[Checkerz]

Hey gurus / guide / masters

I go to this uni..... It's small I'll say.

I'm well dressed and well known. From what I gather it intimidates a lot of people.
I try to get with girls in this place and I get blocked by people wanting to meet me. I should have a much higher success rate. I'm so pissed I might just move uni. Though running away never helped anyone I suppose.

It's all b.s when I'm not gaming People don't bump into me. to as many people as when I am. My friends tell me that girls with boyfriends try it on with me all the time . I par them off I'm Not here to poach. I'm not the best looking guy but I try.

I'm stuck


Then there's this whole business of my wingmen ( I say wingmen but I mean social proof who go with you into the abyss for banter and ladies alone... They got kicked out)

I can call the cop out and say I'm blocked And i accept that its my fault. but what I really need is guidance. From a guy in the field anyone from anyone who doesn't have this problem.

I'm Asking if anyone lives in the United Kingdom and has some available time... To help me out. I'll do the traveling we can have a few drinks... But I think i need actual guidance which I'd appreciate.


Anyone up for it? Good chance to meet up and see some faces!

[Screwston]

You and Alberto should team up

[AlbertoDelMuerto]

I do, send me your number

[Checkerz]

Thanks people.

[The Fantasist]

Can you break down a little bit more what exactly your sticking point is? You say you're very well known and it intimidates people,how do you mean?

If you're problem is merely that you are well known ( that is usually a good thing -unless it's for the wrong reasons ) then why not game where you are not known by people I.e not on campus.

Break it down a little bit more...

[Matt3B]

Yeah, I'm struggling to see what your problem is.

Also, if a girl with a boyfriend is hitting on you, you should shag her.

[Checkerz]

I think I'm too polite and not forward enough. With my intentions. I wouldn't get blocked so much if I was more deliberate. I would also just dismiss more of these people.

Example ... I was talking to a girl about a 7 just got out of the approach into some early mid stage stuff. Then a friend (who is more like a friend you are not close with but not distant with) comes in the middle and starts asking about a phone and then walks away. He comes back 5 mins later and says can I ask this girl something. I say yeah sure, thinking that its a short question.. Then he begins with a his own approach. It sucked ... I mean he opened with asking for a number or something... I dunno. .... The principle is what pissed me off. I warned him afterward.


But then I get shit like... I talk to a girl... A drunk guy will come up to my back and say to the girl.... While pointing to me... "This is the best guy in uni... He's an absolute legend" etc. ruins my flow. I'm indirect mostly so it makes the whole thing obvious. My head goes blank.

I want to learn how to be direct and smooth too.It may work better here. I don't know if you saw a video on YouTube called "beast mode" where this guy just walks up to girls during the day.

He's assertive ... I'm sure he's trolling as he's painful to watch . I would like to do that, but with more style and obviously a better method. Though I wonder if reading up on this will only get you so far.