Quote: (08-15-2012 09:09 AM)mistermister Wrote:
Quote: (08-15-2012 05:59 AM)DecoHappy Wrote:
1. Three failed marriages.
Deco if you don't mind sharing what ages were you when you did your marriages ?
what made you decide to go for it a third time ?
when did you discover "game" ?
I married the first time at 24. She was 21. She was the second girl I'd ever seriously dated. I assumed that I'd hit the jackpot with her and I'd better not let her slip away.
Sex dropped off dramatically after the first year. What I didn't know at the time was she was banging the AMOG of our social circle. He then helped her exercise her bi- tendencies. She had a string of female lovers over the next 20 years, unbeknownst to me.
For a lot of reasons, I divorced her after 21 years of shitty marriage (I was 46 at the time) and two kids. She did everything in her power during and for several years after the divorce to destroy me and separate me from my children. She left me with a heavy burden of credit card debt from the marriage.
I married #2 because she presented herself as the "perfect woman" during my divorce from #1. She was bat-shit crazy and I refused to see it for a year. I finally woke up to the fact that she was nuts and there was nothing I could do to fix it. I popped smoke and divorced her. During the year I was married to her, she embezzled about $75K from me.
I started dating again after #2. I was 47. Met a 31 year old single mom on AFF. She got pregnant on the second date, despite telling me she was on birth control. I married her because she was carrying my child. I was the White Knight. After our child died, I "manned up" and adopted her two kids. WK on steroids.
Just before we married, she revealed a minor criminal history. What I have since learned is that she has an extensive criminal history of fraud and occasional violence.
I discovered the Red Pill about a year ago thru Athol Kay, Dalrock, Roosh, and Roissy. As I was amping up the Alpha in my personal life and throttling back the Beta, #3 got arrested for shoplifting. Second time in less than a year.
After her second shoplifting conviction, I decided I'd had enough. Rented an apartment and told her I was moving out. Did some marital counseling and tried for reconciliation, but with an eye on the exit path. She did some truly crazy stuff, including assaulting me. I grappled the Divorce handle and pulled hard.