[Juan Antonio]

What's the lowdown on these girls? Do they put out? Or are they the save it for marriage types?

I like what I'm seeing here:

[Deluge]

I'm Lankan but not Tamil, I can only think of one girl born in the west whose a legit save it for marriage type, but she's dog. With the rest of them, some are cumdumpsters some are "good girls" and most of course are inbetween. The difference between them and other girls is a lot smaller then you'd think. At least where I am most brown girls prefer brown dudes over other types, even the girls who are "white inside", they just hate FOBy types even more than everybody else does. Brown girls who move overseas as foreign students are an entirely different ballgame though.

[Juan Antonio]

(08-04-2012 01:37 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

At least where I am most brown girls prefer brown dudes over other types, even the girls who are "white inside"

I'm curious, why is this? Does a non-brown guy have a shot? In the video I see no non-brown dudes. You seem like a knowledgeable guy.

[Deluge]

(08-04-2012 01:46 AM)Juan Antonio Wrote:  

(08-04-2012 01:37 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

At least where I am most brown girls prefer brown dudes over other types, even the girls who are "white inside"

I'm curious, why is this? Does a non-brown guy have a shot? In the video I see no non-brown dudes. You seem like a knowledgeable guy.

Of course he has a shot, I know a fair few white/asian dude - brown girl couples (there are no hispanics in my parts) but I do think brown girls prefer brown dudes more strongly then say asian girls prefer asian guys. As for why, I wouldn't have a clue.

[Juan Antonio]

You're right. I think most born and bred Asian-American girls actually have a preference for white guys over their own.

I don't think you'll ever see Indian/South Asian girls put down their men in favor of white guys like this. These girls seem self-hating, probably with daddy issues.

These are just my observations:

- Indians/South Asian girls seem to exhibit more "pride" in their culture - dressing in sarees, dancing to Bollywood etc. At my alma mater there's a huge Bollywood dance scene, and even born and bred Indian-American girls are into this stuff. Can't complain -all that dancing keeps these girls fit and trim. However, this tends to make these girls more insular as they tend to hang out exclusively with their own little dance clique, and a non-brown dude will have a hard time penetrating this circle.

I seldom see East Asians doing this (dressing in traditional outfits, dancing to Asian music etc.) So there could be less pride in their traditional culture among Asian-Americans as it's associated with backwardness, and they all want to modernize. And Asian women may see dating/marrying white guys as "moving up" in the social hierarchy.

- A lot of Asian guys are into nerdy dorky shit like anime and video games which repel women. I don't see this quite as often with brown dudes.

- Parents seem to play a big role in picking partners with Indian/South Asians, so there's probably more pressure for them to find a guy within the community. This seems to be less true for Asians.

[nomadicdude]

The ones who are born and raised in the west can become sluts just like any other western type chick. The ones actually from Sri Lanka will suck. When I was there I saw chicks who didn't even shave their legs. Disgusting.

And agreed with the analysis of why South Asian chicks prefer South Asian guys. Thank God they don't behave like Asian-American girls. They actually have some self respect and don't think salvation is letting a white dick into your vag.

[Enfant_Terrible]

Dated a pretty Sinhalese Sri Lankan girl who was a foreign student, already spent a few years in the US when we met. She was a wait and see type, so not down for SNL. Down to get freaky after date 2. Used standard date-venue change-bang strategy.

I'm only one guy and don't encounter many Sri Lankans (esp. girls) so I can't generalize if they are DTF. She told me that most of the guys she dated (fucked) where brown/white. Unfortunately, like many foreign girls exposed to USA culture and I admittedly had some role with this...they get jaded and tainted, so I had to part ways with her. BTW, I'm Asian take what you can with this info and good luck.

PS. That video on the OP sucked dick. Guys dancing with guys...I don't care if it's cultural, that's wrong.

[Enfant_Terrible]

(08-04-2012 02:27 AM)Juan Antonio Wrote:  

And Asian women may see dating/marrying white guys as "moving up" in the social hierarchy.

- A lot of Asian guys are into nerdy dorky shit like anime and video games which repel women. I don't see this quite as often with brown dudes.

I know white guys who are into anime and video games but Asian girls give them a pass.

I don't think there's anything wrong with liking anime and video games or any other "nerdy" interests. There are some compelling, thought-provoking, and downright entertaining material in games and anime that non-enthusiasts don't know about since they dismiss these as child-like playthings or hobbies.

It's all about how you carry yourself around these women and finding ways in making your mind, body, and spirit in top shape. Anime and video games can be a small part of your life, no big deal. Most anime and video game enthusiasts unfortunately are not physically and sexually active.