[1bliss]

So I went to a dog park with my buddy and his gf, and this pretty french girl who knows the GF started talking to us for about 30 mins. I made small talk with her but nothing major.

That's the first time I ever go to that park, and I don't see my buddy's GF too often. How do I go about getting to see the girl again? She was showing signs of interest and she's my exactly type.

The park is pretty close to where I live but I don't have a dog to take to that park. If I did, I wouldn't be asking this question, I'd be at that park every week!

BTW for all you pimps living in Toronto, this dog park was in downtown tdot and had alot of potential. Never been to a dog park in mississauga/brampton/oakville/vaughan/etc but if they are anything like this one, I highly recommend them!

So any advice/recommendations? I don't want to come off as creepy or needy, or desperate...

[HiFlo]

Ask your buddy to tell his gf to set you up with her because you really enjoyed your conversation with her. Simple enough.

[WanderingSoul]

I don't like to be hooked up because the GF is going to say some stupid shit to make you look like a chump. She won't do it on purpose, but she will be like "Hey, my BF's friend from the dog park really likes you. He want's to go on a double date sometime. OMG! IT'LL BE SO MUCH FUN! He's super sweet and really nice. He will treat you so good! Blah blah girl shit blah blah!"

If you go this route I would tell the GF to invite her out for drinks some night, but not to say anything about you really. Make it clear so she doesn't fuck it up and say something stupid.

Good luck.

[Tuthmosis]

(04-29-2012 07:24 PM)1bliss Wrote:  

She was showing signs of interest and she's my exactly type.

I'm confused: then why didn't you hit her up right there and then?

EDIT: Just ask your buddy to get the girl's number for you from his girlfriend. Text her saying you got her number from her and that you should continue your conversation "over a drink or something." It's your best choice. I actually pulled off a similar move one time. Didn't bang, but made out with the girl.

[1bliss]

(04-30-2012 01:21 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

I don't like to be hooked up because the GF is going to say some stupid shit to make you look like a chump. She won't do it on purpose, but she will be like "Hey, my BF's friend from the dog park really likes you. He want's to go on a double date sometime. OMG! IT'LL BE SO MUCH FUN! He's super sweet and really nice. He will treat you so good! Blah blah girl shit blah blah!"

If you go this route I would tell the GF to invite her out for drinks some night, but not to say anything about you really. Make it clear so she doesn't fuck it up and say something stupid.

Good luck.

This is exactly what my concern is. I'm trying to stay away from asking the GF to talk to her for me because I know what kinda shit she'll say to her, it'll make me look like a pussy.

update: the GF told my buddy that the girl has a BF "who is really jacked" (lol), I replied saying I dont care if she has a bf or not, and to let me know when they are going to the park next, I would like to come because I had a good time. If she's there, then that's cool I'll chat her up. If not, then so be it, I won't cry about it

[FretDancer]

Tell your friend to arrange a night/day out with his gf and the other girl and possibly some other girls to make it much more Social Circle. Game as normal, but don't forget to stay with the Circle as well.

Also, might want to go out for a jog someday to the park.

[1bliss]

(04-30-2012 09:57 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Tell your friend to arrange a night/day out with his gf and the other girl and possibly some other girls to make it much more Social Circle. Game as normal, but don't forget to stay with the Circle as well.

Also, might want to go out for a jog someday to the park.

Smart man...

Thanks for the idea. The odds that she's there when I go for a jog are pretty low but worth a try.

[FretDancer]

(05-02-2012 02:27 PM)1bliss Wrote:  

(04-30-2012 09:57 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Tell your friend to arrange a night/day out with his gf and the other girl and possibly some other girls to make it much more Social Circle. Game as normal, but don't forget to stay with the Circle as well.

Also, might want to go out for a jog someday to the park.

Smart man...

Thanks for the idea. The odds that she's there when I go for a jog are pretty low but worth a try.

Yeah, but it can be very relaxing, and you might spot hotter babes that you can game. Win win!

[1bliss]

So my buddy told me him and his GF saw the her again at the dog park, this time her BF was there with her. Supposedly, they're pretty serious. Oh well, right?...

