[Indefatigable]

I think there should be a general thread dedicated to escalating faster. So let this be the thread.

In this thread you can post general tips on how to escalate faster, or ask questions specific to your situation about how you can escalate faster. Hopefully you will get your question anwered.

[XXL]

one little stupidly effective trick.. reach out your hand, palm up. if she bites then gently but firmly pull her in as close as you want. . if you have good eye contact, good first impression in general and you do it instantly with no hesitation most of the time she will take your hand.

super cool way to approach. you basically bypass the need to build attraction, it's super smooth, edgy but still acceptable cause she complies to you. now you can ask boring question or talk whatever bullshit you want, it won't matter cause all she's processing is wide range of emotions (fun, excitement, surprise, stress, intmidation, anxiety etc) not what you say.

if she rejects my hand i like to keep my hand reached out making stupid/silly faces pointing my eyes at my hand signaling her to grab it, it's funny, i'm making fun of my 'failure' which conveys all the right things about me.

recommend it, fun as hell

[Indefatigable]

I'll start with a question.

Assuming that there is no dancing, and the chick is very attracted to you, how do you escalate faster -- by faster I mean after talking to a chick in under 10mins? (Please don't tell me that escalating that fast is not going to work. I want to know what are the best strategies to employ even if you think they're unlikely to work. If they don't work, then I will have to try something else, like escalating slower.) In particular, I want to know

1) how you let her know you're sexually interested in her without it coming off as desperate, etc.?

2) what do you say before going for the kiss (in under 10mins)?

[Rocket]

Stand only a couple of inches away from her.
Give her strongly sexual eye contact, and don't back down.
Take her hand and don't let go.
Put your hand on her waist.
Talk to her directly into her ear and her into your ear, so your faces are almost touching. Doesn't matter what fluff you're talking about.
Alternate ears so your mouth and nose almost scrape hers as they go past.
"Accidentally" mistake which ear you're going to talk to so you do a "nearly kiss" or two.
Kiss.

[XXL]

(07-19-2012 04:12 PM)Indefatigable Wrote:  

1) how you let her know you're sexually interested in her without it coming off as desperate, etc.?

in my case it comes down to 'let's meet' attitude (instead of 'how to get her'). i express my interest by approaching, talking, flirting, dancing, i screen at the same time.

overall vibe is non needy. i do not validate them. does that mean i don't compliment a girl? no. it's not about that, sometimes i compliment, sometimes i diss, it doesn't matter what you 'do'. the way you don't validate them is by not validating them. how? be independent, have your own fun, be driven by taking innitiative (not seeking reactions), share good vibe with people, have some fun with girls, be happy on your own, don't need girls to be like that. in that case whatever you say is good cause you're clearly the person who truly doesn't need them. you don't give a fuck. it's almost impossible to have a bad night being in that state of mind.

(07-19-2012 04:12 PM)Indefatigable Wrote:  

2) what do you say before going for the kiss (in under 10mins)?

being close to eachother, hugging, deep eye contact, dancing slow.. that kind of things are much better than speaking

[Barca_0087]

Saw this video in another thread, cant recall which one but it might be helpful example of fast escalation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTomKxvEV...el&list=UL

This guy does some of the things I do in bars (purely direct style),
hes not needy or validating her reaction from what he does because he doesnt give a shit. Its natural to him.
like xxl said get close to her, use eye contact, and use your hands, touch her back, waist, hair,whatever works, be physical.

[Sourcecode]

this is pretty much all you need to do

just do this faster

[XXL]

Barca's vid is cool. that's how man-to-woman interaction looks like.

as for escalating, this is kind of FAST, start @ 1:08 for short intro to the footage of instant escalation:

look at julien haha!!