Hey guys,
Over the past 3 months i found myself approaching less and less, and got to the point of literally not even willing to acknowledge any woman in bars/clubs.
I'm not sure if its my ego/pride whatever you wanna call it, but i find myself these days looking at a girl in a bar/club with all her make up, hair done, dress, etc and the first thing that pops in my head is "Not worth the hassle" or "i don't have the energy to put up with her BS, nor do i wanna inflate her already gigantic ego"...
I know what i am worth, and i find that one's value as a person increases with the effort one puts into him/her self. Healthy lifestyle, exercising, dressing nice, eating right, etc are all things that you can do to increase your value, aside from how you look and how tall your are, which you cant change.
I have all that, on top of good looks/height, which i feel is making me start to think that hey i'm well above average lifestyle/body/looks/career wise THEREFORE i refuse to give any woman any value UNLESS she shows some signal that she is interested (smile, constant eye contact, etc).
Of course that almost NEVER happens, especially in Toronto, and more importantly at DT venues (bars/clubs) that is filled with weak men drooling over any girl not matter what she looks like, and i refuse to be put into that category by default because of these guys.
So the way i see it, i have invested a lot in myself in every way possible, aside from genetics that can not be changed, and i must still go out of my way, swallow my pride and walk over to that girl who's value is way lower than mine just to get laid or get a number?
Fuck that! i'd rather not acknowledge her or her GFs and let them eye fuck me all night, make her feel like something is wrong with her, and she has no shot with me than swallow my pride at the risk of her turning out to be one of those broads who shoots down guys for sport.
Anyone feels/felt this way before? is it just a phase? any advice?
Over the past 3 months i found myself approaching less and less, and got to the point of literally not even willing to acknowledge any woman in bars/clubs.
I'm not sure if its my ego/pride whatever you wanna call it, but i find myself these days looking at a girl in a bar/club with all her make up, hair done, dress, etc and the first thing that pops in my head is "Not worth the hassle" or "i don't have the energy to put up with her BS, nor do i wanna inflate her already gigantic ego"...
I know what i am worth, and i find that one's value as a person increases with the effort one puts into him/her self. Healthy lifestyle, exercising, dressing nice, eating right, etc are all things that you can do to increase your value, aside from how you look and how tall your are, which you cant change.
I have all that, on top of good looks/height, which i feel is making me start to think that hey i'm well above average lifestyle/body/looks/career wise THEREFORE i refuse to give any woman any value UNLESS she shows some signal that she is interested (smile, constant eye contact, etc).
Of course that almost NEVER happens, especially in Toronto, and more importantly at DT venues (bars/clubs) that is filled with weak men drooling over any girl not matter what she looks like, and i refuse to be put into that category by default because of these guys.
So the way i see it, i have invested a lot in myself in every way possible, aside from genetics that can not be changed, and i must still go out of my way, swallow my pride and walk over to that girl who's value is way lower than mine just to get laid or get a number?
Fuck that! i'd rather not acknowledge her or her GFs and let them eye fuck me all night, make her feel like something is wrong with her, and she has no shot with me than swallow my pride at the risk of her turning out to be one of those broads who shoots down guys for sport.
Anyone feels/felt this way before? is it just a phase? any advice?