I had a long conversation with a HB6 (I'm new to this) at an engagement party Saturday night. We are both mutual friends of the bride to be. I started making conversation with her, and even initiated her friend. The conversation went well and I felt it was a good approach. Lasted about 30 minutes or more. The girls seemed to like me, and even asked if I had a girlfriend etc.
At the end of the night, as the girl is leaving. I get her number. She insists that I call her. I text her 2 days later, and ask her about her week, ands if she started her new job. She asked about the wedding I went to the following night, and seemed to remember me well. After a few texts, I asked her out. and she agreed. We made the date for Thursday (This was Tuesday) at noon for lunch.
Thursday at 11 am. she texts me to cancel. She asks if I'm available next week and suggested a bar. Her excuse was that a friend from work was taking her out for a goodbye lunch (as this was her second last day) I say I am busy on Tuesday and Wendesday night, she replies she is not sure of her schedule, but that she's sorry and we'll be in touch next week. She said be in touch, not call me or I'll call you.
This girl seemed to be nice, interested in me, and somewhat excited to go out. Maybe her excuse is legit, but it seems like she flaked out of me.
Should I follow up with this girl, If so when?
What should I say? Should I call her on her shit in a playful way?
Why do girls flake out so often?
At the end of the night, as the girl is leaving. I get her number. She insists that I call her. I text her 2 days later, and ask her about her week, ands if she started her new job. She asked about the wedding I went to the following night, and seemed to remember me well. After a few texts, I asked her out. and she agreed. We made the date for Thursday (This was Tuesday) at noon for lunch.
Thursday at 11 am. she texts me to cancel. She asks if I'm available next week and suggested a bar. Her excuse was that a friend from work was taking her out for a goodbye lunch (as this was her second last day) I say I am busy on Tuesday and Wendesday night, she replies she is not sure of her schedule, but that she's sorry and we'll be in touch next week. She said be in touch, not call me or I'll call you.
This girl seemed to be nice, interested in me, and somewhat excited to go out. Maybe her excuse is legit, but it seems like she flaked out of me.
Should I follow up with this girl, If so when?
What should I say? Should I call her on her shit in a playful way?
Why do girls flake out so often?