So recently I was suffering from a 4 month dry spell (getting 1 night out every 2 weeks certainly didnt help) after having had an epic month of pussy in poosy paradise.
I actually think that month did me just as much bad as it did to me good. But in the long run led me to this mindset which i will explain.
Enough is enough
Basically it got to the point where I knew something major had to be done. I had become lazy with my approaches and was getting butt-hurt when things didnt go my way. I found myself actually fantasizing about things i could have said to get my own back from a rejection. I had a mindset of it being all the womens fault, a mindset that i believe can lead men into some sort of "blackpill" type of existence (for those who dont know of the black pill i advise you google him and prepare to be disturbed and amused at the same time).
The solution
1- It's time for some self-refection. I started a habit which originated from the idea that tyler from rsd nation floated around of meditating. I personally can't stand the idea of sitting around thinking of nothing for 20 minutes. I dont care what the benefits are that shit just doesnt sit well with me. So what I did instead is take 60 mins an evening of putting thoughts to paper. Actually writing them down. Heres some things to do to kick start the process.
- Expand your gaming material. Find a source thats not connected to where your usually getting your info from. Someone from a different perspective from what your used to and thats generally recommended throughout the net. Someone thats got plenty of free material as well and that doesnt charge ridiculous amounts. (i won't name names as i dont want banned for spamming i will only say that theres a few other recent threads by different posters who's style of game looks a lot like the game i've started spitting)
- I did this it made me question my mindsets and beliefs, my approaches, what i wanted from the women, what I'am doing with my life and the most important of all it made me look into my weaknesses.
- Apply your hopefully recently gained knowledge to your situation. What is your best course of action? Mine was optimizing sprint game. I've got 1 night out in 14. I really need to kill it that very night. The fact my choices are go back to a chicks place and get laid or spend nearly 8 hours at the 24 hour casino until my bus arrives to take me back to the sticks. This fact doesnt half motivate me.
2- Consider laying off the masterbating and porn. I often mocked this on the no-fap thread and i still think trying to break world records for not fapping is a dangerous game. Yet the effects and edge it can give you against a dry spell cannot be ignored. Unfortunately i didnt actually manage to wait till the saturday night when i went out and ended up jacking it about 10 times beforehand. Thank fuck for my retardedly high sex drive or I may not have been able to perform for the chick.
That aside the effects i noticed were...
- I was productive as fuck. I usually jack it to porn all the time as its the easiest way to avoid reality and escape from boredom. When I denied myself that option it made me see that there is soo much i could get done in a day.
(NOTE- i really was jacking it far too much, iam talking double digits everyday so you might already just do productive things with your day)
- Throughout the week I found myself having surges of energy when coming across hot women. A brief flash of a chick in her underwear looked awesome to me. Usually she would have to be like having her asshole smashed for me to even notice.
- When I actually went on porn, I ended up jacking it to some softcore erotic pornstar called dominika c fingering herself. She was genuinely beutiful and feminine. Traits pornstars rarely keep a hold off. I actually found that more exciting.
The results
Basically my process and beliefs for approaching, screening and rejection were given an overhaul.
The style of game I've started using basically consists of finding girls that are already attracted or making neutral girls decide faster. I welcome rejection from unrecptive girls and thank them for not wasting my time. I then basically reveal who i'am to her. Real things, good things, embarrasing things but all honest things and at the same time i arouse her by esculating.
I will also give roosh props because if wasnt for him i wouldnt have gotten the bang. Thank fuck for the weasel toilet move.
Anyone else have anything they do for ending a formidable dry spell other than the obvious and moving to poosy paradise?
NOTE- If you end yours by method of whore then consider yourself still on one.
I actually think that month did me just as much bad as it did to me good. But in the long run led me to this mindset which i will explain.
Enough is enough
Basically it got to the point where I knew something major had to be done. I had become lazy with my approaches and was getting butt-hurt when things didnt go my way. I found myself actually fantasizing about things i could have said to get my own back from a rejection. I had a mindset of it being all the womens fault, a mindset that i believe can lead men into some sort of "blackpill" type of existence (for those who dont know of the black pill i advise you google him and prepare to be disturbed and amused at the same time).
The solution
1- It's time for some self-refection. I started a habit which originated from the idea that tyler from rsd nation floated around of meditating. I personally can't stand the idea of sitting around thinking of nothing for 20 minutes. I dont care what the benefits are that shit just doesnt sit well with me. So what I did instead is take 60 mins an evening of putting thoughts to paper. Actually writing them down. Heres some things to do to kick start the process.
- Expand your gaming material. Find a source thats not connected to where your usually getting your info from. Someone from a different perspective from what your used to and thats generally recommended throughout the net. Someone thats got plenty of free material as well and that doesnt charge ridiculous amounts. (i won't name names as i dont want banned for spamming i will only say that theres a few other recent threads by different posters who's style of game looks a lot like the game i've started spitting)
- I did this it made me question my mindsets and beliefs, my approaches, what i wanted from the women, what I'am doing with my life and the most important of all it made me look into my weaknesses.
- Apply your hopefully recently gained knowledge to your situation. What is your best course of action? Mine was optimizing sprint game. I've got 1 night out in 14. I really need to kill it that very night. The fact my choices are go back to a chicks place and get laid or spend nearly 8 hours at the 24 hour casino until my bus arrives to take me back to the sticks. This fact doesnt half motivate me.
2- Consider laying off the masterbating and porn. I often mocked this on the no-fap thread and i still think trying to break world records for not fapping is a dangerous game. Yet the effects and edge it can give you against a dry spell cannot be ignored. Unfortunately i didnt actually manage to wait till the saturday night when i went out and ended up jacking it about 10 times beforehand. Thank fuck for my retardedly high sex drive or I may not have been able to perform for the chick.
That aside the effects i noticed were...
- I was productive as fuck. I usually jack it to porn all the time as its the easiest way to avoid reality and escape from boredom. When I denied myself that option it made me see that there is soo much i could get done in a day.
(NOTE- i really was jacking it far too much, iam talking double digits everyday so you might already just do productive things with your day)
- Throughout the week I found myself having surges of energy when coming across hot women. A brief flash of a chick in her underwear looked awesome to me. Usually she would have to be like having her asshole smashed for me to even notice.
- When I actually went on porn, I ended up jacking it to some softcore erotic pornstar called dominika c fingering herself. She was genuinely beutiful and feminine. Traits pornstars rarely keep a hold off. I actually found that more exciting.
The results
Basically my process and beliefs for approaching, screening and rejection were given an overhaul.
The style of game I've started using basically consists of finding girls that are already attracted or making neutral girls decide faster. I welcome rejection from unrecptive girls and thank them for not wasting my time. I then basically reveal who i'am to her. Real things, good things, embarrasing things but all honest things and at the same time i arouse her by esculating.
I will also give roosh props because if wasnt for him i wouldnt have gotten the bang. Thank fuck for the weasel toilet move.
Anyone else have anything they do for ending a formidable dry spell other than the obvious and moving to poosy paradise?
NOTE- If you end yours by method of whore then consider yourself still on one.