I'm trying to put Day Bang into place. I've read the book, studied it pretty well and I'm a guy starting from scratch in the game. I am in my mid-30's and i'm a decent looking guy and I've gotten my share of decent looking girls in the past. I'm coming out of a rough break up with one of the hottest chicks i've dated and i have massive case of oneitis. I think this is a skill I really need to learn and I kill to meet some hot chicks. I did the online dating thing for a few months and got a bunch of chicks but most of them were average at best and the few hot ones I got out, i couldn't lock them down. I could get to date two with them but then shit would just fade. So anyways....today I did my first two approaches via Day Bang and my goal is to do 25 approaches a week. I think i'm going to do the clothing shop and the subway.
So today in the Rosslyn station I did my first approach. I really had to push myself to do it and I almost pussed out. But i saw a chick and then forced myself over there to open my mouth.
"Excuse me, do you know exactly where this train goes?" I think she was a bit startled. She semi-smiled and then said "it goes down town" and started naming the stations. "foggy bottom" etc. I then followed up with "so it goes to Capitol Hill?" and then the conversation just fell off. Remember these are my first approaches so i was nervous. I was waiting for her to ask me where i was going...but that didn't happen. I can see now how hard the ramble is. Looking back there were a ton of ways to continue this ramble.
Next approach was in Metro Center... I said "Does this train go to Union Station?" And she was startled and kind of jumped back I think kind of caught her by surprise. But i can clearly see the cat metaphor. As she began to talk, the train arrived and then the convo ended. From here on out, I'm sticking with the exact line. The union station question was too much of a yes or no answer.
I realize there isn't much to decipher. I just wanted to start a thread and I'll update it as I go along. Maybe I can see the progress going forward by rereading the past posts. I'm going to try to stick to Day Bang model as closely as possible. I'm totally new to this and I'm excited about the challenge. Would be awesome to be able to pull the chicks that i want instead of settling for what comes down the pipe.
Maybe some other guy trying Day Bang can relate to my posts.
So today in the Rosslyn station I did my first approach. I really had to push myself to do it and I almost pussed out. But i saw a chick and then forced myself over there to open my mouth.
"Excuse me, do you know exactly where this train goes?" I think she was a bit startled. She semi-smiled and then said "it goes down town" and started naming the stations. "foggy bottom" etc. I then followed up with "so it goes to Capitol Hill?" and then the conversation just fell off. Remember these are my first approaches so i was nervous. I was waiting for her to ask me where i was going...but that didn't happen. I can see now how hard the ramble is. Looking back there were a ton of ways to continue this ramble.
Next approach was in Metro Center... I said "Does this train go to Union Station?" And she was startled and kind of jumped back I think kind of caught her by surprise. But i can clearly see the cat metaphor. As she began to talk, the train arrived and then the convo ended. From here on out, I'm sticking with the exact line. The union station question was too much of a yes or no answer.
I realize there isn't much to decipher. I just wanted to start a thread and I'll update it as I go along. Maybe I can see the progress going forward by rereading the past posts. I'm going to try to stick to Day Bang model as closely as possible. I'm totally new to this and I'm excited about the challenge. Would be awesome to be able to pull the chicks that i want instead of settling for what comes down the pipe.
Maybe some other guy trying Day Bang can relate to my posts.
