As a hyper-rational, objectivist, introverted, narcissist, I find it very difficult to be my true self b/c I fear it'll only make others insecure. Can you relate? Think about it, if the world's greatest alpha male were always in your presence, wouldn't you feel like shit constantly evaluating yourself in light of his success? Yes, there'd be things you'd learn from him, but most of the time you'd feel worthless and defeated. How do you let your glory shine forth without making everybody else feel inferior?
Overcoming Humility
i want everybody to feel good, have fun and be comfortable around me. besides, it's never the case that just becasue i know some game and women psychology that all of the people instantly recognize me as the coolest dude.. it never happens. some people like you, some don't, just let them.
the coolest alpha that everybody worships and feels inferior around is a myth.
the coolest alpha that everybody worships and feels inferior around is a myth.
Why do you care what would others think? If you want to do something, do it. You probably wanted to become an alpha male because you registered here, and alpha males don't need to explain themselves. If they did something that's because they wanted to do it, and don't care if some "friend" or loser doesn't like it (assumming you don't go around disrespecting people on purpose or something like that).
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Quote: (08-03-2012 09:48 AM)mental Wrote:
Why do you care what would others think? If you want to do something, do it. You probably wanted to become an alpha male because you registered here, and alpha males don't need to explain themselves. If they did something that's because they wanted to do it, and don't care if some "friend" or loser doesn't like it (assumming you don't go around disrespecting people on purpose or something like that).
If you're hyper rational, you realize that you can't live in a world where you don't care what others think. It makes for an inspiring speech, but it's actually self defeating. The only way to not care about what others think is to literally not care about others. This contradicts everything in your socio-biological makeup.
Quote: (08-03-2012 09:56 AM)Craig Wrote:
If you're hyper rational, you realize that you can't live in a world where you don't care what others think. It makes for an inspiring speech, but it's actually self defeating. The only way to not care about what others think is to literally not care about others. This contradicts everything in your socio-biological makeup.
You need to be aloof, not stupid. Basically, if it doesn't affect me significantly, I don't care. Reading this will help you more than anything I say: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/12/2...assholery/
Check out my thread Essential android tools for modern players and alphas to find out how to make your android phone your wingman, or click here and scroll down if you only need to root it.
Want sound that puts iPods and iPhones to shame? I got you covered!
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