[defguy]

I ran a quick search but nothing came up so I thought I would ask this question. My first post in the Game section so sorry if I sound like a retarded n00b. I recently told a FB of mine that "we should start seeing other people because I need a brake" and that it was "starting to feel too much like a relationship." Naturally this wasnt very well received lol She said she wasnt going to "fall for me again" and to delete her number and that she would be doing the same. My question is, do I take this seriously and actually delete her number? lol or should I just hit her up after a month or so whenever I feel like a bootycall? It doesnt really bother me either way there are always more girls to chase but I would like to know my limits. Also is there a better way I should have done this? As in telling her I need "space" but not actually admitting I want to see other people? Im not used to cheating on the sly, I blame Roosh for corrupting me.

[HiFlo]

Tell her that wasn't quite what you meant and meet her in person.

'Sensitive' shit like this you need to talk about in person. You don't text these thorny issues unless u want to burn ur bridges.

[Sourcecode]

Keep her number..but add something like.Do not pick up on it.
Put her on the backburner for a while..I would say about a month.
Send her a restart text and see if you can get something poppin.

Or just forget about her and start gaming new girls.

Pssh..just cause she tells you to do something doesnt mean you have to do it.
Do you know how many chicks have tried to say..delete the nude pictures i sent to you..

[Kitsune]

I've had this a couple of times.

What I will say: Under no circumstances should you actually delete the number. I've had exes stalk me for years after the break-up, and I'm not exaggerating. It is good to know in advance whether you should ignore the call. A girl will never get rid of your number, whatever she says, so you shouldn't either.

Now, as to what to tell her; depends on the situation. I mean, I guess the easiest thing to do is say 'ok' and then just stash the number somewhere else, but I guess it is context specific.

[defguy]

Wow you guys chimed in real quick with excellent input. I was expecting to get n00b bashed lol Thanks a lot guys!

[I'mWaitingForTheMan]

Definitely keep it. Do what you want, it's your property. Like it was said above, if for nothing else other than to screen your calls.

[Tuthmosis]

I've just started to delete my numbers from circa 2005-2006. It takes a lot for me to get rid of a number.

I had a girl tell me to "lose her number" several times and she kept coming back for more. She was some of the best sex I ever had, and it got better with each reconciliation. I learned this lesson a long-ass time ago.

[el mechanico]

Rule one. Don't listen to what girls say.

Rule two. Don't ever do what they want or tell you to do.

Rule three. You're in control after you've banged. Not her.

[InternationPlayboy]

You just pissed her off. Let her cool off. You're gonna have to basically start over again. It might take hanging out with her a couple more times without hooking up in order for her to get comfortable banging you again. I've had this happen many times. One time I dumped a girl because I told her I didn't want a GF. A couple weeks later she saw me on facebook with another girlfriend. This was kinda long distance since I went down to Brazil and dumped her there and met the Brazilian girl. When I got back to the States, the origional girl would barely talk to me at first. After a couple weeks we were banging again.

[Timoteo]

She reacted emotionally when she told you to never call her again. That's what they do. Even if a chick isn't looking to get serious, they don't want to hear it from YOU, because it makes them feel cheap. Keep the digits, give it some time, then hit her up again to test the waters. If she's still hostile, maybe then you can drop her.

[Gmac]

I delete a lot of numbers, but I never delete a chick's number because she told me to. Reverse psychology, deep down she wants to hear from you.

[Blaze Frazier]

Delete and move on. She'll never know if you do or not.

[R Smoov]

Send her a playful text later on saying "I thought I deleted this number!"

[MrXY]

(05-25-2012 02:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Rule one. Don't listen to what girls say.

Rule two. Don't ever do what they want or tell you to do.

Rule three. You're in control after you've banged. Not her.

This post should be stickied to the top of the N00B forum

Just following these three rules would double the game of a N00B overnight