I concur with a lot of what ugslayer is saying. It's actually great for people with any sort of approach anxiety. You just start to love being rejected and knowing you can turn around and do it all over again.
The best thing about clubs is you know very quickly if she wants to fuck you or hear from you again. Simple test? Does she write her last name in your phone? Then slay on slayer!
There are always downsides:
1. Rarely improves talking game
2. Expensive on a relative basis can run up to $100 a night
3. Much more cockblocking by groups/dudes
4. Not very good for your health
5. Fatties may begin approaching. Last Saturday I had a fat one come up and "neg" me saying I was weird for being alone at a club. I simply told her "you can check up on me at 12 and let me know how weird I look. Talking to the wrong man. "
Then of course the upsides:
1. Practicing body language
2. Dancing game
3. Best place to SNL (this of course is my opinion)
4. 10+ approaches in a single venue (eg. large number of phone numbers as well)
5. Learning to control your alcohol consumption
But yeah clubs are terrible for people with big egos, weak dance floor game, poor logistics. I'll be retiring from the club venue in a month or so but I'll be returning yet again when venues crack. With all this said I'm starting to realize I should focus on day game now and challenge myself to move beyond the club scene!
The best thing about clubs is you know very quickly if she wants to fuck you or hear from you again. Simple test? Does she write her last name in your phone? Then slay on slayer!
There are always downsides:
1. Rarely improves talking game
2. Expensive on a relative basis can run up to $100 a night
3. Much more cockblocking by groups/dudes
4. Not very good for your health
5. Fatties may begin approaching. Last Saturday I had a fat one come up and "neg" me saying I was weird for being alone at a club. I simply told her "you can check up on me at 12 and let me know how weird I look. Talking to the wrong man. "
Then of course the upsides:
1. Practicing body language
2. Dancing game
3. Best place to SNL (this of course is my opinion)
4. 10+ approaches in a single venue (eg. large number of phone numbers as well)
5. Learning to control your alcohol consumption
But yeah clubs are terrible for people with big egos, weak dance floor game, poor logistics. I'll be retiring from the club venue in a month or so but I'll be returning yet again when venues crack. With all this said I'm starting to realize I should focus on day game now and challenge myself to move beyond the club scene!