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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

Unbelievable that garbage like this sees print as a headline in a major national newspaper out here. Its pissed me off so much that I think this could be the longest post in history.

This bitch uploads a profile onto Ashley Madison, a fuck site for married people many of you probably know of. Then uses it to slate all of mankind after she gets the loaded results she was after. Worst thing is the media prints this and runs it. Not some small paper, Im talking a national paper and this is a headline on it.

This one article just about summed up all that is wrong with the USA, Australia, UK, etc when it comes to modern women. Not just in the outcome, but in the way this bitch has responded and reacted to it all. Over and above that, the fact that it sees print, and everyone feels that this sort of one sided, hateful dishonesty is somehow acceptable, is enough to make make blood boil.

In one article there are more female rationalisations than you could throw a book at, and the high and mighty bitchiness of this is what I cant stomach anymore. Nothing is looked at past her own point of view, and this is no doubt that this is someone who classifies herself as marriage material and quite the catch.

This is no different to me posting the results on my experiments on the sugar baby site and using it as an indication of all women on all dating sites across the globe, and by extension, all women as a whole.

Do you think any media outlets would have the guts to run my little experiment which shows women whoring out their friends or organizing group sex for 100k a year? Are a few gold diggers now a reflection on every single woman on Gods green earth?

Its this type of attitude that makes me realise they are a lost cause and the west as a whole is a lost cause. This is a losing battle. They are honestly worth nothing more than covering in sperm and then sending them on their whorish way. Its simply not worth the effort. They offer nothing and they demand everything.

This is not normal, healthy behavior, this is a sign of people who are sick and a society that is sick.

I dissect and rant, and sorry for the long post.

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WITHIN three days almost 400 men had added my profile to their "favourites" list.

Every day, I was “winked” at about 50 times.

After two weeks I had more than 1000 messages.

Sound like a lot? It did to me, and then you see the picture she uploaded

[Image: 737065-ashley-madison.jpg]

Compared to the obese, middle aged divorcees and married sluts that would go to this sort of site in the first place, she is probably in the top 1%. 24 years old, slim, nice tits and attractive? How many married women on a site like Ashley Madison are going to look like this? Most 24 year old women dont look like this, let alone a married one looking for a fling on a website catering to infidelity.

On top of it, she puts her fetishes up as everything under the sun. She is into BDSM, slavery, threesomes, one night stands. You name it, she lists it as something she is up for!

She knew that she would get attention with a picture like that, and even though she knowingly got the outcome she wanted, she then acts like a total fucking cunt about the whole thing. Puts the whole thing forward as icky men who would hit on every bitch on that site like this, when she would know for a fact that its a complete misrepresentation.

Upload a picture of a typical 40 year old married slut after three kids and lets see if you get that sort of response. Hell, remove half the whoreish activities you are up for and lets see what sort of response you get

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I felt like the only plate of food on a table surrounded by starving men, all of whom were dreadful spellers.Welcome to Ashley Madison - a dating website for married men and women looking for an extra-marital affair.

They are starving! They are married people looking to fuck other people because they dont get enough sex at home anymore. Thats the entire purpose of the site! Its like complaining about people praying too loudly in a church on Sunday.

I think the reason why they dont worry about spelling is because they are probably spamming every bitch that they see.

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I didn’t join the site to seduce someone’s husband, but to research a story about the way women were treated online.

"So I did not go to a dating site, I went to a fuck site where married people look to stray, posted a hot picture and a ton of different ways I like to take a dick and sat back and waited to meet a nice honest guy".

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Somewhere between the unwanted naked photos, wedding rings prominently on display, and the 'you’re so much hotter than my wife' style compliments, Ashley Madison started to really depress me.

Is this what happens in relationships over time? Spouses get bored and, desperate to avoid divorce, start actively looking to cheat? Will my friends’ husbands do this to them in 10 years? Is this what I have to look forward to if I ever get married?

