talented when it comes to deceiving males, and that you in your naivete suck at reading them.

You thought she liked you the entire time and got your hopes up. That's what women do.

Frankly it's a good thing that she outed herself as being full of shit so early on, not a year later when she has destroyed your life and stolen your assets with her tact and duplicity.

You can't can't take half of the The Red Pill, you have to take all of it, and it is unkind.

[RougeNoir]

*Reads headline and expects rejection of epic proportion. Reads rejection, then * It could have been worse my brother.

[jdelisi]

Take it like a man next time. What do you think you are the only guy to ever get a fake number from a girl on the street?

And next time don't tell your sob stories on a public forum.

[el mechanico]

(11-12-2012 11:02 AM)jdelisi Wrote:  

Take it like a man next time. What do you think you are the only guy to ever get a fake number from a girl on the street?

And next time don't tell your sob stories on a public forum.

A man doesn't let women disrespect them and get away without a little pain. Like I said if someone treats me like that they'll wish they didn't after our interaction is complete.

[Kid Strangelove]

[Feo]

^hahaha. That was great bro...

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Man, you should've gone with your instincts, called her out, and Rick James'd her ass. When the interaction was done, smile and walk away. After all you had nothing to lose and everything to gain. Bonus points if next time this happens you make her cry.

[theIVth]

I woulda looked at the card and said something about it. Something as simple as "why you giving me a card that's not even yours?" That woulda been enough to keep the convo going and you may have been able to convert her. Maybe not. But at least you would have embarrassed her and made it easier for the next man.

[iknowexactly]

(11-13-2012 11:41 AM)theIVth Wrote:  

I woulda looked at the card and said something about it. Something as simple as "why you giving me a card that's not even yours?" That woulda been enough to keep the convo going and you may have been able to convert her. Maybe not. But at least you would have embarrassed her and made it easier for the next man.

This is extremely rude of her; but w/o knowing circumstances could be a mistake, I like the above, also:

You: You gave me someone else's card, by mistake I'm sure.

This gives her a chance to backpedal; if not....

Her: (Smug smirk)

I like the upbringing insult that Roosh advocated, something like-


You: (Narrow eyes as if disgusted) Were you really brought up to be so antisocial? (if she isn't cowed yet, you can continue-) Maybe your parents were actually nice, and you're the problem.

She will have a hard time processing/responding to this, first you insult her parents, then reverse it and make her the problem. Very disorienting.

I'm really liking the antisocial insult; it's the comeback for their "creepy" shit. It also suggests criminality as well as lack of charm, poor social skills, and lower class background-- exactly what they are terrified of being.

[Parlay44]

Rejection is a gift. She could have friendzoned your ass.

[haywire]

(11-13-2012 11:52 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Rejection is a gift. She could have friendzoned your ass.

Exactly. Then you would have been way more frustrated. There's still a chance, if you run into her again, that she might give in, but friendzone is a one-way street.

[snoop]

(11-12-2012 11:08 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

A man doesn't let women disrespect them and get away without a little pain. Like I said if someone treats me like that they'll wish they didn't after our interaction is complete.

I don't see what was so disrespectful about it, she blew him off, it happens.