I am fairly new to the seduction community, I have tried to read and learn as much as possible and done a few approaches with some success. Mostly lurking and now it’s time to be active in discussions. I have come to seek advice on how to proceed with a situation describe below.
Field report – sort of
I have being going to some salsa dance classes, beginners followed by advance at a local university (I’m not actually a student but I’m allowed in). There is a girl (Sophie) I am interested in, but she always comes to the salsa class with some guy, not sure if they are actually dating or just friends – her Facebook says she is single.
They seem to get on very well, constantly laughing with each other. And they will often leave together after the lesson because he is only a beginner.
When she has come on her own she stays for both classes.
So I usually end up dancing with her best friend Jenny, who is kind of cute. I know I get a lot of laughs and attraction from this girl so I position myself near Sophie. The only problem is, as much as I can get Jenny to laugh the other guy with Sophie is doing a far better job to the point where I don’t think Sophie will even notice anything around her.
Whether there is any attraction between Sophie and this guy or not I don’t know. He has weak body language and mannerisms, but has the gift of the silver tongue.
Next Thursday is the last lesson for this year. My idea was to ask Sophie to come to advance class on Facebook and tell her it’s the last time I will be going forever and I don’t want to be stuck without a dance partner. And then, if successful, I plan to # close by inviting her to a local salsa club.
Questions
1 .Is asking her to stay for the second class on Facebook and not in person a bad idea? Even though it’s a bit passive, if she has made plans she might be less willing to change them last minute.
2. Is it worth trying to find out about the guy she is dancing with, or is that demonstrating insecurity?
3. Is gaming her best friend going to work against me? Like her rejecting me because she wants me to hook up with her friend.
4. If I get rejected, is asking her best friend Jenny out in the same way as a plan B a bad idea?
I want to date both of them but I really think that would be too hard to pull off.
Any other comments/opinions/advice would be very much appreciated
Many thanks
Cozen
Field report – sort of
I have being going to some salsa dance classes, beginners followed by advance at a local university (I’m not actually a student but I’m allowed in). There is a girl (Sophie) I am interested in, but she always comes to the salsa class with some guy, not sure if they are actually dating or just friends – her Facebook says she is single.
They seem to get on very well, constantly laughing with each other. And they will often leave together after the lesson because he is only a beginner.
When she has come on her own she stays for both classes.
So I usually end up dancing with her best friend Jenny, who is kind of cute. I know I get a lot of laughs and attraction from this girl so I position myself near Sophie. The only problem is, as much as I can get Jenny to laugh the other guy with Sophie is doing a far better job to the point where I don’t think Sophie will even notice anything around her.
Whether there is any attraction between Sophie and this guy or not I don’t know. He has weak body language and mannerisms, but has the gift of the silver tongue.
Next Thursday is the last lesson for this year. My idea was to ask Sophie to come to advance class on Facebook and tell her it’s the last time I will be going forever and I don’t want to be stuck without a dance partner. And then, if successful, I plan to # close by inviting her to a local salsa club.
Questions
1 .Is asking her to stay for the second class on Facebook and not in person a bad idea? Even though it’s a bit passive, if she has made plans she might be less willing to change them last minute.
2. Is it worth trying to find out about the guy she is dancing with, or is that demonstrating insecurity?
3. Is gaming her best friend going to work against me? Like her rejecting me because she wants me to hook up with her friend.
4. If I get rejected, is asking her best friend Jenny out in the same way as a plan B a bad idea?
I want to date both of them but I really think that would be too hard to pull off.
Any other comments/opinions/advice would be very much appreciated
Many thanks
Cozen
