[Rick91]

@prodigy

How's that going for you? Have you turned into an approach machine or has it made you lethargic and lazy like what happened to dagonet and FFY.

I also noticed another thing when i jack it all the time. I will literally wake up 2 or 3 times in the middle of the night with a boner. Like morning glory but on overdrive. Usually I will have just been thinking about what ever kind of porn i was jacking it over (usually exotic girls getting ass fucked) or whatever girl i'v been scoping out on thai friendly. Another thing, i get boners super easy with girls that respond to me on dating sites even if their pics aren't that sexual.

[Auro]

Just because i'm new this isn't a troll post, just the first post where i could post about a topic i know about.

I used to jack it 4 times a day every day for 3 years. (13-16) It got to a point where after orgasm cum wouldn't come out. (Don't know if that is healthy, lol!)
Rick a question for you, have you ever had massive headaches after orgasm? that's why i ended up quitting, but now i constantly get wood all day practically? I think my refractory period is shot to smithereens. Also my sex drive is massive, not a good thing as i end up lowering standards to bust a quick nut..


By the way i don't use porn... Just my imagination...

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

I used to do it like this for several years, mostly because of the circumstances (I was really horny, even for a teenager, and being absolutely Beta couldn't get a girl to save my life). I also added porn in the later years, which only made the things more intensive. Then when I finally got around to being with a girl, I found out that I couldn't get it up, and when I could my erections were really spotty and unreliable.

I decided to quit cold turkey and have been successful. My sex life is great now and I'd never go back to any kind of porn, multiple fapping per day, or even daily or semi-daily fapping. My hypothesis is that excessive fapping can damage your penis and make it useless for actual sex, so I don't want to go there again.

[Rick91]

@auro,

no, i'v had headaches through fapping, i just tend to feel fantastic.

@ Eel,

I jack it all the time and i'm an awesome bang. You said you had problems when you were not getting with much girls and fapping all the time. Chances are you just weren't used to fucking girls at the time.

[bojangles]

im fapping daily, it has no effect either way, if i fap or not. Not getting laid is more of a motivation for me

[SelfPaid]

(11-06-2012 04:34 AM)Auro Wrote:  

Just because i'm new this isn't a troll post, just the first post where i could post about a topic i know about.

I used to jack it 4 times a day every day for 3 years. (13-16) It got to a point where after orgasm cum wouldn't come out. (Don't know if that is healthy, lol!)
Rick a question for you, have you ever had massive headaches after orgasm? that's why i ended up quitting, but now i constantly get wood all day practically? I think my refractory period is shot to smithereens. Also my sex drive is massive, not a good thing as i end up lowering standards to bust a quick nut..


By the way i don't use porn... Just my imagination...

Good fore you not having to use Porn have you tried to funnel you're horniness into Productivity, Making Money, Working out ect ? That's what worked for me instead of "lowering my standards"

[Rick91]

I don't have to use porn it's just a whole lot of fun. If i can't sleep i will bust one out over a past experience or girl i know.

[_GQ_]

Won't this cause premature ejaculation? If you're constantly fapping all day and finishing as quickly as you can, won't your body make a 'habit' of finishing early?

[Rick91]

No I usually enjoy fapping and if i have the day off i'l go 2-3 hours leading to a massive orgasm and cumshot. What it teaches you is to have complete control over your pc muscle. You can however ejaculate within seconds if the occasion calls for it.

But 2 times a week i also do pc muscle exercises. I use porn for them, (preferably xvideos as you can always see the timer) and my method differ somewhat from what is preached on the net. I'v done the pc muscle exercises and let me tell you if you over do it you will have premature ejaculation. (pc exercise muscles were originaly intended for women that struggled to orgasm, it makes them more sensitive)

What i do is once i'm hard i will try to bend my cock while contracting my pc muscles. I will do this for 5 to 10 secs, then masterbate for 10 and then relax for 15. You can target different areas of the cock. What it does is create immense pressure inside the cock and swells it. I use it for gaining girth and strength. It's also a lot of fun compared to the stuff they preach on the net.

p.s. i have not injured myself doing this and i imagine it would be very hard to. The aim is to workout your cock not your arms. Remember that and you will be fine.

