Quote: (10-20-2009 12:51 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:
I agree that it largely has to do with the type of girl. And yes, it works less with cooler girls. The only time I consider a neg is when the bitch shield has reached out of control proportions.
I get the vibe that most regular chicks today don't take negs seriously, and are aware of them as obvious ploys for power. They're just become too common as a generic pickup technique. Therefore, I think that, a lot of the time, the neg as the opposite of the intended affect by making it too obvious that you are making a move on the girl, and are not even confident enough to be more direct about it. This actually gives her more power and may lessen attraction. Like I said, it depends on the girl. I would never neg a chick that I really liked.
No. That's like saying sarcasm or wit is getting played out. You're probably using canned, lame lines. Teasing and insulting girls will never go out of style.
Women want to be dominated. The neg does that for you. Depending on your delivery and her personality, she will laugh or start trying to fight back. Either way you've aroused her emotions. And if you keep your cool, she will lose, submit, and lust after you. You've demonstrated you're not a typical chump, which generates intrigue. Chauvinism, playfully displayed, is a turn-on. Girls are turned by assholes, aka guys with the dark triad of traits: narcissism, machiavellianism, psychopathy.
girl's opening the window, and having trouble figuring it out, I say, "yo A, this is an IQ test, and you're failing." Or to another girl, who said she got lots of compliments from gay guys, at this 'homocoming' event. I responded, "if the only compliments you get are from gay guys, you've got a problem." Another one, was a pre-med, told her "don't think women can be doctors", bit of back and forth, and she slapped me in the face. Made out with her, total nut.
Can't speak to its applicability though to non-Anglophones.