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06-05-2014, 12:42 PM
What should you do if you're not that into dirty talk?
I have no problems saying things that I really am thinking at the moment (e.g. "ahh this feels so nice", "you're so hot right now" "I soo love fucking you in this position", "you like being spanked, don't you" etc) but saying stuff such as "tell me what a dirty girl you are", "you like being my fuck toy?" and so on would just feel labored and cheesy.
I'd definitely do it if it would make her horny though but it would have to come naturally.. any advice?
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06-05-2014, 01:55 PM
I understand. The thing to recognise is that everything changes in a state of heightened sexual awareness. I'm not suggesting you sit across the dinner table from your date and tell her you're going to make her your little cum slut ( not for the uninitiated anyway).
The idea is to work from gentle and romantic to dirty. As your woman becomes more and more aroused she will respond very powerfully to very dirty talk. Yes, even the ones who would slap you if you said 'cunt' in the living room. And when they are near the point of orgasm you can say literally anything and it will launch her into orbit. The key is to listen to her body. As she becomes more responsive push her a bit further. This is one of those areas with women where they would never imagine they would respond to this until they have.
And yes, it is a form of hypnotism. Which does work. Just not the way most people believe. Check out Mark Cunningham's Renegade Hypnotist stuff for more info for those curious.
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06-05-2014, 04:35 PM
Coincidentally, this is an email I received today from a woman I fucked a couple of times more than three years ago. This woman is an associate professor at a large mid-western US university.
"A man I was dating complained that a former GF didn't want to have sex with him.
I said: Did you ever think of grabbing her hair a little at the nape of her neck and calmly telling her in a low and even voice to please go into the bedroom, strip, and prepare to be fucked?
The man giggled uncomfortably and said in a high voice: you're scaring me.
Rather, I was testing him and he failed the test. No wet panties for me!
Why is the US overpopulated with weak spineless men who are more like women than men?
Maybe it's all the estrogenic chemicals in the water..."
I'll grant you that before meeting me this cute but slightly mousey woman would never have said such a thing to a man but the fact she is willing to do it now as a test tells you all you need to know about what lies inside women waiting to be unlocked.
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06-05-2014, 08:04 PM
Quote: (06-05-2014 04:35 PM)Monte Cristo Wrote:
Why is the US overpopulated with weak spineless men who are more like women than men?
Because they've been brainwashed from birth by feminism and liberalism.
Because many of them were raised by single mothers, or if they were lucky to have a father, a beta male weak father.
Because masculinity has been pretty much outlawed in America, and they are afraid that if they show masculine traits, they will be punished by society or even end up in prison.
Because the elite are running a social engineering program known as feminism which emasculates the men and makes them weak, since weak men are much easier to control and are not a threat to the elite power structure.
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06-07-2014, 09:38 AM
Just for the record I have evolved from a family full of right wing conservatives and traditional household. I now consider myself to be very liberal and I totally respect women's rights and feminists to a point... that said I totally want to dominate them in the bedroom and have no problem doing so.
I get the hate for the Lindy West's and the PC crowd that you see on Jezebel, and this anti-rape campaign is very overbearing similar to MADD.
But European progressiveness (for example) is far superior to whatever it is we have in America and certainly to whatever they have in the Eastern European or Muslim countries. My role model would be some semi fictional French dude or Italian dude who's liberal yet knows what makes him a man knows what women want
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06-08-2014, 09:15 AM
Thanks for great advice guys. I'll have to work on this I feel.. looking forward to it haha
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06-17-2014, 12:40 PM
This thread inspired me to write an article, mainly concerning the history behind the tantra/sex cults in ancient history:
http://www.mediafire.com/view/s57jex448o...itual.docx
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08-01-2014, 04:45 PM
So I went from choking slapping man handling a main girl, to her buying me all kinds of lingerie outfits and bdsm whip. She LOVES being spanked and it also turns me on.
I suggested we purchase a leash for her, I jokingly said I'd walk her around town, she wouldn't mind at all. She also told me she went to a goth/bondage club before.
....I think I'm barely putting my feet in the water with this girl...and I like it (i've never been down this road before).
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08-01-2014, 05:02 PM
I have girls wear collars with O-rings for me, haven't actually gone for the walk in public though. Perhaps at a bondage event.
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08-31-2014, 07:13 PM
apparently reaper23 got banned... This is one of the best threads on the site, all of us should know how to fuck like supermen.
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08-31-2014, 10:35 PM
I have become a huge fan od BDSM lately.
Pretty much every girl im with I introduce to light BDSM with handcuffs and PVC tape and a blindfold.
It's amazing what these girls will do with a couple drinks in them and a few restraints.
God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
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09-01-2014, 11:35 AM
Yeah, I find the pink bondage tape to be a winner with every girl.
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09-01-2014, 08:10 PM
Amazon.com has pretty much everything you need.
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09-01-2014, 10:57 PM
Any ball gag recommendations?
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10-25-2014, 07:48 PM
Being into vile kinky things turns sixes into eights.
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