[Timoteo]

I've always avoided hookups through other females because it puts them in the middle of your business. She may put in a good word for you, but she may also say something wrong. Or the two of them will be talking about you behind your back, period. If you say or do anything, she'll be sharing it with her girl. Your boy's girl already knows now, but I would have tried my best to cut her out of the loop and find a way to get at her through your boy.

[FretDancer]

(05-02-2012 08:04 PM)1bliss Wrote:  

So my buddy told me him and his GF saw the her again at the dog park, this time her BF was there with her. Supposedly, they're pretty serious. Oh well, right?...

Relax, remember that the Social Circle day/night out I told you about. It's actually designed to game indirectly, without revealing your true motive. This is the key to girls with boyfriends.

Note of Warning: If you tend to fall on oneitis from time to time, don't think on this too much, move on to other girls, keep on gaming.

[travolta]

Why do you need your buddy's girlfriend's permission to bang this chick....? You should have just gotten her number when you first met her. And why do you care about coming across as creepy/weird? Being creepy/weird comes with the territory... Asking for her number through her friend seems a bit weak (though I've never gotten a number through a friend, so I can't really say).

My friend's gf recently hooked me up with her room mate. I made extremely ballsy, "creepy" moves right in front of anyone. I hooked up with her that night, and my friend's GF respected me more after that.. (as if I need her respect anyway...). If she would have rejected me it wouldn't have mattered. Obviously my friend wouldn't have judged me, and I'm not trying to hook up with my friend's gf so I don't care if she thinks I'm a creep.

From the tone of your question, it sounds like you were just too shy to pull the trigger on this one

[Gmac]

VK nearly hooked me up with his sister's friend last weekend. I had the in (they were undressing me in the cab 1 minute after meeting me), but she was a huge slore going through a black/asian phase (apparently). She didn't like it when I smacked her ass on the dance floor either. Good riddance I say.

If I really wanted to see her again, I'd ask VK for her number and he'd find a way to get it for me because he's my boy. Freaking duh.

[1bliss]

(05-02-2012 10:18 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

(05-02-2012 08:04 PM)1bliss Wrote:  

So my buddy told me him and his GF saw the her again at the dog park, this time her BF was there with her. Supposedly, they're pretty serious. Oh well, right?...

Relax, remember that the Social Circle day/night out I told you about. It's actually designed to game indirectly, without revealing your true motive. This is the key to girls with boyfriends.

Note of Warning: If you tend to fall on oneitis from time to time, don't think on this too much, move on to other girls, keep on gaming.

Yeah I told him to tell his GF to tell the girl to come out for drinks sometime. It really doesn't seem like he's gonna go the extra mile for me, as expected. For some it's weird to ask him to do something like that, although me and him used to go out all the time and pick up.

I told him the girl's BF doesn't affect me, and I still want his GF to tell her to come out. He pretty much laughed it off. We'll see if he works his magic.

Can't really depend on people. Hate situations like this.

(05-02-2012 10:38 PM)travolta Wrote:  

Why do you need your buddy's girlfriend's permission to bang this chick....? You should have just gotten her number when you first met her. And why do you care about coming across as creepy/weird? Being creepy/weird comes with the territory... Asking for her number through her friend seems a bit weak (though I've never gotten a number through a friend, so I can't really say).

My friend's gf recently hooked me up with her room mate. I made extremely ballsy, "creepy" moves right in front of anyone. I hooked up with her that night, and my friend's GF respected me more after that.. (as if I need her respect anyway...). If she would have rejected me it wouldn't have mattered. Obviously my friend wouldn't have judged me, and I'm not trying to hook up with my friend's gf so I don't care if she thinks I'm a creep.

From the tone of your question, it sounds like you were just too shy to pull the trigger on this one

Because that's not my game. It's my buddy's GF's friend (not even friend, more like a run-in), who has a boyfriend. Coming off as too straight up and creepy would not just ruin my image, but would make shit between her and the GF weird as well. I don't like ruining other people's relationships for my own pleasure risk. If we were to go out a couple times, then that's a different story.

Respect means a lot to me.

[WanderingSoul]

Just let this one go man. She's one out of a million, not one IN a million. On to the next one.