[Cooze Hound]

I was at the club Saturday night with my GF. Where we were dancing up on the stage, and behind us were these dudes who had table service. In the group there was this one chubby young kid, maybe 22 -25 age.

As I was dancing with the GF and her friends, I was observing this group. His friends were approaching hard and getting dances, make outs and even a few dry humps on the couch. But the chubby fat kid, was standing around all night dance, checking out chicks, and not approaching. Even I was approaching with my GF there ( she is bi) btw with success.

Anyway, not to drag on I thought I would mention this site/forum to him or give him some words of elderly advice on talking to sluts. I mentioned it to my GF, who is a fan of this site ( she probably wants roosh's hairy turkish/persian balls smacking her ass... that slut) but she said I should not advise him or tell him about the site and that if he really wanted game he could figure it out.

I do not usually listen to her advice, but in my drunken state I did. This has been resonating with me the past couple days. Would you guys have felt the need to advise him on game or say just let it go? As I age I feel the need to help the younger generation score some tang.

[Therapsid]

Notice how girls *never* want guys to help out other guys and for men to improve with women. You were wrong to listen to your girlfriend. What is she saying? That the chubby kid should suffer for years, get cheated on repeatedly, have his heart broken by some fat tattooed cunt, and only after hurtling into the abyss of depression he might discover Neil Strauss' The Game and David DeAngelo and save himself.

[Virtus]

If a guy is fat the first thing to fix is that. stop being a fat fuck. stop with the god damn sugar and count calories.

[Menace]

You should have given him this business card:

[Faust]

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If a guy is fat the first thing to fix is that. stop being a fat fuck. stop with the god damn sugar and count calories.

You're right, man. You're totally right. But there's a couple steps to this. If you're going to stop being fat, there's two steps you've got to go through before you can even really begin.

1.) Realizing that the way you are isn't okay.
This sounds obvious as hell, but the truth is nobody tells a fat person they have to lose weight outside places like these. In the outside world it's "healthy at every size" and fat people on TV. I was just watching some show called "Hitch" on the TV at the gym, and it had some obese dude hooking up with a supermodel. Sure, once a year his doctor will tell him if he doesn't lose 50 pounds he'll have blood pressure problems in 20 years, but since when has that ever helped? And a lot of doctors won't even do that anymore, since Chub-o-sauruses everywhere have taking to bitching at the slightest suggestion that they put down the ice cream scoop.
But here in the manosphere, we've raised fat-shaming to a high art. No place in the world is as negative towards the obese as this one. If you start reading places like Roosh, Bronan, or UMan, it'll only be a few days before you're ready to hop on an exercise bike and not get off for the next three months.

2.) Realizing that it's worth the effort to fix it.
You can make lots of jokes about "put down the spoon" and "stop eating so many damn snickers bars". You can make some really damn funny ones, actually. We've all done it. But the truth is that losing weight is really, really hard. It takes constant, sustained effort. If you're doing it right, you're very quickly going to become exhausted, hungry, out of breath, and probably in a lot amount of pain. And the fatter you are, the worse it's going to be. Some people have the willpower to do it off of intrinsic motivation. Most don't. You need something else to drive you forward when you've got one last set to do and your limbs feel like they're about to fall off. And the single best motivator for a human male is sex. And where do you go if you want to find out how to get sex? Here.


So yeah, you're right, but still it would've been nice if the OP could've given the poor bastard a head's up that his life could be better. No changing the past, of course, but if anybody reading this ever finds themselves in a similar situation, it's something to think about.

[reino341]

Changing your life is such an enormous undertaking only a small percentage is capable of it.

Most people live in lower consciousness and pickup just can't be part of their reality.

Personally I'm tired of evangelizing pickup even to my beta friends. I've come forward many times giving them an opportunity to have some good time with me and meet girls but they always find some way of sabotaging themselves that gives them a lame excuse to let me down and not show up.

[Hades]

Losing weight is a pain in the ass if you have been XX pounds for a few years. I have tried eliminating junk calories as well as intermittently fasting once per week and upping my general workout but losing weight just takes a lot of time. I don't even look fat, I just want to get more cut.

(10-21-2012 04:48 AM)reino341 Wrote:  

Personally I'm tired of evangelizing pickup even to my beta friends. I've come forward many times giving them an opportunity to have some good time with me and meet girls but they always find some way of sabotaging themselves that gives them a lame excuse to let me down and not show up.

I know what you mean. I throw a few blue pill thoughts into the discussion every now and then but I usually get either a limp-wristed agreement or casually shot down with one (probably invented) anecdote. I'm not exactly dynamite with the ladies but I'm still leagues ahead of how my friends treat them.