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My First Dark Side Phase
08-01-2012, 05:19 AM
Well, welcome to the club. Pretty much got into that yesterday too.
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08-01-2012, 07:55 PM
This post reminds me not to care too much about any girl. The sooner they show their true colors the better and if you're in control of your emotions it's no big deal. If you get caught up in their drama and bs then you get what you asked for.
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08-01-2012, 08:01 PM
there are some good ones, there are some bad ones. Game has helped me spot the difference. I think it is healthier to simply take them less seriously (if at all) as opposed to taking the bitter 'they are all evil bitches' route.
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08-01-2012, 11:01 PM
I learned not to get attached to any of them. You're solely responsible for your happiness, not someone else.
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08-02-2012, 02:45 AM
the key is to be happy regardless of women, not getting it from them. there are different women in the world so definitely you can find better match but regardless of who she is, ultimately she can't be the star of the show (your life).
the ideal is to own your life and be happy on your own where girls are just one little planet of your universe, not the biggest shining sun. that's the most natural way to flip the script like crazy cause in that case you always care less than any girl which basically is an ideal to create strong attraction. all of that lying, manipulating, cheating, flaking the do becomes irrelevant and silly.
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08-02-2012, 05:34 AM
Thanks lads, all good advice. I was just really bitter yesterday from one-itis newb issues. I'm learning more and more to be my own boss though and women can just be a compliment to my life, not the centrepiece.
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My First Dark Side Phase
08-02-2012, 09:03 PM
Women gossip about celebrities, men gossip about science and politics to paraphrase Aaron Sleazy.
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08-02-2012, 09:25 PM
Do you want to have a family today, right this instant? No? Don't worry about it.
I went through my darker phase about a year ago and just now am coming out of it. You become a bit more angry and jaded but it too will pass.
Worry about what you can control not what you can't.
It would be womanly to think you can "fix" someone. You can certainly have a positive impact but the gender difference remains.