[HiFlo]

OK, so about a month ago I met a guy through a 'wing meetup' on some pickup forum. He winged for me a few times. Now he's always texting me to go wing with him, which would be cool except for he's a total dork.

The last time I went out with him, every group of girls he entered started talking amongst themselves making cruel jokes like, "Hey Melissa it's not christmas, hahahaha, don't be nice just to be nice." Homeboy is oblivious to it, but it's fucking terrible. The guy is just a hardcore newbie and he's so bad that every set he enters the girls talk to him because they feel so fucking terrible for him - he rarely gets blown out of a set because of the extreme pity every girl has for him.

I feel bad for him cause he's like 24 & a friendly enough guy (with other men, even though he's socially retarded) but I'm pretty sure he's still a virgin. I took homeboy to get a new wardrobe to improve his game, but it did absolutely nothing.

At the end of the day, it's fucking embarrassing to be seen with this dude. I mean, I'm friends with a bunch of dorks, but they all have some value - like having a great fucking drug hookup, being an amusing storyteller, being an accounting wizard, etc. This dude has no value. How do I deal with this? Just stop responding to this dude's texts to 'sarge', or tell him straight up, "homey you're a dork with no value and I can't be your teacher, this is a journey you gotta do on your own."

[megatron]

tell him that you just dont want to sarge with him and suggest he bone up on roosh and heartiste. wish him luck. dont call him a dork, though, he sounds like a nice enuff guy and doesnt deserve that.

[nyc]

Radio silence. He'll get the message eventually.

[one-two]

Did you have someone to look up to when you were a newbie? I did, so now I consider it my duty to help out guys who remind me of my younger self. You don't have to be his full-time best friend or anything, but being nice to the people who are less fortunate than you is a virtue. Besides, there is nobody more loyal than a guy like that.

Having said all that, one of the 48 rules of power is to drop the losers from your life cause they will drag you down or worse, abuse your kindness. So cut that guy out and go find you some cool friends. I am sure people you find admirable would gladly welcome you into their social circle, unless they have the same reservations about you.

My point is that no matter how successful you are, there is always someone better than you and plenty of people worse than you. Of course there is the guy at the top of the list, but he's one lonely motherfucker because everyone is eyeing his seat and there is no way to go but down. For everyone else, apply the golden rule.

[Havver]

(09-25-2012 01:05 AM)one-two Wrote:  

For everyone else, apply the golden rule.

What golden rule? Those things are like grains of sand.