How do you meet women if you almost zero social life & almost no friends? I’m of Indian heritage but born and raised in UK, now living in Los Angeles. Late 30’s 5’10”, 180lb.
I came here for grad school but most of my friends from then have left town or are married or settled down.
I have a Taiwanese lady who I screw occasionally, she’s fallen for me hard, I told her I’m not looking for anything but she texts me all the time and asks comes up to my place to “hang out”. She’s got a very unattractive face but a great body and big natural boobs. I close my eyes when I kiss her!
So what do I do to meet women? I drink, I’m fine going to bars and lounges but I hate nightclubs. I’m not an anti-social person, I just have a lack of friends so I never go! I don’t really go out much at all. I occasionally meet ex-classmates for beers from university, say once every 3-4 months, but they’re not super close friends. There’s no guy I know that I can hang out with every week.
I never approach women ever, I’m very shy in that sense. The funny thing is, if I was introduced to a lady at a function, I’d have no problem talking to her whatsoever. I’m pretty good at conversation, provided I feel something in common with the woman.
Other the hand…
Online – I’m meeting quite a lot of women & I’ve slept with many. I use OKC most of the time – I find POF to be pretty crappy.
I’ve slept with women of all races, but most of them are Asian (as in East Asian) or white. Chinese women from China seem to love me because I know a shit load about Chinese stuff; a lot of black American women like me too.
Nobody ever contacts me on OKC or POF – I have to do the chasing. I think in 5 years I’ve had probably 10 women say hi to me – almost all of them gross and fat.
I last slept with somebody on Saturday, she’s white American, and her parents were from UK. I asked her to visit my place and had her on my bed within 20 mins of her walking into my apt. I had IM’d her at 1am the night before, we spoke on the phone from around 2-3am. She was at my place at 6pm! She told me she got wet just talking to me last night and I never mentioned any sexual once. She loved the fact that she was talking to a British guy.
Unfortunately, she was terrible in bed and I don’t think I’ll see her again. She said she said she had gotten divorced a few months ago and just wanted to have some fun.
I would say I have game in seducing a lady into my bed once she’s in my apt, but in the outside world, I have no game whatsoever. How can I fix this?
In terms of appearance I would say I’m average looking, I go to the gym. I’m north Indian, I’m nothing like the stereotypical Indians as in the Indian Race Troll Thread. I have a British accent, medium brown skin & I have wide shoulders. I’m decently dressed, and I don’t smell of curry or BO. I have a short buzzcut and I look about 30, even though I’m 38. A lady thought I was 28 last week.
I came here for grad school but most of my friends from then have left town or are married or settled down.
I have a Taiwanese lady who I screw occasionally, she’s fallen for me hard, I told her I’m not looking for anything but she texts me all the time and asks comes up to my place to “hang out”. She’s got a very unattractive face but a great body and big natural boobs. I close my eyes when I kiss her!
So what do I do to meet women? I drink, I’m fine going to bars and lounges but I hate nightclubs. I’m not an anti-social person, I just have a lack of friends so I never go! I don’t really go out much at all. I occasionally meet ex-classmates for beers from university, say once every 3-4 months, but they’re not super close friends. There’s no guy I know that I can hang out with every week.
I never approach women ever, I’m very shy in that sense. The funny thing is, if I was introduced to a lady at a function, I’d have no problem talking to her whatsoever. I’m pretty good at conversation, provided I feel something in common with the woman.
Other the hand…
Online – I’m meeting quite a lot of women & I’ve slept with many. I use OKC most of the time – I find POF to be pretty crappy.
I’ve slept with women of all races, but most of them are Asian (as in East Asian) or white. Chinese women from China seem to love me because I know a shit load about Chinese stuff; a lot of black American women like me too.
Nobody ever contacts me on OKC or POF – I have to do the chasing. I think in 5 years I’ve had probably 10 women say hi to me – almost all of them gross and fat.
I last slept with somebody on Saturday, she’s white American, and her parents were from UK. I asked her to visit my place and had her on my bed within 20 mins of her walking into my apt. I had IM’d her at 1am the night before, we spoke on the phone from around 2-3am. She was at my place at 6pm! She told me she got wet just talking to me last night and I never mentioned any sexual once. She loved the fact that she was talking to a British guy.
Unfortunately, she was terrible in bed and I don’t think I’ll see her again. She said she said she had gotten divorced a few months ago and just wanted to have some fun.
I would say I have game in seducing a lady into my bed once she’s in my apt, but in the outside world, I have no game whatsoever. How can I fix this?
In terms of appearance I would say I’m average looking, I go to the gym. I’m north Indian, I’m nothing like the stereotypical Indians as in the Indian Race Troll Thread. I have a British accent, medium brown skin & I have wide shoulders. I’m decently dressed, and I don’t smell of curry or BO. I have a short buzzcut and I look about 30, even though I’m 38. A lady thought I was 28 last week.