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11-23-2009, 06:48 AM
Since breaking up with my gf of many years a few months ago I banged quite a few different chicks and the last couple of times I didn't really seem to be into it much. I had a tough time keeping the sarge up due to lack of interest it seems if you know what I mean? The past week and a half I've been quite content without gaming and not concerned about getting laid.
Is this normal, how many other guys have run into this before, and how long did it last? I just think it's somewhat weird being that it was exciting being up in strange for the first time in a while. But it quickly lost it's appeal for me.
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11-23-2009, 07:08 AM
How old are you? Were the girls 8-10s? Maybe the girls weren't smart or feminine enough for you to get into it.
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11-23-2009, 07:27 AM
I'm 30 and all of the chicks were probably 6-8'ish. One was probably a 6 but damn she has a banging body and I was really into that. The last chick I was with basically went down on me all night and she was a 6 but I just wasn't into it you know. After a while I was just like turn around so I can 'f' you from behind. I tried doing that and it just would not get hard enough to do the job you know? I was a little worried that there might be a problem with my junk so I watched some porno later and the junk is fine. Though a little while into the porn my mind started to drift and I wasn't very interested in watching Gwen Summers getting banged by some retarded looking dude. In fact, there was too much dude in that film. I hate watching porn where they gotta show the dude's face and worse yet his fucking O face. That will kill a boner every time.
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11-23-2009, 12:30 PM
Trotter,
Just take a break, work out and get back on the horse. So to speak.
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11-23-2009, 03:37 PM
Trotter, I'm 25 and I'm going through a similar situation right now. I've banged a few girls after the breakup, partied quite a bit, and I just haven't been feeling it lately. On the other hand, this period has been one of the most productive I've ever had in my life. As G said, it's a great time to get back on the horse (so to speak).
I still have my eyes open to meet some new girls, but my motivation to meet a girl has decreased while my motivation for other things has increased, but I'm sure it's only temporary because we all need sex/girls in our lives...
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11-23-2009, 07:46 PM
Thats just the way it is....right? When your getting alot of ass you get sick of it and start thinking you should be focusing on other things.....but as soon as you focus on something else for a month or so....you will see a beautiful woman and BAM!.....you get that feeling back. I really doubt there is anything wrong with you physically or mentally.....you just need to take a break from the honeys for a while....If you were NOT getting any action you would probably be a a raging horny maniac...this shit is funny.
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11-23-2009, 09:18 PM
I find hitting the gym gets my testosterone flowing.
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11-24-2009, 01:29 AM
There have been several times that I chose jacking it to some great porn over fucking a mediocre looking chick.
I'd suggest only chasing 8+. Harder, but does wonders for the libido.
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11-24-2009, 03:34 AM
this is completely normal....sometimes you dont find the urge to get laid....scarcity matters !
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11-24-2009, 12:03 PM
Great tips.
I'll try working out more and stay focused on myself for awhile. Right after the breakup I did start to work out a bit but it's dropped off entirely recently. That may have something to do with it. Like Roosh said get the testosterone flowing.
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11-26-2009, 12:12 AM
Ok, my sex drive came back yesterday. Man, I'm back to normal, it's great. Now, I need to get laid to night so that this drive is satisfied!!! I guess you could call it the pre-Thanksgiving gobble.
Ahoy!
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12-02-2009, 05:34 PM
Update:
I went to Ohio for Thanksgiving and I met a really cute chick. She ended up giving me a BJ the second night and I was really into it. I was almost embarrassed because the conclusion came about pretty quickly. It didn't go beyond that because I think she was thinking "I only just met you", but I was digging her and it went well. I'm not sure but I think there might have been an excitement factor to it because we did it in my sister's house in my nephew's bedroom. The point being that it's been a long while since I've had sex somewhere other than my own place or my car.
I think maybe I'll try to do some more of that in the future and see how it goes.
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Sex drive is back, and my game is coming back, but being in OC I don't have very many opportunities to let things flourish, so I am keeping my eyes and ears open ![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)