Clubs are fun just gotta iron out how you're going about the situation. I have strong disagreements with what people here say "show up early and then go for it". I don't do that at all.
1. Show up talk to bartender frequently, get known at whatever venue, tip well. (after 3 visits you'll be "known" and can now cut the proverbial "line" for drinks - eg. status)
2. Warm up. Get your rejections out early. I usually get blown out on purpose my first 2 attempts, out of sight of course, just so i can get my conversation swag going
3. Only go to small venues when you can sit. Going to a "large night club" is actually easier IMHO you can spot out whose single and whose not pretty quickly.
4. Find the least competition. Who cares if there are hot girls, if you are not the man when u walk in that door chances are slim you close. I'd rather be the best in the Lot and just b-line it for the cutest girls there. If there are 70% dudes 30% girls but i'm the man, chances are slim you'll fuck it up
5. FLOOR PLAN. DO NOT STAND FOR THE SAKE OF STANDING. You zero in on the "hot spots" so you know where to be when things start to crack (roughly 2 hours before close)
6. Learn to dance. Most guys just "bob" with the music. Dance skills = bedroom skills. To quote Muhammad Ali "Can i dance?! is the Pope a Catholic?!" this should be your answer and not even be bragging.
7. You show up to have fun!
8. Walk slower.
Laundry list of mistakes made:
1. Talking to bachlorette parties. WTF you retarded bro?
2. Not checking a coat. When you "grab your coat" the girl will think you're a decent guy because you are not "hammered" and when you leave you'll have next to 0 resistance
3. Not having a bounce spot. Always have a second venue to leave to so you can grab a "drink" before you end up hooking up
4. Talking loud. Man why are you yelling in the bitch's ear? Just dance floor moves then purposely talk lower so you can say the whole "Lets go over here to chat i can't make out what you are saying"
5. Drinking like shit. Stick to wine or high end alcohol. I haven't had a hang over in 4 years and the only time i take shots is when i am getting the girl a drink towards the end of the night and already know where this shit is going
6. Talking to girls who are so obviously not having any fun. You're not going to make their day man, if they are in a shit mood chances you pull that bitch is slim.
All this being said i agree health wise it's not great so when you hit the 30s makes sense to taper off but even then i see dudes in 30s pull.
1. Show up talk to bartender frequently, get known at whatever venue, tip well. (after 3 visits you'll be "known" and can now cut the proverbial "line" for drinks - eg. status)
2. Warm up. Get your rejections out early. I usually get blown out on purpose my first 2 attempts, out of sight of course, just so i can get my conversation swag going
3. Only go to small venues when you can sit. Going to a "large night club" is actually easier IMHO you can spot out whose single and whose not pretty quickly.
4. Find the least competition. Who cares if there are hot girls, if you are not the man when u walk in that door chances are slim you close. I'd rather be the best in the Lot and just b-line it for the cutest girls there. If there are 70% dudes 30% girls but i'm the man, chances are slim you'll fuck it up
5. FLOOR PLAN. DO NOT STAND FOR THE SAKE OF STANDING. You zero in on the "hot spots" so you know where to be when things start to crack (roughly 2 hours before close)
6. Learn to dance. Most guys just "bob" with the music. Dance skills = bedroom skills. To quote Muhammad Ali "Can i dance?! is the Pope a Catholic?!" this should be your answer and not even be bragging.
7. You show up to have fun!
8. Walk slower.
Laundry list of mistakes made:
1. Talking to bachlorette parties. WTF you retarded bro?
2. Not checking a coat. When you "grab your coat" the girl will think you're a decent guy because you are not "hammered" and when you leave you'll have next to 0 resistance
3. Not having a bounce spot. Always have a second venue to leave to so you can grab a "drink" before you end up hooking up
4. Talking loud. Man why are you yelling in the bitch's ear? Just dance floor moves then purposely talk lower so you can say the whole "Lets go over here to chat i can't make out what you are saying"
5. Drinking like shit. Stick to wine or high end alcohol. I haven't had a hang over in 4 years and the only time i take shots is when i am getting the girl a drink towards the end of the night and already know where this shit is going
6. Talking to girls who are so obviously not having any fun. You're not going to make their day man, if they are in a shit mood chances you pull that bitch is slim.
All this being said i agree health wise it's not great so when you hit the 30s makes sense to taper off but even then i see dudes in 30s pull.