[SelfPaid]

I stil don't realy get what the benfit's are with faping all day cool that it works fore you but I choose to not fap anymore since to me it's a waste of time and energy that you can use fore everything.

I am more productive if I can't do it I have more energy and I am hornier in a good way. I have installed great habbit's and routines in my life which is important for me since I don't really have to do anything but still want to improove myself and create better results fore my Live.

So fore me not fapping ore limited fapping work's great you may laugh but I sometimes even just forget that I have the chance to fapp since I have so many things I can do know and never bored so I feel I don't realy need it that much.

Peace
Self Paid

[Prophylaxis]

(11-06-2012 06:19 PM)SelfPaid Wrote:  

I choose to not fap anymore since to me it's a waste of time and energy that you can use fore everything.

This is my exact reason as well. It's total bullshit that porn causes ED or pre-mature ejaculation. I just don't do it on the regular as it destroys motivation and time. I don't buy the sex-drive affects either. I have a strong feeling a high sex-drive person will be high-sex drive regardless.

I think people look for reasons to justify spending countless hours jackin it to porn, to feel better about themselves, this is natural human behaviour.

Much better off harnessing your strong sexual drive to accomplish goals, not just sprayin it all over the wall. Think of what other projects the OP could have been working on instead of jacking it!

[Rick91]

Jesus christ, i do not jack it 10 times a day everyday. I tend to jack it after 10pm and i will have 3 orgasms over the course of an hour if i'm not out trying to bang chicks for real. If it's a sunday then i go mad.

What projects are you on about? Are your "projects" actually achieving anything.

Try this for a project. Find yourself a skill that you actually like to do. It can be absolutely anything. Work on that skill 6-8 hours a day, 5-6 days a week for 3 years. I'v chosen mine its gonna be fighting. I start next may.

I will also be south east asia for those 3 years and i intend on fucking several times a day everyday with as much chicks as i want.

I will do both these things, maybe your right though maybe some guys just aren't born for this. Reason being your sex drives suck. Mine is awesome it pretty much always has been. Regardless i found a way that made it more powerful.

I shared my experience. If you have no interest init that's cool. But i do believe that guys who struggle getting hard with girls, guys who blow their loads to quickly or not at all and guys that have trouble building motivation about approaching could benefit a large amount from listening to what i'm saying.

[SelfPaid]

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I think people look for reasons to justify spending countless hours jackin it to porn, to feel better about themselves, this is natural human behaviour.

Much better off harnessing your strong sexual drive to accomplish goals, not just sprayin it all over the wall. Think of what other projects the OP could have been working on instead of jacking it!
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That is what I mean, Like I said OP that's no offence to you but I have been there and jacked of like it's my carere so I know what I am talking about and it didn't do shit fore me that is my experience the only thing it did is killed my motivation and made me sad depressed and lazy. Maybe they are other reasons fore that happening but feeling my free time with jacking of isn't what realy helped me achieve anything when it comes to girls money or fitness.

And since you where saying you had problems finding a Job that just prooves my point more.

It's great that you made it work fore you and you're in Asia fucking girls I understand that you have achieved the succes you wanted and that is good for you but just because you could do it doesen't mean it's good advice so don't stress to much that people just have other experiences when it comes to fapping alot ore not fapping to much. You have to respect differences of Experiences.

[Rick91]

Okay whatever i don't actually care. This thread was meant for people who had been doing the whole anti fapp thing and found it wasn't the magic pill they were hoping for.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

No, you misunderstand a part of what I'm trying to say. While there is a possibility that my ED problems did not come from porn but instead came just from inexperience with girls, and thus they vanished when I gained experience instead of when I (simultaneously) quit porn/frequent fapping, I'm experiencing huge benefits and don't want to risk them.

There is a small chance that porn might be blameless. But I'm not going there again to test it.

[RASER]

This is gold!:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_5pjXEOJoc

"Lifes about, shooting your load"