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Are you more likely to get laid if you never mention sex?
11-04-2012, 01:50 AM
I've had this happen many times. I've been out with women, met for drinks or coffee, make them laugh etc...
After I sense she's comfortable I go for the makeout and escalate things from there - whilst I'm making out with them, I tell them what I would do if were were in private. Sometimes I'll say sexually explicit stuff , and put the image in their mind of being fucked by me. Usually they get so turned on they come back to mine, or we'll arrange a second meet at my place. A lot of the time I never talk about sex.
Here's the thing - if I mention sex too early, wouldn't most women think I'm a bit sleazy and get scared off? I tend to find that not talking about sex makes me look more "normal' to the women...this makes them more comfortable and I go in for the kill - what do you guys think?
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11-04-2012, 02:16 AM
There's absolutely no need to talk about sex. Actions speak louder than words. But if you've got the right vibe, it can work.
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11-04-2012, 12:27 PM
Quote: (11-04-2012 02:16 AM)RawGod Wrote:
There's absolutely no need to talk about sex. Actions speak louder than words. But if you've got the right vibe, it can work.
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11-06-2012, 05:44 PM
After the getting to know you talk, I force myself to transition to a sexy discussion. Talk about dating. Ask in a fun way "So have you ever had a one night stand?" If not, I say: "What! Your not serious. Well actually for me, I almost always go back for seconds. But I've been with some spectacular woman while traveling though." I say this before any makeout attempt.
Lately, I've been meeting professional woman in their early 30's and they talk too much about work. They really enjoy the more emotional talk, but I need to break that talk barrier. One woman, I sensed was getting excited and actually said "OMG, i'm loving this conversation. How did we even start talking about this." (She is divorced after 7 years, and did have a ONS. The next morning the guy was pure beta and rested his head on her lap like a lap dog, he also wanted to stay at her place all day. After that, she booted him, forever.)
I'll also throw in, "relax, we don't have to have a one night stand tonight" (with a smirk) and boom, that makes them think of a ONS with you. I'm fine without a same night lay, so from there I just progress naturally to not scare the cat. The progression is much easier after sex talk.
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11-06-2012, 05:56 PM
I have a homey who pulls it off with flying colors. It rarely works for me. I'm much better off being nonchalant and letting things escalate naturally.
That said, I do love being sexually explicit with women I've already fucked - texting them images of their own pussy, a chair I've eaten them out or fucked them in, or of them give me head, etc. This works nicely when they are at work in an formal environment or sitting across the room from you in a public place. Once you've already had sex with them a few times, keeping them in that constant horny state pays huge dividends and they're pretty much dripping every time you see them.
As far as the dates go, it sounds like you have experience with both methods. Why not just continue testing, compare results, and report back?
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