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2. Insult them when they give it.
3. Three day ban.
2. Insult them when they give it.
3. Three day ban.
Roosh
http://www.rooshv.com
Quote: (04-01-2012 09:31 AM)encanto Wrote:
I was wondering if any of you guys that have actually been to Medellin or other big cities in Colombia know how safe it'd be to live in a estrato 3 barrio in Medellin.
The barrio is controlled by an armed gang, which according to my girlfriend, is a good thing since they protect the residents from outside criminals. The gang does no harm to the people living in the barrio but it's been known to be violent to anyone who dares to steal, kill or do anything against the residents.
I'm Latin American and a native Spanish speaker. I plan to rent an apartment or home in that barrio just to be close to my girlfriend that lives there. She says I will not be in danger but even though I might look like any of the people in the barrio, I'm still a foreigner and don't know if that could be a problem.
One last thing, I don't trust her mother at all. She's quite cold, dishonest and cares only about money. I know she has a good relationship with the gang's leader who is said to be an ex-paramilitar. The guy has promised to protect her business which is located in the barrio.
I plan to let my GF stay overnight at my place. I don't know if that could cause problems with her mom. My GF has a TERRIBLE relationship with her. I'm afraid I won't be able to intervene in my GF's defense when there is a problem, I wouldn't want to piss off her mom (remember she's friends with the gang's leader).
Any advice? Would it be safe to live in this barrio?
Quote: (04-02-2012 08:46 AM)encanto Wrote:
Quote: (04-02-2012 07:43 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:
no it hasn't happened to me actually. but u r right i made an 'absurd' assumption...just don't know too many barrio girls that aren't being supported by their novios. Your barrio girl is obviously different and actually has money....my bad. Making an assumption that a colombian girl living in a Medellin barrio run by a gang has money yes that's absurd.
u r right though if u are latin american and speak fluent spanish u probably won't have a problem.
Sorry but I still find your assumption quite absurd. I am sure many people on this forum are aware that you don't need any money to get girls if you got game.
While I am not familiar with Roosh's methods, I have developed my own based mostly on Ross Jeffries stuff and my own experience.
Women want to experience things that most guys think can only get them with money and looks. However, if you know what you're doing you can satisfy their needs even with no money and just average looks.
It's been said many times on this forum that Colombian women are stupid because they will choose their ugly poor barrio guy over a rich foreigner. I believe they're not stupid, they go with the guy that gives them what they want.
The gringo may be rich and better looking but that's all he has going on for him, and that's not enough. I am not saying they will always choose the local over the gringo.
I'm just saying they will choose the best guy over the loser and many times the loser is a gringo whose money can't get him to score in the first world and he decides to go to the third world to see if he has a better chance.
This is different from being a gringo like Roosh and others here that think we deserve more than feminazi women and that's why we decide to go where the best women in the world are.
Quote: (04-03-2012 01:28 PM)lavidaloca Wrote:
You don't need money to get laid. Thats true but it sure does help and I will continue to spend like I'm dieing tomorrow and enjoying my life rather than focus on "game" and seeing how little i can spend on a girl and still get the bang. The mathematics for many are not important. For one guy spending 10 dollars on a girl to get a lay may leave a sour taste in his mouth. But for others than number could be 1000, 10,000 etc. It's all a function of where you are in your life at any given time. But yea, I gotta say even having not been to Medellin after watch a documentary filmed in a strata 1 or 2 barrio a while back I sure as hell wouldn't want to be living in a strata 3 barrio but to each their own.
Quote: (04-04-2012 05:11 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:
what i am saying is if you are moving to medellin to be with your barrio girl (who by the way lives there becuase she has no money) you are supporting her...paying for everything... THATS HOW IT WORKS THERE.
Quote: (04-04-2012 09:39 PM)MSW2007 Wrote:
Quote: (04-04-2012 05:11 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:
what i am saying is if you are moving to medellin to be with your barrio girl (who by the way lives there becuase she has no money) you are supporting her...paying for everything... THATS HOW IT WORKS THERE.
I think the naysayers somewhat forget that in poorer areas, it's okay to highlight your ability to provide as a DHV. The reason provider game doesn't work in the developed world is because first world women, generally, are not living on the edge.