[urbannomad]

(04-16-2012 02:25 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-16-2012 02:20 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Giovonny: how do you go about figuring out fears + eliminating them from your mind? Any resources or tips to share?

Many. I have posted on this many times. I gotta go to work but I'll come back later and post some resources..

If you are serious about wanting get rid of fear J.Krishnamurti ( Helpful to Bruce Lee)

[pitt]

1)Approaching

I am always approaching and i usually dont give a fuck about the outcome.

2) My looks

I am a pretty boy type of guy with swag. I get eye fucked a lot and i work out hard in the gym so i have got a defined body, my looks definetely help me overcome the height problem.

3) My funful vibe, non giving a fuck style and being unique

This definetely helps me with bangs. Actually the last chick i banged told me that she doesnt care about the looks, she only cares if the guy makes her feel comfortable and can make her laugh. I am also extremely unique, you will hardly find a guy like me. I walk like a thug, im well travelled, read books, listen and rap gangster rap, im into martial arts, fluent in different languages, i can give the nice guy or the bad guy vibe to whoever girl im talking to (i should be an actor just for that) and i still just be me all the time.

[Parlay44]

1. Style - Long hair neatly groomed and not scraggly looking. Been suiting up more lately.
I get opened and approached often when I go out.

2. Communication - Ability to emotionally connect with women during conversation and take the conversation in many possible directions.
Creates kind of a mental fantasy world that keeps them interested and longing for more. I have kind of a cute, playful sarcastic style that they seem
to respond well to. I'm very good at reading and projecting emotions ...ie Vibing with women.

3. Escalation techniques - You have to be able to read women. Some women you can be direct with and escalate quickly. Others take some time
and you have to slow roll them over the coarse of a few months or dates. I've gotten most women that I've pursued. Once I get it in my head that
I can't F-Close her I'll cut off communications and move on. I have no time for attention whores.

[themilkman]

1) Looks: I'll never attract a punk chick, rocker girl, tattoed girl, etc. I have a clean cut but a somewhat serious intimating look. Women think Im attractive and I routinely hook up with women 2 or 3 years older then me (currently 23) as I come off mature then I am. However I need to loosen up and show my personality, having light hearted conversations and simply smiling is a great step to improve this (college age women would be more attracted to this). I've been told by girls that I'm attractive. The next actionable step, is knowing I have an attractive look and that women want to see me approach them.

2) Social Radar: Ability to read social situations and dynamics, hurts me at times because I see too many issues at play and begin to play out possible negative scenarios. Getting much better at this and my ability to use this as a net positive. My skill set is coming into a new environment and understanding forces at play.

3) Logistical and Timeline Mindset: I think of everything in advance, twice. If there's some angle, some risk, some excuse, chances are: I thought of a way out. I would think of everything that could happen and from where. This is a double-edged sword, of course, since I can sometimes over-think things. This is a weird trait for an impulsive and improvisational guy like me to have. But, I tend to plan in advance, so when I "go on stage" I'm just rolling with the punches.

[HighSpeed_LowDrag]

1. Fast Nightgame Escalation. As of now I always aim to go for the kiss at 20 minutes or under. Always the same procedure - I've run it so many times it is now second nature to me. Approach, banter for 5 or so minutes, move/isolate, banter for 10 or so minutes, move to dance floor, dance for 5 or so minutes while gradually escalating intimacy of contact, go for kiss. If I read that a girl is feeling me I'll go for it even quicker. This is likely a product of me having cut my nightgame teeth in Canadian nightclubs full of college students, where every second you're not escalating or isolating is a second you're asking to be cockblocked or be taken for a ride. It's the best way to screen for interest whilst simultaneously disarming cockblocks and avoiding time-wasters and attention whores that I can think of.

2. Bedroom Game. This is one area where I know I'm above the vast majority of guys. I'm pretty well-endowed, thank God, but I don't just rely on that - I invested time into learning the physiology of women, how to go down on chicks, hit their G-spot, etc. On top of which, I like being really dominant in bed with chicks, and they always get really into it when I start doing my thing, haha. I had one girl describe sex with me as being ''raw, primal, almost animal-like.'' Granted, this applies more to repeat bangs than getting notches, but getting laid is getting laid, right?

3. Lone Wolf Mentality. I go out solo virtually 100% of the time now. I crave the freedom that not having to follow a group mentality gives me. It means that even if I'm in a place where I know no one or if I don't have a social circle, I don't have to rely on other people's benelovence to have a good time/get laid. It's at the point where the only people I would accept as wingmen would be RVF members who know and understand where I'm coming from and what I desire.

HSLD

[DJ-Matt]

(04-14-2012 05:24 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

(04-14-2012 04:06 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

(04-14-2012 03:57 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

(04-14-2012 12:25 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:

I mean, if she's agreed to come this far then that means she likes and wants to fuck you, so how in the world do you fuck that up?

Even in Eastern Europe? I would have agreed with you a year ago, but I've had many cases of girls coming over but absolutely not putting out.

It is because you do not give them any present.The reason they come to your apartment is because they expect a present from you.

Does a good fucking not count as a present?

aka. what is an example of a present?

No a penis is not considered a present.A vagina is considered a present though.A decent present can be a perfume,a cosmetic,some piece of clothing like dress etc.In general sth costing between 50-100 euro.This is acceptable for Ukrainian girls to fuck.