No, its what your husband has to look forward to after you have stopped fucking him. He cant leave you because you get the kids and the house, so the guy is going to have to look elsewhere to get his end off. Amazingly, she lays all the blame at men, yet says fuck all about the fact that there are women on here too. There are married women on there looking to get laid too in case you missed it.

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Ashley Madison bills itself as a dating site for adults looking to have an affair.

I’m familiar with them in the US because of their sleazy advertising campaigns and endless self-promotion.

According to Wikipedia, the website has nearly 100 million members and receives roughly 1,800,000 unique visitors per month

Whole lot of married people not getting laid eh? Where do I sign up for this bliss? 100 million members? There are only 350 odd million people living in the USA FFS. Even though its an international site, exactly how large a portion of the married population is so desperate for sex that they need to resort to shit like this now?

Of course, she went to a sleazy site, posts a pic that puts her in the top 1% and then adds a list of activities that would make a hooker blush.

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To create my profile, I uploaded two older pictures of myself back when I had dark hair, figuring this would do for a disguise.

No you didnt you cunt. You uploaded younger, hotter pictures of yourself because your fat ass would not get the attention you used to get.

Women are so psychologically damaged and ego driven they cant even acknowledge the fact that younger women are more attractive and will get a better response, even though they know its true.

Its like our women live in this delusional void where age and beauty mean nothing anymore because they have decided they dont want it to mean anything. So even though they know its the way things are, they think if they deny it enough it will become true.

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I then looked at the alarmingly comprehensive list of sexual experiences from which I was supposed to select “My Intimate Desires” (I left it blank).

I waited for all of six minutes until my profile was approved. Then the floodgates opened.

Ashley Madison claims to have a gender split of seven men for every three women, and I felt that imbalance immediately.

Guys were sending me keys to “private galleries” before they’d even said hello, and I quickly learned to ignore these unless I felt like looking at strangers’ privates.

The messages were a strange mix of desperation and aggression.

One man aged 43 complimented me on my “read” hair and ordered me to email him at ilovehotsex@(redacted).com.

Another man aged 56 sent me paragraphs of graphic father-daughter erotica as his way of saying 'Hi, nice to meet you'.

Some modern poets inquired about my chest (“Ur boobs?” --42 & “Wats ur bra size plese.” --37) and others offered me large sums of money to spend time with them, which I will remember should I ever become a high-class escort.

They thought you were a whore because a 24 year old married women on a site like that probably is a whore. And the reason you were being hit on by socially inept losers is because they are socially inept losers who have had to resort to online sites to get their fix from somewhere.

The smart ones wanted to see if you would accept money. And you did not leave your intimate desires blank, the fucking profile you uploaded and showed to the world showed you were into group sex, bondage and kinky one night stands.

Misrepresent much?

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In between, I was hun’ed, darling’ed and princess’ed to death.

Oh the sexism and caveman like behavior! We cant progress like this!

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Not one man bothered to ask my name.

Because a stranger asking for your name means what exactly?

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Colour me unsurprised. As a woman who’s been writing for the internet for quite some time, I am very familiar with the subspecies of male who, when confronted with a blank text box, unleash a raging troll of an id.

There’s something about the anonymity of the internet that gives certain men word vomit, and I planned to use that to my advantage.

Of course, the legions of attention whores on social media sites and dating websites are all a figment of the imagination. I mean its not like women are going online seeking the validation of loser dweebs who kiss their asses left and right. No no, just women being women I guess.

You would think this fucking idiot would be familiar with the sub species of women who use the web as a way to feel socially relevant.

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I corresponded with 24 (vaguely literate) men over three days, all of whom had cheated before.

"Every man I spoke to was a dumb idiot who lacks my educated understanding of the world. Dont worry girls, these guys are idiots"

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Twenty-two were married, and the remaining two were single but preferred dating married women because they were “less drama” and “not as much work” respectively.

