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03-19-2012, 08:36 AM
I approached this chick during daygame and she responded very good. Next day she texted me and asked if I had wet dreams about her. I met her once (day2) and she went sexual right of the bat telling me how horny she was. I made out with her and set up a date/ sex next day.
You can think this is the best scenario you could dream of. But this girl is not hot by my standards. . She has a good body and decent face but that’s it. She is quite fuckable, maybe attractive by common standards. Anyway I don’t find her so attractive and I flaked on her. I am not that attracted to her. I prefer to go for chicks I really like.
How often do you throw back the fish you caught?
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03-19-2012, 08:44 AM
Unless the girl winds up being severely annoying to the point of complete boner-reduction, I just push for the smash until I get bored of her, and then I throw her away. But I operate on two levels: would-bang and wouldn't-bang. I'm not interested in dating or "being seen" with these chicks, so even if a girl is not as attractive as I would like, as long as I can raise a mast, I'm not going to throw away a bang.
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03-19-2012, 10:12 AM
I rarely throw fish back. If I put in the time to go on a date I might as well close the deal. Especially if it's a lay-up bang like the situation you described was.
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03-19-2012, 10:36 AM
If she can get me hard, I'll go for it. There's also no telling what she's like in bed, and she may have a few talents up her sleeve that boost her value. Or she cooks for you afterwards. If she's DTF, then I'll give it a go. Besides, when a girl is a real freak like you describe, that easily gives her another point, personally.
I'm in it to enjoy myself, not to impress other people. Though I will try not to be seen with a more mediocre chick.
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03-19-2012, 10:53 AM
She's attractive and DTF. You shouldn't need much more. I remember Roosh doing a great post on guys that use the "I have standards" excuse for why they aren't getting laid more. This chick isn't a pig or other form of slumpbuster. Don't see it as lowering your standards. The fact is one of your ideal chicks isn't showing herself at the moment, so take the sure thing while you're looking for the chick that does meet your lofty standard. You stated that you prefer to go for chicks that you REALLY like, yet you did approach this one. Something about her must have attracted you, so I say follow through.
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03-19-2012, 11:00 AM
w/e, boner standard. If boner responds, proceed.
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03-19-2012, 11:08 AM
It depends entirely on what your other options are. If you have other girls in your rotation that you could screw, then passing on her isn't too big of a deal, but if passing it up may result in a dry spell, then I'd try to bang her for sure.
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03-19-2012, 11:11 AM
I don't get this. This entire forum is pretty much about what you just did.
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03-19-2012, 11:13 AM
Am I the only one sensing a
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03-19-2012, 11:14 AM
I'll answer the question anyway. About once every three days for the last 25 years
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03-19-2012, 03:53 PM
You didn't catch her. Banging is catching, not getting digits.
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03-19-2012, 04:59 PM
You say you flaked? Did you no show or cancel. Cancelling is OK , but no-showing is inexcusably rude, whether it's Jude Law, Megan Fox, or an old fat guy like me.
Shitty behavior is shitty behavior, and nothing other people have done ( former chix) excuses it.
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03-19-2012, 07:34 PM
Until you have your Player's Card you should be swooping every chick that passes your boner test. After you've been with a ton of women, then start raising your standards. My current problem is it's taking increasingly more and more attractive women to get me excited and even curious as to game them. Signs of getting older perhaps?...or maybe I'm looking more into quality over quantity...Time will tell.
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03-19-2012, 10:33 PM
Quote: (03-19-2012 07:30 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Quote: (03-19-2012 03:53 PM)Roosh Wrote:
You didn't catch her. Banging is catching, not getting digits.
One of the greatest things about your approach and the forum as a result is the centrality of bangs. It seems obvious, but the mainstream seduction gurus only talk about it obliquely.
Bottom line is, if you aren't fucking, you aren't playing.
IDK that I agree with that entirely. I game people all the time I'm not interested in, women, men, whoever. Sometimes for practice, sometimes for the enjoyment of a social interaction, sometimes b/c they have something else I want, social connections, etc.
I shoot hoops at the park sometimes, just because it isn't the NBA doesn't mean I'm not playing.
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03-20-2012, 06:13 AM
A wise player once told me. Pussy has no face. Descent face and great body is usually 5.5-6.5... Proceed and if you don't like take the slay and run. Like it was stated above. Sex game can change what you think.
The cycle of disrespect can start with just an appetizer.