[HiFlo]

Was chatting with a guy I'm friendly with at the gym this morning. He was telling me about a girl he met who he's macking. I asked how they met. He said, "she just came up to me and said, 'I know you, you look familiar..."

He's a good looking guy, juiced-up, and he told me that girls all the time go up to him with the line "you look familiar, where do we know each other from."

He was quite funny and said he always wants to reply, "bitch I don't fucking know you. cut the bullshit and if you wanna fuck me just tell me, don't pretend we know each other." hahaha.

Anyway, it got me thinking that there have been times in the past where girls have opened me with the "you look familiar" line. I guess I was just too dumb in the past to realize that it was there attempt to hit on me and it never went anywhere.

You guys ever get the "you look familiar" line? What do you do as step 2? Just make small talk/banter with a couple game-y teases and flirtations?

[rationalize_this]

(09-25-2012 12:19 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

Was chatting with a guy I'm friendly with at the gym this morning. He was telling me about a girl he met who he's macking. I asked how they met. He said, "she just came up to me and said, 'I know you, you look familiar..."

He's a good looking guy, juiced-up, and he told me that girls all the time go up to him with the line "you look familiar, where do we know each other from."

He was quite funny and said he always wants to reply, "bitch I don't fucking know you. cut the bullshit and if you wanna fuck me just tell me, don't pretend we know each other." hahaha.

Anyway, it got me thinking that there have been times in the past where girls have opened me with the "you look familiar" line. I guess I was just too dumb in the past to realize that it was there attempt to hit on me and it never went anywhere.

You guys ever get the "you look familiar" line? What do you do as step 2? Just make small talk/banter with a couple game-y teases and flirtations?

"I've been everywhere, where you know me from?" With a smirk. Conveys high value and c/f. I almost never get opened down here, but in NYC i usually just proceed like I started the interaction, and I'm gaming. Don't fall into the trap that because she opened you she has to put in the effort. Leaving too much of the conversation in her hands is recipe for failure in my experience.

[Aliblahba]

Her: You look familiar.
Me: My picture is in the post office.

[HiFlo]

(09-25-2012 12:34 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Her: You look familiar.
Me: My picture is in the post office.

So this happened to me twice last night. I started talking to a girl, she said, "you look familiar..."

I replied, "yeah, you probably saw my picture in the post office."

Both girls responded with a confused, quizzical look.

I followed-up with, "Probably a Wanted Ad hanging on the wall in the post office."

One asked what a Wanted Ad was. After I gave a quick explanation, she let out a nervous giggle, gave me a "weirdo" look, then quickly turned away and went back to her friends.

The other just said, "No, I think I met you at Bar XX a couple weeks ago" with a awkward smile which seemed to convey, "why did you make this a lot harder than it really is?"

Moral of the story: intelligent witty one-liners which you think would work well (and which do work well in movies on on TV) work miserably with the average girl of average intelligence.

[Veloce]

Jesus, girls are fucking hopeless. ^^^

[Aliblahba]

I think they took down the wanted posters. It used to work better. Then again, women were smarter. We need to update:

Her: You look familiar
You: I was on a couple episodes of Jersey Shore.

[NYJ]

(09-26-2012 03:17 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

I think they took down the wanted posters. It used to work better. Then again, women were smarter. We need to update:

Her: You look familiar
You: I was on a couple episodes of Jersey Shore.

lol

I'll have to use this next time. Especially considering I'm from the area.

One example I have of me is last friday when I was walking by some fat chick yelled at me that I was cute. I said "thanks" as I walked by and went back to ignoring her existence.

[Gmac]

Women spit bad game because a lot of women don't know how to talk to men. It's the same as guys with bad game.

[gringochileno]

Virtually any first contact a girl initiates on an online dating site seems to qualify. Here are some actual first messages I've received. I cringe at the kind of response rate I'd be looking at if I hit up online chicks with any of these bad boys:

Quote:

Hey. I'm <name>. You sound fun, and easy to get along with. I think we might have some things in common. I hope you can prove me right about that. Message me if you're interested in talking.

Quote:

Hey there! I don't know how to start these without sounding mega lame, so I'll just embrace it. You seem like a really cool guy and I think we might have fun hanging out. If you're interested, respond with something a little more original than this.

<name>

Quote:

Hey! How's it goin? I'm <name>

Quote:

Too legit to quit! Happy Friday :-)

Quote:

Hey I'm <name>. Apparently, based on limited knowledge contained in an online profile, we think that each other are pretty awesome. So lets crack open a dialogue and see if we were right.

Quote:

Wink
I don't really know what connotation winking really sends...but Hello.

This is probably the best online game I've ever gotten from a chick:

Quote:

haha well, i don't really think of myself laid back or chill, but i can still message you right?
just saw your time in south america. a friend and i are going there for the summer this november. how'd you end up there? got any advice?
luck with school yo.

i'm <name>, nice ta meet you. :]

[Eddie Winslow]

Slightly off topic, but what's so awful about getting hit on by average chicks, even ugly chicks? If she is good looking enough to meet your minimum standards, it's a lay-up. If she's unfuckable, it's still an ego boost. And usually really funny, especially if she gets bent out of shape.

[Hades]

Yeah, that wanted ad thing is definitely out of the intellectual range of a lot of girls I talk to. I don't blame them because knowledge is how certain people acquire power, which they've never not had (ass and titties have great power over probably 95% of men). My game has gotten "better" since I've dropped the more complicated and witty stuff from my general cache of one liners.

I guess my biggest beef with getting hit on by ugly chicks is that they think I'm in their league. That kind of disgusts me because it indicates to me that there's a dude out there who's probably about as good looking as I am (not horrible) who's smashed that 4 or 5, probably complimented her for it, and can somehow live with himself.

