Hey, what's up Roosh and company?
A brief intro about myself. I'm an eighteen year old recovering beta male nerd finishing up community college and I just stumbled across game a few weeks ago. I'm a virgin, never been in an LTR but none of that matters now. From here on out it's going to be gaining muscle, gaming girls, and getting laid.
Not too long ago I tried my first post-game approach on a cute Asian girl in line at the DMV. She was holding a copy of Crime & Punishment and I was able to use that to spark a conversation. I was totally expecting to be rejected on my first attempt, and I was nervous as all fuck, but I managed to crack a few jokes, tease her once or twice and get her laughing.
On the way out I said,
"Hey, I'd love to continue this conversation, put your number into my phone."
"Well I could always just friend you on Facebook instead" she replied.
"Or you could put your number into my phone" I shot back.
Holy shit. First day game attempt = scratch that - first attempt EVER and I get the number close. This game stuff is like magic.
So anyway, I was planning on calling her in two days and setting something up, but instead she ends up finding on Facebook anyway and inviting me out on a coffee date.
Now, I know from Roosh that when a girl asks you out on a coffee date, it means she isn't planning on getting physical or escalating the relationship. However, when we were chatting at the DMV she said something to the effect of, "You're funny. You should meet my friends, they'd really like you" and through Facebook I was able to confirm that most of her close friends were, in fact, hot. So I figured, what the hell, might as well befriend her and see if I can't do better with one of her cute friends.
Well, turned out she ended up getting a sever allergic reaction to a new food she tried the day before our coffee date, so it was cancelled on account of her face swelling up to the size of a watermelon. She continued to text and Facebook message me during this time, mostly about some shit she is going through with her "friend with benefits" who she kind of likes but she says he is such an asshole because he refuses to actually fuck her, and only ever wants to have oral. She wanted me to give her advice on this issue because I was a guy and "I seemed like I'd been around the block a few times" (lol!). To me, it seemed quite obvious that she wanted me to be a friend that she could turn to for help in these situations. Still, I figured if I could help her out and build a connection, I would have an easier time trying to hook up with one of her friends, so I decided to act as her friend.
A few days later she Facebook messaging asking "if I invite a guy out to coffee, is that considered a date?" I figured she probably invited another guy who hit on her out to coffee in order to non-verbally establish "the friend-zone" and perhaps he didn't quite get the message. I explained in the following way:
"I generally assume when a girl invites me to go on a coffee date, she is basically saying either she is not trying to hook up with me or does not want me to escalate our relationship."
She replied by saying:
"I don't think you should connote a specific message to a girl inviting you out on a coffee date."
She then went on to ask me if we could hang out this week before she goes away for the weekend.
Reading between the lines, do you guys think this girl is DTF after all? I wouldn't have thought it possible, but I think it would be unbelievably awesome to lay the first girl I've ever approached.
P.S. In the meantime, I've been sure to keep approaching other girls and working on my day game. I've gotten rejected a few times, but I've also gotten a couple more numbers, and based on this Facebook message that I just got from a different curvacious cutie while writing this, it looks like I might not be a virgin for very long:
"Unfortunately, I must go to class and learn things now. You should sext I MEAN text me sometime. Buh bye, darling."
A brief intro about myself. I'm an eighteen year old recovering beta male nerd finishing up community college and I just stumbled across game a few weeks ago. I'm a virgin, never been in an LTR but none of that matters now. From here on out it's going to be gaining muscle, gaming girls, and getting laid.
Not too long ago I tried my first post-game approach on a cute Asian girl in line at the DMV. She was holding a copy of Crime & Punishment and I was able to use that to spark a conversation. I was totally expecting to be rejected on my first attempt, and I was nervous as all fuck, but I managed to crack a few jokes, tease her once or twice and get her laughing.
On the way out I said,
"Hey, I'd love to continue this conversation, put your number into my phone."
"Well I could always just friend you on Facebook instead" she replied.
"Or you could put your number into my phone" I shot back.
Holy shit. First day game attempt = scratch that - first attempt EVER and I get the number close. This game stuff is like magic.
So anyway, I was planning on calling her in two days and setting something up, but instead she ends up finding on Facebook anyway and inviting me out on a coffee date.
Now, I know from Roosh that when a girl asks you out on a coffee date, it means she isn't planning on getting physical or escalating the relationship. However, when we were chatting at the DMV she said something to the effect of, "You're funny. You should meet my friends, they'd really like you" and through Facebook I was able to confirm that most of her close friends were, in fact, hot. So I figured, what the hell, might as well befriend her and see if I can't do better with one of her cute friends.
Well, turned out she ended up getting a sever allergic reaction to a new food she tried the day before our coffee date, so it was cancelled on account of her face swelling up to the size of a watermelon. She continued to text and Facebook message me during this time, mostly about some shit she is going through with her "friend with benefits" who she kind of likes but she says he is such an asshole because he refuses to actually fuck her, and only ever wants to have oral. She wanted me to give her advice on this issue because I was a guy and "I seemed like I'd been around the block a few times" (lol!). To me, it seemed quite obvious that she wanted me to be a friend that she could turn to for help in these situations. Still, I figured if I could help her out and build a connection, I would have an easier time trying to hook up with one of her friends, so I decided to act as her friend.
A few days later she Facebook messaging asking "if I invite a guy out to coffee, is that considered a date?" I figured she probably invited another guy who hit on her out to coffee in order to non-verbally establish "the friend-zone" and perhaps he didn't quite get the message. I explained in the following way:
"I generally assume when a girl invites me to go on a coffee date, she is basically saying either she is not trying to hook up with me or does not want me to escalate our relationship."
She replied by saying:
"I don't think you should connote a specific message to a girl inviting you out on a coffee date."
She then went on to ask me if we could hang out this week before she goes away for the weekend.
Reading between the lines, do you guys think this girl is DTF after all? I wouldn't have thought it possible, but I think it would be unbelievably awesome to lay the first girl I've ever approached.
P.S. In the meantime, I've been sure to keep approaching other girls and working on my day game. I've gotten rejected a few times, but I've also gotten a couple more numbers, and based on this Facebook message that I just got from a different curvacious cutie while writing this, it looks like I might not be a virgin for very long:
"Unfortunately, I must go to class and learn things now. You should sext I MEAN text me sometime. Buh bye, darling."
