Tonight, my most difficult (and upsetting) set I opened went as follows:
Girl and her friend are sitting at bar, both give me huge IOIs. I go to the bar right next to them, order an H20 and then open the nearer brunette with the roosh "you look like you're having the most fun of everyone here." She quickly turns to me and we flirt for about 10 minutes.
Then a guy comes up from behind her and starts kissing her cheek and whispering in her ear. She starts making faces but doesn't move away. This kind of destroyed my state, and her girl friend (who was trying to help her set her up with me, & not cockblock at all) and I exchange looks. After a few moments of silence, I engage her friend for a bit. A minute later homeboy is still whispering in her ear and while she's still making faces but not turning away.
I ask the friend how they all know each other to figure out if this dude is some aggressive drunk random (he was very drunk). The friend says, "we're all friends." So I then interrupt & engage the guy by asking about the Yankees game tonight (a Mixx guy opener I had read about on this forum). The guy says, "I'm only a football fan." My target girl gets up out of the chair and goes off. I stick around for a couple more minutes trying to engage the guy and the girl friend, but eventually succumb to the awkwardness and eject.
About 20 minutes later and see homeboy and my target doing some sort of dancing together in the bar.
I chickened out and did nothing. I felt a bit unmatched for a very drunk aggressive guy when I was nearly sober, even though there were all sorts of IOIs at me and not him.
What should I have done in this situation? Step 1 is when the amog interloper first intruded, my target clearly was more interested in me but not resisting his intimacy either (based on the faces she was making I was expecting her to tell him to get lost, but she never did - must have loved the fucking attention). Did I handle this properly by playing it cool & doing nothing until I could evaluate the situation, or should I have been direct from the beginning? I think being direct is the way to go to get rid of him, but what should I have said to have been firm & direct without starting a fight?
And step two is when I saw them dancing - how should I have handled this? I was not about to join them dancing to to my relative sobriety vs homeboy's aggressive drunk dance. Should I have re-engaged her right then and there the same way he did to me (getting all up between them and start whispering in her ear)? If so, what the fuck should I have whispered? Sexy shit like, "God, i wanna feel you better" followed by a quick isolation?
Any other suggestions?
Girl and her friend are sitting at bar, both give me huge IOIs. I go to the bar right next to them, order an H20 and then open the nearer brunette with the roosh "you look like you're having the most fun of everyone here." She quickly turns to me and we flirt for about 10 minutes.
Then a guy comes up from behind her and starts kissing her cheek and whispering in her ear. She starts making faces but doesn't move away. This kind of destroyed my state, and her girl friend (who was trying to help her set her up with me, & not cockblock at all) and I exchange looks. After a few moments of silence, I engage her friend for a bit. A minute later homeboy is still whispering in her ear and while she's still making faces but not turning away.
I ask the friend how they all know each other to figure out if this dude is some aggressive drunk random (he was very drunk). The friend says, "we're all friends." So I then interrupt & engage the guy by asking about the Yankees game tonight (a Mixx guy opener I had read about on this forum). The guy says, "I'm only a football fan." My target girl gets up out of the chair and goes off. I stick around for a couple more minutes trying to engage the guy and the girl friend, but eventually succumb to the awkwardness and eject.
About 20 minutes later and see homeboy and my target doing some sort of dancing together in the bar.
I chickened out and did nothing. I felt a bit unmatched for a very drunk aggressive guy when I was nearly sober, even though there were all sorts of IOIs at me and not him.
What should I have done in this situation? Step 1 is when the amog interloper first intruded, my target clearly was more interested in me but not resisting his intimacy either (based on the faces she was making I was expecting her to tell him to get lost, but she never did - must have loved the fucking attention). Did I handle this properly by playing it cool & doing nothing until I could evaluate the situation, or should I have been direct from the beginning? I think being direct is the way to go to get rid of him, but what should I have said to have been firm & direct without starting a fight?
And step two is when I saw them dancing - how should I have handled this? I was not about to join them dancing to to my relative sobriety vs homeboy's aggressive drunk dance. Should I have re-engaged her right then and there the same way he did to me (getting all up between them and start whispering in her ear)? If so, what the fuck should I have whispered? Sexy shit like, "God, i wanna feel you better" followed by a quick isolation?
Any other suggestions?