Ok so the majority were married men. On a site catering to married people. The shock. The surprise. The horror. How can this possibly be?

The single guys looking for married pussy tell you that they are pigs looking for hassle free sex, while the fact that they are probably fucking married women in the first place is not a bad reflection on those women at all. No way, the men are the predators, the innocent married bitch slipped on her wet panties and fell on some guys cock. It was all an accident on her part, the men were the problem here.

That men know married women are easy does not say a thing about womens fidelity.

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Nineteen had children, with four telling me their full names and ages, unprompted.

Yes, guys in sexless, loveless marriages tied to a bitch because of kids came as a surprise. I mean I thought this only happened in the movies. And imagine them being so nice about it all and telling me a bit about themselves. I cant keep getting the loaded results I am looking for these guys being nice to me and talking to me, so what Ill need to do is spin the nice guys into irresponsible wackos who are handing out their kids personal information at the mere whiff of maybe fucking a younger me.

Yes, that will work. This experiment is working out wonderfully, not to mention how many of these guys want to fuck me. God Im awesome

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Sixteen of them were over 40, which is significant because my profile states I’m 24 - the age I was in my pictures.

Yes, older men should not want to fuck younger women, this is not the way we want the world to work. At the same time, its disgusting that so many old married men want sex still, esp with younger attractive women

Yuck

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And one of them sent me his entire life story, including his office phone number.[quote]

Because you probably asked for it so you could arrange to meet? I mean what do you think is going to happen?

[quote]With three clicks, I found his real age, his grandchildrens’ Facebook profiles and his wife’s business.

Yep, guys a retard. He would not be in this position in the first place is he was not.

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I didn’t find a magic formula that determines who will cheat when and why. People are too unpredictable for that.

However, in conversations with these 24 men, I did find four reasons that came up repeatedly.

Excuse one: “I’m bored.”

One man said: “I miss the rush of being with someone exciting and new.”

Another told me he wants to “daydream about [me] in meetings at work and on the train”.

One man in his 60s told me: “My wife is a wonderful companion, but I want someone I cannot stop thinking about”.

These grown men want to throw their families under the bus so that they experience a teenage crush. Fantastic.

Clueless. Utterly clueless. Cannot fathom that to men sex is a vital and important as oxygen.

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Crushes are great. The problem is that they’re the emotional equivalent of a sugar high: quick, dirty and unsustainable.

Butterflies in your stomach don’t live forever, and if you expect to feel first date jitters for the rest of your life, you’ll be disappointed.

These men are disappointed.

They’re disappointed in their partners, as if it’s their fault that they're no longer as interesting and new. Which leads to...

Excuse two: “It’s my wife’s fault”.

Some version of this sentence appeared in almost every message I received.

He cant come out and say he just wants to fuck you, he needs to spin you bullshit so that you can rationalise sleeping with him. Do women actually think we believe half the shit we say to them? You wrap it up in cotton wool because they are like children, and if you want to fuck women you sell them a dream, not reality.

Reality confuses them, as we could see with this article

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It isn’t just that these men wanted a woman who works, raises children, keeps the house, always looks perfect and tends to her man’s every sexual whim, they feel like they are entitled to one, and when their Stepford Wife turns out to be a human being, they feel cheated.

Lol, yes. She works, raises his kids, keeps his house, cooks for him and looks perfect, all the while fucking his brains out. But because she is a nice person, all men feel cheated and need to go and fuck other women.

Hahaha, if the men in these profiles had the sort of women she just described, almost none of them would feel the need to cheat. The fact that she nags him endlessly, never fucks him, looks like a whale, puts her career over their family, never cooks and certainly does not look after the kids is half the reason why he is on the prowl.

Not in our darlings world though. No no, they are all stepford wives. What fucking saints they are.

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After a while, instead of “it’s all her fault” I began hearing “she is not keeping up her end of the bargain that I feel is part of her role as my spouse, and as a penalty I am entitled to pursue other women”.

