[Beyond Borders]

Does this ever happen to you?

I was in a bar the other night hitting on these two girls and this other woman walked by and we had some crazy eye contact, looking each other up and down, etc. I just stopped our conversation mid-sentence to reach out and pull the new one over for a chat. Big hug with my hands all over her ass and her pushing herself all over me. She whispered in my ear that she was there with a guy but would be back in a sec.

When she walked away, the girls I'd been talking with were like "Did you know her?" No. "That was awesome!" one said. lol You could tell she really meant it and was majorly impressed by the sexual energy - maybe even a little jealous. I didn't pull the woman that it happened with - she came back to dance with me but dude hovered around her all night and I was too busy hitting on the rest of the bar to bother competing.

I've had a lot of these compliments from other women that my friends were dating, etc, too. I remember my buddy's chick wouldn't shut up about some number I pulled from a waitress all through the rest of the dinner - I knew the waitresses name already, and there was some serious energy, so I just typed her name in my phone then walked up and handed it to her. My friend's girl kept telling me how impressed she was by the way I pulled the whole thing off and that she hadn't expected it from me.

A fuck buddy once remarked that nothing turned her on more than a guy with solid, bold game. It's funny because natural instinct for most of us is to avoid looking like to much of a player, but in my actual experience they really eat that shit up so I guess no shame in your game is the way to go.

Anyone else have stories like this?

[TheWolfHowls]

Without a doubt . That's because its the natural order of things. In the end of the day, its what women are drawn to...thank god. lol. I remember a few times women complimented how direct and dominant i was when i was talking to other chicks saying that its great to see guys still taking charge these days and just cutting all the BS. I remember a FB i had earlier this year who was polish told me that she hoped that i wouldn't fuck any other polish chicks cuz it'd make her jealous and that they tended to really go for the dominant style.

Plus BeyondBorders, i agree...its good to embrace coming off as a player. To the doubters, Think about it, if a woman was definitely into you...do you think coming off as a player would truly kill your chances with her? It would only amplify it and get her jealous. For the situations where guys say "I looked too much like a player is the reason i lost her" I don't think she was into the guy all that much in the first place.

Women want guys who are good with other women.

[TXH]

Social intelligence by itself is very valuable to women. The most recent compliment I got in this vein was on a first date to a house party. All I did was introduce myself to everyone, and vibe like I knew them; it doesn't take much. Just never turn your charisma off. Adapt it to the situation, but adapt it to as many situations as you want, and this will happen more often.

[Catch 22]

Absolutely. One fun one I had recently was this girl on a D2 who was offended that I had the condom in my pocket and not in my wallet. She was surprised I had it all ready and knew I was going to get the lay. But she hooked hard after that, so I suspect she liked it.

[TXH]

Catch 22 Wrote:

I had the condom in my pocket and not in my wallet.

Nice. Being one step ahead of girls adds to the social intelligence and dominance. Like taking an LTR on a weekend trip but leaving the destination a surprise. "Don't worry babe, I'll take care of everything." The more you let your actions speak for themselves, the better. For an extreme example, check out "Nine And A Half Weeks," the book version.

I often hide the condom under a pillow when we get on the bed. Then instead of fumbling for my pants, I just bring it out like magic.

[Enigma]

(10-15-2012 11:45 PM)TXH Wrote:  

Catch 22 Wrote:

I had the condom in my pocket and not in my wallet.

Nice. Being one step ahead of girls adds to the social intelligence and dominance. Like taking an LTR on a weekend trip but leaving the destination a surprise. "Don't worry babe, I'll take care of everything." The more you let your actions speak for themselves, the better. For an extreme example, check out "Nine And A Half Weeks," the book version.

I often hide the condom under a pillow when we get on the bed. Then instead of fumbling for my pants, I just bring it out like magic.

I'm gonna try this and hit her with the "what's that behind your ear?"