Early signs of GK being a fan of P4P

[Fortis]

hmmm.

I'm kind of quirky. I think this makes first dates at the bar more fun for a girl than they should be. I have weird stories about weird shit.

I'm witty. I can go back and forth with most women for a while. I think it gives them a sense of my strength.

I'm occupied with other shit. I don't think most women get a clingy or needy vibe from me. sometimes I'm even texting other girls on dates now. I think I definitely give off an aloof vibe.

I would say those things combined have been helping me as of late.

[MikeS]

1. Conversation skills, quick wit and humor. I rarely have problems keeping a long, more or less pointless conversation going with any woman whose conversational skills rank a little higher than those of a rock. Though sometimes I will get bored quickly and just not bother to continue.

2. Related to the quick wit, a tendency to say whatever the hell pops into my head. Occasionally works against me, when even holding onto my frame with the straightest face I can muster, hasn't quite salvaged a monumentally poorly timed or chosen remark.

3. Almost always very laid back and care free.

[Remington]

1. Overall Presence: With my height as well as being muscular, I get a lot of looks from people when I walk into a room. Then, I usually approach girls that hold their look the longest.

2. Evaluating All Options: Whenever I approach, or go out, I always see a situation and consider all possible outcomes. Also applies with logistics. I don't go anywhere that hinders my ability to take a girl back to my apartment.

3. Not Giving a Damn: I don't give a shit about many things, which I guess already boosts my confidence. Approaching girls not giving a crap what happens is huge. Plus, if I get turned down, fuck it, on to the next one. Can't act butthurt about shit that doesn't matter.

[GreenHills]

1. Looks: On more than one occasion girls have complimented my looks. This year I SNL-ed a hot 24yo girl that even said "you're beautiful". It helps, because it also shows me who's attracted to me. And I'm not a tall blonde guy. This took some work too, especially in the style area, which I was unbelievably clueless in.

2. Comfort building: I know how to have a conversation when I want to. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, fairly warm personality and I'm passionate about a thing or two. I ask questions. I can talk about a lot of topics even if not at depth. This also took some work - reading, taking a lot of different classes, traveling, gathering experiences, even going to psychotherapy has helped me a lot in this area.

3. Logistics! While a lot of my friends live in the suburbs and whine about how they want to move to the city for years and years, I moved downtown many years ago. I have plenty of bars right next to where I live, I don't have roommates, public transport hubs are close to me as well.

[Rush87]

(04-13-2012 03:45 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

What do you think are the top 3 qualities that account for the bangs you've gotten?

Here's mine:

1. Persistence. I really don't give up. I do the approaches, don't complain about the rejections, and just keep going until either I have nothing left or get lucky.

2. Conversation/ramble. I can talk about anything with girls from all types of backgrounds for extended periods of time without getting any feedback in return. Lots of girls say that my talkative nature makes them feel comfortable.

3. Scientist mind. I constantly experiment new techniques to see if they improve my ROI. I'm never satisfied with the status quo. I also analyze all my experiences for possible ways to improve.

1.) Banter. Coming from an Australian country town it's part and parcel of the lifestyle to poke fun at one another from a young age. You quickly learn to develop an overwhelming number of comebacks/replies.

2.) No bullshit policy. I'll walk away mid conversation if someone is irritating/boring.

3.) I don't get embarrassed. I've found it can be a big positive to talk uncensored [As long as it's done with a smile].

[rebelofbabyloin]

1. Sarcasm. 2. Truth. 3. A beard. (4. Booze always helps)

[Natural Nomad]

1. Personality- I think very highly of myself and girls notice but I also have the ability to connect with people. And I'm funny.
2. Aloof- I don't care about all the BS. I feel like others care about what other people do/say and I don't. People comment on this in a positive way.
3. I strive for improvement. I am always working on something to make myself better. I do this 100% for me.

[Dantes]

Persistence

I approach
I never close a door
I believe that I deserve quality
I pursue quality
I make my intentions known

Commitment to self improvement

From a young age I have looked to improve aspects of myself including weight training, education, varied experience, and have an opened mind. The result is I am ever evolving and changing

Looks

I am not model looking but I'm handsome and in good shape. I have been in game before there was a term for it, over 20s years. The majority of the women I have been with have been in the 7 to 7.5 range. My LTRs have been 8s. I have had plenty of slumps in my game but I have consistently attracted pretty women for over two decades. A big part of this is their attraction to me.

[civpro]

I would say,

1. My killer instinct - I approach a lot and escalate quickly and brazenly when I'm in "state" aka drunk.
2. My face - I am short, but I am not ugly.
3. My chattiness - I know how to "plow" well and keep a long, interesting, fun conversation going, both on the approach and on dates.

[Americas]

1. Sniping Ability: Probably the most developed and crucial part of my game. I am able to read girls really well and know a) whether it's the type of girl who likes me and b) how DTF she is.
2. Body Language/Escalation: I am good at giving strong IOIs and quickly escalating from point of contact.
3. Demeanor: I am super laid back which allows me to build comfort but I know when to be aggressive when the opportunity arises itself.

[Katdogbirdduck]

1- Suavity
2- Dressing Style
3- Body Language