I want to tell you my story, so I can get some much needed feedback. I started reading Bang by Roosh in Januar. As you can tell, I'm danish so apparently I play my game on Hard mode, but then again what do I know? Anyway half way through the book, I get invited to this private party with a high girl ratio, so it is a golden opportunity to try some techniques. And I actually succeeds pretty well, ultimately playing three girls out against each other. Later that night I hook up with one of the girls, grabs a cap home to my place where she turns cold on me. I would probably had my first bang, if I had finished the book. Anyway, I was hooked and determent to better my game. So over the next couple of months I overcame my approach anxiety, started to go out alone, and I even manged to get my first one night stand with a girl after a cold approach. At one time I approached a girl standing outside a club, after a brief conversation 3-5 minutes, we were kissing and she was grabbing my dick. Game wise I was hitting the road running.
But it has all come to a grinding hold. I might be to patient for my own good. But for nearly four months nothing has happened. Nada. Girls don't respond to my game anymore.
To give you an idea about who I am, I can tell you that I'm a low energy kinda guy, with a bit of a dry humor. I'm not a big fan on putting labels on my self, but I am what you can call a rockabilly guy. People often yell John Travolta after me to which I respond with finger pistols. Guys tend to complement me on my style and my hair, telling me that I wear the cloth that they don't dare. When I'm in a group of people I usually keep my mouth shut, and observe people and their conversations. I like to think that I have a natural authority around me. I usually play the role as underdog when I'm around true alphas, but I'm not afraid of challenging them.
Anyway that's me and my story for now. I want girls to respond to me again. I have thought long and hard about what I can do to get out of this dry spell. I have of course read #10 in the newb FAQ. Recently I started blogging as a way to collect my thoughts and progress and be better conversationalist. I stared working out. And I have even taken up swing dance lessons, which compliments my style and gives me some more edge. The things I lack is going out more, but it is so damn expensive in Denmark (I'm still studying) and day gaming, which is unknown territory for me at this point.
I'm looking for any feedback or thoughts you might have. I especially like to know if others have had a great start at gaming, only to be followed by a long period of dry nothing, and how you have dealt with it.
I can get to frustrated and bitter when I don't get what I want. I'm afraid that I might be in an evil spiral.
Thanks for your time.
But it has all come to a grinding hold. I might be to patient for my own good. But for nearly four months nothing has happened. Nada. Girls don't respond to my game anymore.
To give you an idea about who I am, I can tell you that I'm a low energy kinda guy, with a bit of a dry humor. I'm not a big fan on putting labels on my self, but I am what you can call a rockabilly guy. People often yell John Travolta after me to which I respond with finger pistols. Guys tend to complement me on my style and my hair, telling me that I wear the cloth that they don't dare. When I'm in a group of people I usually keep my mouth shut, and observe people and their conversations. I like to think that I have a natural authority around me. I usually play the role as underdog when I'm around true alphas, but I'm not afraid of challenging them.
Anyway that's me and my story for now. I want girls to respond to me again. I have thought long and hard about what I can do to get out of this dry spell. I have of course read #10 in the newb FAQ. Recently I started blogging as a way to collect my thoughts and progress and be better conversationalist. I stared working out. And I have even taken up swing dance lessons, which compliments my style and gives me some more edge. The things I lack is going out more, but it is so damn expensive in Denmark (I'm still studying) and day gaming, which is unknown territory for me at this point.
I'm looking for any feedback or thoughts you might have. I especially like to know if others have had a great start at gaming, only to be followed by a long period of dry nothing, and how you have dealt with it.
I can get to frustrated and bitter when I don't get what I want. I'm afraid that I might be in an evil spiral.
Thanks for your time.