I'm not all-knowing.

It’s possible that in some cases it really is all someone else’s fault, but I don’t believe that all 24 men that I spoke to married uncaring ice queens who hate sex.

No, thats impossible to imagine. Whats easy to imagine though is that all women are career mums, raising kids, in fantastic shape that cook well and fuck like pornstars. That, THAT is easy to imagine. And it must be true because she thinks it, and what she thinks is true, is true.

Am I right?

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The health of a relationship is not solely a female responsibility. Women do not have to prevent their men from straying, as if men are alley cats with no sense of accountability. Although, apparently…

Excuse three: “It’s science”.

Biology was cited as a reason for infidelity by 15 men.

“Men spread their seed, lol, it’s what we’re meant to do,” said one. “If you read about evolutionary psychology, males are 'meant' to be with many females” said another. “I love beautiful girls like yourself,” said a man older than my father.

“I don’t think it’s reasonable for men to be limited to one woman, it isn’t in our DNA.”

I know a lot about psychology and biology, but I’m also pretty good at spotting sexist rationalisation when I see it.

Hahahahahahaha

Sexist rationalisation.

Yes the male sex drive and biological need for sex is unreasonable, and if his wife is not going to fuck him, he needs to put up with it. This is what he signed up for, she does not have to fuck him and he has no right to complain the selfish prick. And that gives him no right to fuck either women either. Sex is on his wifes terms only, his needs dont matter, and if he does not like it he is a sexist pig who has no respect for women.

You can read the rest of it here, because its more of the same crap.

This sort of thing speaks volumes

* There are millions and millions of men who are in sexless, loveless marriages. Considering the size of the population across the countries where this site is popular, and the number of people who are married, the numbers are staggering

* Men are so desperate for sex and companionship even in marriage they are risking personal information online to complete strangers just so that they can bust a nut. They are risking kids, financial well being and social standing for it. This is how badly women have married men by the balls.

* Our women are sick, delusional CUNTS. The fact that this article sees print just goes to show how bad the situation has actually become for both genders. Women think the sun shines from their arse, men feel they owe these bitches something. The sense of entitlement is so extreme its beyond pathological. Not only that, the outright hatred for men is so vindictive, vicious and spiteful at times its gone beyond shameful. Its not going to change though, because for every guy treating them like a whore come 20 weaklings kissing her ass.

* The talk of 25% of them being on some sort of psychological medication goes to show how damaged so many of them are. They live on another planet, and the amount of power they have over you through state enforced contracts when married is sickening. Would you go into business with someone who was emotionally unstable? Would you let a babysitter who was on meds look after your kids? Would you spend time with friends who emotionally volatile to the point where they needed medication?

These sorts of things are nothing more than a reflection on the society we live in these days.

Keep it, Ill stick to my Russian gold diggers thanks.
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

She needs some dick.

Nope.
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I found her email address

She was sent a few links...
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

Harry: Tell us how you REALLY feel.
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I read that earlier in the day myself.

As soon as I saw the heading and who posted it, I knew it would be the same article.

Let the cunt stew in her own hamster spun mediocrity. The world, and the men that shape it will pass her by.
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

I've got to admit, I didn't get all the way through your post.

That said, it was entertaining to the point I read. Although if I were in charge of the paper I'd read her story and say 'You signed up for a dating website and got men hitting on you? What a fucking surprise."
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

While I read the whole thing and agree with the analysis this concerns me a tad. Not because women are becoming androgynous but the long term impact of learning too much. Seems like the older players lose an ability to have any emotional connection to a girl, which is likely unhealthy.

Could be dead wrong though, and I am no one to talk since I recently wrote off American girls for potential dating material.
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So Harry, have you narrowed down the list of countries you'd move to? [Image: smile.gif]
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

I live in the UK and do not date English girls for all the aforementioned reasons.

