Quote: (09-14-2012 04:01 AM)avantgarde Wrote:
Hello, I am new to gaming, read a lot of posts on roosh and bang/day bang though, I have anxiety especially when girls are in a group or by herself in an open public place especially, I have hard time escalating or takes too long to show signs of interests like compliments and negs. Have seriously time keeping the conversation spontaneous, I hesitate a lot, it comes unnatural and sometimes unclear. The conversation always ends in an awkward silence and can't continue the conservation. I pretty sure my body language and way of speech is pretty uptight and shy. Should I provide interesting stories, open up more? How to get over this anxiety? I think I am afraid being judged negatively, especially I am in a more conservative culture or with people I know.
Maybe I need to the Bang/day bang and just try more.
My logistics and venues maybe suck too, because I usually only approach girls in proximity and happens to be doing same thing.
How will keep the conversation interesting if my foreign language skill or her English skill is limited?
You do not need to provide any stories.Girls do not have time to hear you more than 10 seconds otherwise their attention gets lost and they get bored.You have to spice up the conversation by constant interactiona and stimulation.That is why you need to think fast.
For example yesterday with Russian girl:
Her

lease do you know any supermarket close here?
Me:Are you from Russia?
Her:Yes.
Me
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o you speak Russian?
Her:Yes.You speak Russian?
Me:A bit.Are you from Moscow?
Her:Yes.
Me:Beautiful city.Kremlin.
Her:Oh,yes.
Me:You also have Red Square.How do you call in Russian?
Her:Krasnaa plosad.
Me:Krasnaa plosad.And St. Peterburg must be very beautiful:
Her:Oh,yes.St. Peterburg is very beautiful.
Me:Germitaz.
Her:It is super.
Me:Have you been to Akropolis?
Her:Yes.
Me:Have you been to muzeum?
Her:No.Where is it?
Me:It is close.Do you want to go?
Her:Yes.
Me:It is the biggest museum here.For sure you have seen sculptures from here.They are world famous.For sure you have nice museums in Moscow too.
Her:Oh,I love museums.
Me:Then I will show you everything.Do you like ancient Greek art?Or do you prefer Roman style?
Her:I like old.
Me:I will show you.Do you also like Greek food?
Her:What is typical Greek food?I like tzatziki.
Me:It is mousaka,meat I do not know name in Russian and fish.Do you like fish?
Her:I like.
Me:I will show you.I like Russian food.
Her:Oh no way you like Russian food.What do you like from Russian food?
Me:I like borsh and vareniki.And piroski.
Her:Good.You should come to Moscow.Visit please.
Me:Of course I will come.It is my dream to visit Moscow.Do you work in Moscow?
Her:No.
Me:I have heard the metro in Moscow is very big.Impressive.
Her:Metro yes.Ohhh.
Me:They have nice paintings there.Russian art super.
Her:Why do you know Russian?
Me:I like it very much.I like how Russian sounds.Very pleasant for the ear.
Her:You speak very good Russian.
Me:Thank you.Do you speak Greek?
Her:No.I know only kalinychta.
Me:Efxaristo is thank you.Kalimera is dobre utro.Parakalo is pazalast.
Her

repeating):Efxaristo.
Me:Bravo.Ti kaneis?is how are you?
Her:Ti kaneis?
Me:Bravo.Say kalimera,ti kaneis?This is dobre utro,kak dela?
Her:Kalimera,ti kaneis?
Me:Kala,efxaristo.It means good,thank you.
Her:Kala,efxaristo.
Me:Excellent.You have very nice accent.You will learn Greek very fast.
Her:I do not think so.
Me:No.Russia people are very intelligent.You learn Greek very fast.Etc