OK, so about a month ago I met a guy through a 'wing meetup' on some pickup forum. He winged for me a few times. Now he's always texting me to go wing with him, which would be cool except for he's a total dork.
The last time I went out with him, every group of girls he entered started talking amongst themselves making cruel jokes like, "Hey Melissa it's not christmas, hahahaha, don't be nice just to be nice." Homeboy is oblivious to it, but it's fucking terrible. The guy is just a hardcore newbie and he's so bad that every set he enters the girls talk to him because they feel so fucking terrible for him - he rarely gets blown out of a set because of the extreme pity every girl has for him.
I feel bad for him cause he's like 24 & a friendly enough guy (with other men, even though he's socially retarded) but I'm pretty sure he's still a virgin. I took homeboy to get a new wardrobe to improve his game, but it did absolutely nothing.
At the end of the day, it's fucking embarrassing to be seen with this dude. I mean, I'm friends with a bunch of dorks, but they all have some value - like having a great fucking drug hookup, being an amusing storyteller, being an accounting wizard, etc. This dude has no value. How do I deal with this? Just stop responding to this dude's texts to 'sarge', or tell him straight up, "homey you're a dork with no value and I can't be your teacher, this is a journey you gotta do on your own."
The last time I went out with him, every group of girls he entered started talking amongst themselves making cruel jokes like, "Hey Melissa it's not christmas, hahahaha, don't be nice just to be nice." Homeboy is oblivious to it, but it's fucking terrible. The guy is just a hardcore newbie and he's so bad that every set he enters the girls talk to him because they feel so fucking terrible for him - he rarely gets blown out of a set because of the extreme pity every girl has for him.
I feel bad for him cause he's like 24 & a friendly enough guy (with other men, even though he's socially retarded) but I'm pretty sure he's still a virgin. I took homeboy to get a new wardrobe to improve his game, but it did absolutely nothing.
At the end of the day, it's fucking embarrassing to be seen with this dude. I mean, I'm friends with a bunch of dorks, but they all have some value - like having a great fucking drug hookup, being an amusing storyteller, being an accounting wizard, etc. This dude has no value. How do I deal with this? Just stop responding to this dude's texts to 'sarge', or tell him straight up, "homey you're a dork with no value and I can't be your teacher, this is a journey you gotta do on your own."