Quote: (08-06-2012 12:09 PM)captaingeneric Wrote:
Would you forego traditional pickup altogether and just go straight for P4P, having your way with the hottest girls money can buy?
No. While I have no problem banging pros, banging them EXCLUSIVELY is almost always a bad idea. The problem is 5 fold:
1) Exclusive use of hookers destroys your ability to game regular girls.
2) By only dealing with hookers, your ability to perceive when a girls REALLY likes you becomes distorted, and you mistake hooker behavior for actual affection/love.
3) Because of 1 and 2, There is a HUGE tendancy for guys who only bang hookers to start to only date hookers, and eventually marry/move in with hookers. They start to forget that these girls are being paid.
4) Hookers become unfulfilling VERY quickly. The challenge of getting the girl disappears. For me, pulling a 6 or 7 just by spitting game to her is almost always more fulfilling to me than banging a 9.5 hooker.
5) Because of 5, there is a tendency to get pushed into more risky/deviant sexual behaviors. Essentially, you no longer get the "high" from banging a 9 hooker. Now you need to bang her in front of some other dudes, or have them run a train on her. Or you need her to be down with some kinky bondage play, or shoving things up your ass.
I know guys that have gone down this road. I have a buddy that started traveling about the same time as me (7+ years ago). However, he has only been dealing with hookers. He went from a guy who just wanted to bang a hot chick to a guy who can't get off unless it is some extreme shit.
This isn't to say that I don't sometimes fuck pros. I do. However, I ALWAYS game regular girls when I am on trips. For me, hookers only have 3 uses:
1) Guaranteed night lay that relieves any pressure/desperation to pull a particular chick. When I am out in one of my target countries taking a girl out, there is no pressure for me. I KNOW that I am getting laid that night. If she won't fuck me, the girls in the strip club will. This allows me to be much more laid back with the regular girls and I don't come off looking desperate/thirsty. I have an "I don't give a fuck" attitude. This actually gets me MORE pussy from regular girls.
2) The occasional fantasy fulfillment. Sometimes you want a threesome. Sometimes you want a threesome with 2 sisters. Sometimes you want to fuck a pregnant chick. Sometimes a dwarf. If you have some freaky fantasy, just get a hooker and live it out.
3)Busting a nut. In this respect hookers are nothing more than an enhanced masturbation tool. I have had days where I was coding for hours and wanted a little pussy to just take the edge off. For me it may be as simple as walking across the street to the massage parlor, or calling up some chick who will show up in 20 min. She arrives, we fuck, I come, she leaves, I go back to my work. If you have ever had the experience of working on something and deciding to stop to jerk off real quick and release the tension, that is all this is.
Quote: (08-06-2012 12:09 PM)captaingeneric Wrote:
Would you cold approach and run game as you always have, while using your money to maximize your results? If this is what you would do, how exactly would you leverage your money to your advantage?
For regular girls it is simple. I would use the money to get a nice apartment/condo to rent (NOT a hotel), then I would just run game like I normally do. Cold approach daygame and social circles are my go to stragegies. Since my targets are mid twenties to mid forties, I hit lunch spots a lot, as well as shops.
Also, work to build a social circle in the city you are in. Two ways to go are to 1) contact people you know who live there now. I do this a lot with folks I went to school with who are back living in their home country. Make friends with the folks your friends introduce you to, and continue to expand your social circle. Another EXCELLENT way to make friends abroad is to find a special interest organization in an area that you are interested in. If you like MMA, join an MMA gym. If you like foreign langues, find the local language school/language exchange organization.
Quote: (08-06-2012 12:09 PM)captaingeneric Wrote:
What about safety? I understand that you shouldn't go walking around the favela with your 10k rolex, but beyond that, what kind of precautions would/should you take to avoid unwanted attention from shady types? Is it even safe to flex your financial muscle in an effort to bed the locals, or are you just asking for trouble if you try that shit? Would you hire bodyguards?
This is one of the reasons why I am absolutely against banging pros exclusively and/or getting to close to pros. These chicks almost always hang out with shady people. True story: Guy I know who is filthy rich (8 or 9 figure rich) loved going down to medellin to bang hookers. He also loved flashing his cash around AND going into the barrios to see these girls. He was known to have 10's of thousands of dollars in his hotel room safe.
Folks warned him about doing shit like that, but he kept telling everyone that they didn't know these girls like he did. Eventually, one of the girls set him up to be robbed. A girl and 2 guys showed up at the hotel he was staying at, asked for him by name, then robbed ALMOST ALL OF THE HOTEL GUESTS at gunpoint. They took money, electronics, even the passports for the guests. It caused a big problem.
No, instead of flashing your cash around hookers, be subtle. Think long term (months, not days).
Quote: (08-06-2012 12:09 PM)captaingeneric Wrote:
Imagine yourself walking off the plane in your favorite pussy paradise. You're young, good looking, and you've got the money to make things happen. You don't know anyone there. What's your blueprint? Tell me EXACTLY what you would do.
I am going to assume that you are into younger chicks, and not the MILFs that are my preference.
1) Get a nice apartment.
2) Move around the city to get a feel for it.
3) Get the number of the more trustworthy taxi drivers you meet while moving around the city.
4) Find out where all of the universities AND the English language schools are.
5) Go to each university and English language schools and ask if they have native language courses for English speakers.
6) Pick the school with the largest number of women with the combination of hotness/friendliness.
7) Go to class.
8) Meet people around your class and around the university. You have a reason to be there, since you are a student, and you will often find girls that want to either help your Spanish/Ukrainian/Whatever and/or practice their English.
9) Transition the practice sessions from the campus to your apartment. DO NOT TELL HER HOW NICE YOUR APARTMENT IS BEFOREHAND.
10) When she arrives, if your place is pimped out enough, she will probably be impressed as hell. Act like it is nothing.
11) Game as normal (actually your game should have started by step 8 at the latest).
You could also try things like finding out if there are any upcoming fashion shows and going to those, but I have zero experience with that and don't know how well it would work, so I will leave that for you to explore.