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social circle game
#1

social circle game

I don't have too many friends now while abroad, I wonder how do I make new social circles like cold approach, work, acquittance..?
How do I get people introduce girls to me? Like parties, going to bars? I often feel weird hitting on girls that I'm friends with or I already know unless they are really hot. how I do extract girls from acquittance?
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#2

social circle game

Not that you're going to pull this off the first time you do it, but I think a pretty good way to make guy friends is the combo of looking cool + demonstrating that you can successfully cold approach + buying them a drink.

So what you do, is first you look cool and be cool and come off like a guy that does well with women. Go to a bar on the early side, and if you see 2-3 guys who also look cool, casually chat them up elderly style. Since you are cool and have interesting things to say, and a lot of good questions to ask about the area and the women (as we all know, us men like to be asked their "expert opinion" on things) they won't mind talking to you.

when the girls start showing up, start approaching. If you are seen successfully cold approaching, getting laughs from girls, and of course getting numbers/kisses, the guys you were talking to before will definitely want to know you. Seal the deal of friendship by buying shots when they bump into again after you've been approaching for a while. By then it should be a time in the night when everyone's in the solidly sauced/party mode, and a random guy buying them a shot will seem like the nicest most amazing thing anyone's ever done. before you/they leave just ask for one of their numbers, don't be afraid to admit you have no/few friends, since after all you are new in town. No homo.

As for attracting girl aquantences, I think the key thing to remember is that you're already past the attraction phase most of time--that is if you look cool and have sufficient social proof. You don't need to hardcore on the teasing or boldness or weird openers to start things off--assuming you're at a party or bar, confident nice guy game should suffice in the beginning. then as the evening progresses just smoothly escalate with touching, light teasing, jokes, occasional sexual innuendo, the usual shit. Don't think of it as "hitting on" the girl at first, think of it more like you're already on the date.
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#3

social circle game

You can't get one (ie social circle game) without the others (ie cold approach game, platonic male friend game). They all develop hand-in-hand and more or less simultaneously.

Like Jeans said, you gotta be cool - look and act cool. And you don't become cool overnight. Shedding all the proverbial fat to realize your true, raw, unflappable 'cool' nature is a long, long process.

If you are already friends with a girl and want to meet her friends, experiment with different things: a) tell her direct, "hey im interested in your friend, tell me a little bit about her so I have things to talk about with her." b) (indirect) ask them how they know each other then talk, talk, talk.

If you know a guy in a group you can use the same methods to introduce yourself to female girl friends.
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#4

social circle game

Do you have any friends/coworkers?
Unless you spend whole days in your room, I am sure you do. Tell them you want to meet their friends (first you have to befriend them if they are your "only" coworkers).
Basically, you have to be interesting/cool guy: be cocky & funny all the time (no matter if they are girls or guys). But especially if they are girls. I had my female friends invite their female friends to my home for a drink and I would end up dating / banging some. Girls around should always feel attracted to you, you only escalate (in private) with your targets.
Social circle game is a type of day game, which means you have to do it under the radar without too much direct display of interest and it can be done always in every social interaction (e.g. coffee with friends, dinners, museums,...).

I had a small social circle when I started with the game, but then I started pinging some acquaintances I haven't seen/heard from in ages ("What is going on? Let's grab a coffee next week?"). In a matter of couple of months my social circle ten folded and shortly I was banging my first social circle HB.

So, in order to expand your social circle you can do following. (You have to have some kind of game (i.e. attraction) handled before doing this. If you don't, go to night game for practice):
a) Befriend people that are part of your daily interactions and meet their friends (*do not* tell them you want to bang their friends, just be an interesting guy; female friends that dig you get it, will set you up)
b) Go to coffee shops or any other places where you can meet other people and befriend them (i.e. day game model)
c) Go to any social event (i.e. parties) and meet new people. Winter is coming (in Europe, at least) and now is a perfect time for social circle because everyone stays indoors.

Also, once you get introduced to new girl, and you start dating, tell her you would like to meet her friends. If her friends know that you two are doing something, you can't hit on them, but you can always befriend them, be interesting/cool and meet their friends. After some time it gets viral and you have as many new girls as you have time to invest in your social circle.

Another benefit of SCG is the day game benefit, and that is the quality of the girls. They come from social circle you are part of (similar people hang together) and are similar to your (friend's) interests.
It takes more time then night game (SNLs are rare, except on parties) though. Currently, this is my primary game mode. Night (club/dancing) game keeps it fresh and raw.
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