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10-31-2012, 05:15 AM
I have a problem dudes. I go out alone and I get always refused at the doors of the clubs. This happens all the time if you don't enter with a mixed group. Girls always get in off course.
Thing is: it gets in my head (depression).
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10-31-2012, 07:22 AM
Ask girls, can I go with you?
I did that at vegas since they require 1:1 ratio.
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10-31-2012, 10:49 AM
^^^^^^^
2. Go earlier.
3. Dress to kill.
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refused in clubs
10-31-2012, 02:33 PM
Do a quick pickup with a group of girls...not the super hotties but the good-lucking ones. Try either straightup game or "My friend's inside but her phone was running low. Now I can't get her to come let me in" The normal girls might bite.
Otherwise, get to know the promoters - their name should be on the flyers, all you have to do is signup for the FB or email list or get on their call list, and they'll add you to guest list.
Option 3: day game girls (doesn't matter if you fuck em or not, or stick with em in the club), and escort one or two of them.
Obviously, if you're always solo, you're a newbie, so Option 3 may be best as it will improve your game via the day game tactics.
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10-31-2012, 04:09 PM
How are you dressed to these clubs? Do you display confidence when walking up to the bouncer? Do you show some backbone when refused entrance? These are some traits bouncers look for in order to weed out who they deem doesnt deserve to get inside.
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11-01-2012, 12:15 AM
Also, the last thing you should do is let it get into your head and make you depressed. It definitely sucks to be denied entry into a club, but the only reason is because you are a penis having male. Although, I think the users giving you suggestions about networking/dress/demeanor is totally valid, don't get bent out of shape about not getting in. This will only lead to valuing women too highly and negatively affect your game.
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11-01-2012, 04:44 AM
stop going out alone. it sucks. meet cute girls and go out with them. you will get in everywhere
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11-01-2012, 06:44 PM
I dunno what the nightlife is like by you, but why not skip clubs altogether, especially if you're a noob and having trouble. Hit up the bar scene and develop random-person-socializing skills until you can follow the above advice and "meet" girls outside the clubs to go in with you.