Fellow RVFers, I've been thinking about where I am right now and what I've become regarding game,relationships, sex and all goes in between.
I am sure many if not all here get bored pretty fast after banging a girl multiple times. No surprise there, the thrill of the catch is gone, its just banging to get something out of your system. It does not matter if the girl is a nice girl, and good LTR material.
Looking back to the few serious/semi-serious relationships I've had in the past, I see that the main reason I end the relationship is because of that, I just get bored, but not because I choose to, really.
Because of this, an interesting thought came to my mind. Is the key to a good long LTR, less frequent but mind-blowing sex?. Keep in mind that I am not talking about a monogamous relationship, just an answer to "solve" (?) this "issue"(?) I mentioned before.
For example, its exciting when you are gaming a girl you haven't banged. The thrill of the hunt is exciting, as well as when you finally get what you want. It is still exciting when you keep enjoying from the reward you already obtained, but then, not so much...
Now, what would happen if you were with a girl (post-bang), you want to keep having sex, but sometimes she does not put out, and sometimes she does (and when she does, the sex is mind-blowing), its annoying, yet effective? Would the thrill of the hunt be something that repeats itself but still without the knowledge of when you are capturing your prey again? Would that keep and hold your interest?
Of course, as in all things in life no matter how long they have lasted, everything reaches and end. Also remember that this thought has nothing to do with being faithful.
What are your thoughts?
I am sure many if not all here get bored pretty fast after banging a girl multiple times. No surprise there, the thrill of the catch is gone, its just banging to get something out of your system. It does not matter if the girl is a nice girl, and good LTR material.
Looking back to the few serious/semi-serious relationships I've had in the past, I see that the main reason I end the relationship is because of that, I just get bored, but not because I choose to, really.
Because of this, an interesting thought came to my mind. Is the key to a good long LTR, less frequent but mind-blowing sex?. Keep in mind that I am not talking about a monogamous relationship, just an answer to "solve" (?) this "issue"(?) I mentioned before.
For example, its exciting when you are gaming a girl you haven't banged. The thrill of the hunt is exciting, as well as when you finally get what you want. It is still exciting when you keep enjoying from the reward you already obtained, but then, not so much...
Now, what would happen if you were with a girl (post-bang), you want to keep having sex, but sometimes she does not put out, and sometimes she does (and when she does, the sex is mind-blowing), its annoying, yet effective? Would the thrill of the hunt be something that repeats itself but still without the knowledge of when you are capturing your prey again? Would that keep and hold your interest?
Of course, as in all things in life no matter how long they have lasted, everything reaches and end. Also remember that this thought has nothing to do with being faithful.
What are your thoughts?