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how to proceed
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how to proceed

Met girl on a social networking site. Real cute chick that seems open to me. Had a real short convo with her and wondering how I should proceed.

here is the chat log, please critique [Image: smile.gif] I know it's not much.

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You wrote Re: no subject 27 hours ago
we ever going to talk? just delete me if you're not interested


She wrote Re: no subject 25 hours ago
Ever going to talk? Lol, I just matched you today... I know we've been matched before, but I've never had a star membership and I honestly don't remember if you had one then or not. Anyway, hope all is well and that I'll catch you later.

Ash (less..)


You wrote Re: no subject 4 hours ago
that's more like it

I like what you wrote in your profile. You come up with that?

She wrote Re: no subject 2 hours ago
Well thanks And yes, I did come up with it.


You wrote Re: no subject 119 minutes ago
Creative, I bet you could be a writer. What are you going to school for?


She wrote Re: no subject 107 minutes ago
Creativity is definitely one of my stronger points, but surprisingly - or maybe not so surprisingly - I'm going to school for Sports Management and Pre-Law. (less..)


You wrote Re: no subject 101 minutes ago
Interesting choice, what drew you into that?


She wrote Re: no subject 90 minutes ago
Well, I don't have an answer for the age old question of whether a leader is born or bred, but I know that I'm good at taking charge and heading up, as well as guiding, a group of people so I was naturally drawn to management. As far as the law is concerned... it's always interested me; refraining from a history lesson on my life and family lineage, law - or at least upholding the law - runs in the blood. And sports... well, who doesn't love sports? Honestly. I'm sort of a sports fanatic... and luckily - or maybe coincidentally - I've found a way to connect all three to my advantage and enjoyment; with the hopes of finding success in my strategy.



You wrote Re: no subject 77 minutes ago
Well that makes sense So what's a girl like you doing on this site? Are you single?


She wrote Re: no subject 63 minutes ago
A girl like me... hmm... and what, or who, exactly is a girl like me?

Single - to simplify a complicated matter, sorta trapped in one of those on again / off again relationships that's currently - and hopefully officially - off again, forever.


You wrote Re: no subject 48 minutes ago
Well I don't want to give it away, but you're certainly sharp and then some

Well it's time for me to go now. Since you are single, maybe we can talk more sometime or hangout?




She wrote Re: no subject 35 minutes ago
Don't want to give it away... I like that, leaves room for the imagination, future discussion, and discovery.

Talk more or hangout sounds great. To be determined later...

Glad we finally caught up to eachother. Have a great night and hopefully I'll talk to you sooner than later.
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how to proceed

It's a nice start and the opener was okay. I'd like to see you engage her a little more and take a little more control. Some would argue that asking a lot of questions about her and allowing her to talk about herself is a good approach because women in general like to brag about themselves. But I don't care for it because I think it creates a weak impression, gives her a sense of empowerment as if she controls the interaction, and if the conversation doesn't steer into a direction of becoming more interesting it'll be easy to lose her.

There was one time where I met this girl from WV through a chat room. We ended up hooking up and stuff later which was nice. I remember how our first conversation started.

Me: "Where are you from?"
Her: "WV"
Me: "You still have all your teeth?"
Her: "WHAT?!"

Followed by me qualifying her whether or not I should waste my time talking with her because people from WV are missing teeth. She then sends me a photo to prove to me she has her teeth and I close it off by being a smartass then tell her I was just teasing her about the whole thing.

But that's just generally how I went about engaging chicks whether in person or online. It was also a risky play on my part because people from the hill country are pretty sensitive about stereotypes, but I didn't care. Either she was going to come along or not.
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how to proceed

I thought the start was kinda meh. "Delete me if you're not interested" doesn't really say confidence, and it indicates to the girl that you're not so attracted to her that you couldn't just move on to the next girl--that last bit isn't necessarily a bad vibe to give off, but I would do it a bit more playfully and with more subtlety.

You can still be cocky, but girls like to know that a guy is at least putting some effort into seducing them--otherwise I think they find it insulting and kind of a turnoff.

For this girl, I would suggest you at least try to use proper grammar and punctuation, if only as a way to mirror her style. It's not an absolute dealbreaker, but in online encounters with girls, it certainly helps you sound smart/impressive/whatever.
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