I am lucky enough to live in London so have access to foreign women.
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison has gotten attention on television news programs also. The guy that runs it routinely goes on shows to defend what he does. Sex always sells, no matter what the form of media. Pieces on marital infidelity, as well as any story regarding sex that makes men look bad, is going to get viewers. What these pieces never talk about is that "statistics" say that almost as many married women cheat as married men. But of course, it's because they're FORCED into the arms of another man through some form of neglect!

"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

The shitty thing is this girl thinks that she is being creative by writing this.
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

It's shit like this that makes It very hard for me to conceive of ever having anything other than sexual relations with women. I would not trust them with any kind of responsibility.
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Inside the world of online infidelity website Ashley Madison

Quote: (06-26-2012 03:15 AM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

I found her email address

She was sent a few links...
Will she be reading this thread?

This is her blog
http://helloalle.com/

And of course this bitch needs a Twitter to feel important
https://twitter.com/#!/helloalle


Here is her latest blog on having a huge ego and feeding it
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I freely admit that I have a healthy ego. No, that’s not quite right: My ego is the size of a city bus. Not one of the crappy ones that the CTA drives around Logan Square, I mean one of the big-ass concertina double buses that speed around tourist areas looking impressive. In the past I have gotten some shit from people for being full of myself, or “Thinking [I'm] so great,” as it’s often put. But do you know what? I don’t care! Because I AM so great! And this knowledge has gotten me though some really rough times.

Having a healthy ego doesn’t mean that you have to be Kanye West, because thinking you are fantastic isn’t the same thing as thinking you’re the most important person on the planet. That is the difference between having an ego and being self-centered & selfish. Don’t be those last things. At best, you’ll be an asshole (and nobody likes an asshole); at worst you’ll end up dating a vapid reality star because nobody else can stand you.

Imagine your ego as protection from the outside world. Even though it isn’t out to get you specifically, the world is a pretty harsh place and sometimes it’ll seem like it’s doing it’s damnedest to stab you in the back, roll you in a carpet and throw you off a cliff. That’s where your ego comes in: Consider it a pile of mattresses waiting at the bottom of said cliff to cushion your fall. You can’t prevent the bad things in life from happening (in this case, a long walk off a short precipice). But you can cope with them, you can bounce back from them and–MOST IMPORTANTLY–you can not let them affect your idea of yourself. If you know down to your bones that you’re magnificent and strong, you also know that mere events don’t change that. You are not the things that happen to you.

That’s why having an ego is so great: It makes it easier to be selective about the things that you let affect the core of who you are. Let your ego be a filter. Take in lessons that make you more awesome and keep out things that hurt you or make you feel small. Feed your ego. Stroke it a little. Know that in the whole vastness of the universe and in all of time, there’s only one combination of genetic material, life experiences and social constructs that made YOU. YOU will never, ever happen again. That makes you beyond incredible. Own exactly how incredible!

You get one life. You can either spend it wishing you were something else, or you can spend it knowing that you are absolutely glorious. I know what I’m choosing; what about you?
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The thing with thinking you're fantastic is, it should be a pre-requisite that you are fantastic.

This hag and a lot of other people across the world don't understand that. Hence deep down they are alone; nobody wants to be around self-important assholes with nothing to offer.



Someone get it over and done with and buy this lady a pet kitten.
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Somehow I'm not surprised that she uses the opportunity to take a shot at someone else. I would venture that Kanye West has made a greater contribution than she has. And he actually stood up and admitted that he fucked out and was out of control. She started that blog entry by reasserting how great she is, and bragging about how big her ego is.

"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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That blog post is disgusting, but I love the responsibility ducking hamster action.

One thing I've learned in the game is that big egos are the most fragile. Being able to temper your ego is the only way to grow. But then most women don't care much for self-improvement since it requires taking a hard look at their flaws.

"A flower can not remain in bloom for years, but a garden can be cultivated to bloom throughout seasons and years." - xsplat
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