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How do you flake on a date nicely where you want to date them later?
03-21-2012, 08:16 PM
I've had moments where I couldn't make the date and I had to flake. I've tried all kinds of strategies. Not calling to flake and then call next week, calling before the date and trying to reschedule, and etc.
Whenever I do this they(girls) take it personally and never get back to me after that, or even if they do they try to friendzone me.
I want to do it in such a way that they get back to me and go out with me later.
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How do you flake on a date nicely where you want to date them later?
03-21-2012, 09:53 PM
Don't give a firm counter offer. Say, will give them a shout in a few days.
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How do you flake on a date nicely where you want to date them later?
03-22-2012, 01:15 PM
I use the excuse I have to stay late at work the day of the date. Then I ask to reschedule.
Easiest advice is to never flake if you want to see the girl again. Always reschedule so it doesn't feel like you're jerking her around.
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How do you flake on a date nicely where you want to date them later?
03-23-2012, 08:42 PM
Honesty all the way, but dont apologise and don't offer alternatives. She's lucky enough to be part of your life, so things operate on your terms.
21 y/o brit.