Their boldness just suggests to me that they don't consider failure (at me wanting desperately to fuck them, no matter how ugly they are) an option. Despite they being ugly enough that they have to approach, not the other way around. They're running man-game and don't even know it. It just blows my mind.



Like that.

[aphelion]

To be fair, HiFlo, the picture in the post office was a pretty lame line. No offense

But yeah, girls generally don't have game because they don't need it. It's hard work. If girls lined up outside your apartment to bang you, you wouldn't need game either. But they don't, so here we are.

CH tweeted a quote from his forum to the effect of, "human females have massive brains for the same reason human males have nipples."

[Anon-A-Moose]

I'm fairly knowledgeable, in my mid twenties, and even I didn't even get the picture at post office reference.
Girls who are okay but not quite my grade hitting on me is always an ego booster. Improves my inner game. Though a grenade hitting on you is just painful.
I love particularly the ones who are a bit below you but still fuckable, who are thrilled to be noticed. Nice bit of role reversal. I'll take an enthusiastic 5 over a standoffish 7 any day--good attitude is attractive.

[MidniteSpecial]

When's the last time you saw a hot chic in a post office? Better yet, when was the last time you were in a post office? Exactly. That's why that post office line will get you a blank stare.

One of my favorite responses to when a girl says "you look familiar." Is, "umm yeah we had sex last year, you don't remember."

Many places to take it from there depending on her response.

[PrettyBoy]

I was at the computer in the library at school. Two chicks, both about a 6, walk over and say:

"excuse me I know this is weird but we need your phonenumber"
Im thinking , fucking right.. bitch and answer with a long exaggerated
"whyyyyy?"
They proceed to explain how they made a bet that they could get my number.
I chuckled and said
"no thanks, and exactly why me of all people?"
One says "i dont know ", the other says "cause your hot"
I say "oh okay , wellllll... It was nice meeting you"
Then they walked away. I was thinking like yo this shit is perfect
I turned to my left and start talking to a bad chick sitting at the computer over. I opened up :

" that is so weird, i hate when that shit happens ( she smiled but said nothing) I asked "do guys ever do that to you?". Bitch started rambling! Now she's the newest member of the team haha.

Do Girls still do that though? I thought that was a highschool thing. I give them
-5 points on a game scale
6points on looks
-1 point on the opener
I would say they had balls but they came with eachother. They were giggling and blushing the whole time. Maybe if I was on a coldstreak I would have atleast gave them my number but I wasn't . Weak.
Overall they are dumbest bitches to ever have approach me and on top of that , they helped me approach.

[at350zguyy]

A little more recently, girls have been throwing the you look familiar crap at me as an opener to talk to me. The way I look at it, its just batting practice, so take the hacks and hope they have a cute friend nearby that you can be introduced to.

[Pappy]

(10-04-2012 11:15 AM)aphelion Wrote:  

But yeah, girls generally don't have game because they don't need it. It's hard work. If girls lined up outside your apartment to bang you, you wouldn't need game either. But they don't, so here we are.

Women need as much game as men, it's just that the rules and the game are different for them. They need to show their feminine qualities to attract and keep a guy, and that is also extremely hard to fake. Ever seen a slut try to be pristine?

[WesternCancer]

Women only need game to keep a man. All they have to do to get a man is look good and be tolerable.

[PrettyBoy]

(10-07-2012 06:00 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Women only need game to keep a man. All they have to do to get a man is look good and be tolerable.

F.A.G (fuck-up avoidance game)

[Strictly Professional]

I was at a bar last weekend for a bday party. A random girl grabs my arm and says "let's take a shot". I asked here what kind of shot she was buying me. She gave me a dirty look and found some other sucker to buy her a drink. Not necessarily game but still an example of shitty behavior by an american woman.

Later that night two fat girls are dancing with each other in my vicinity. I laugh at how ridiculous it looks and before my smile fades one of the fatasses makes eye contact with me and thinks I'm smiling at her. She spent the next half hour following me around the bar and starring at me, but saying nothing like I was actually going to talk to some gross pig. If a guy had followed her around like that he'd have wound up in jail.

[Mujeriego]

I recall this being mentioned in another thread but the "Are you gay?" opener women use is always good for a laugh.

[wi30]

I saw some fat chick I went to high school with at a bar last week. She came up and said "I bet you can order a drink faster than me" I replied with "I already have a drink" and turned around to face the other way. She kept trying to set my buddy up with her friends which was an absolute misfire. They were definitely following us since we saw them at 3 consecutive bars and a pizza place.

[Statsi]

Personally I am always pretty gentle with girls who try to game me, I've had enough harsh rejections to know that pleasant interactions are enough at times to get you psyched about approaching when you are starting out. Though maybe it'd be better to give girls game advice.

'Work out, look more feminine, and lower your standards' great girl game advice.

[DVY]

Basically any type of bold physical contact. Grabbing my ass, grabbing my penis, grabbing my arm. 1 time in SF (the grand), 1 girl put her hand down my pants and grabbed my bare ass. This is quite a feat considering I had a belt on.

[Aliblahba]

(10-15-2012 01:58 PM)DVY Wrote:  

Basically any type of bold physical contact. Grabbing my ass, grabbing my penis, grabbing my arm. 1 time in SF (the grand), 1 girl put her hand down my pants and grabbed my bare ass. This is quite a feat considering I had a belt on.

Being in San Fran, you sure it wasn't a man? J/K! lol.

Seriously though, I get real pissed when a girl initiates with bold physical contact. The reason? We get this feminist equality, false rape culture, ect. bullshit shoved down our throat every day. If we grabbed a girls ass in the bar, what do you think would happen?

I hold American to the standard. Besides, a dumb bitch that grabs my crotch isn't one I'd probably want to bang. I prefer mine with a little more class.