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03-05-2012, 01:20 PM
I've already admitted on this forum that I am crap with women, but trying to improve, so I'm going to give 4 examples of what happened to be on Thursday and Friday night. I'm guessing each of these women were interested in me, but due to my lack of confidence, I didn't approach, because I am bad at judging when women are interested.
First 2 chicks were on Thursday night at a bar. One woman wouldn't leave my side, and kept being overly "friendly." She kept asking me questions, and teased me a lot. Second chick was sitting across from me and the first girl. I caught her looking at me several times, and when she was leaving, she made a point of coming up to me as she walked past and asked me loads of questions about myself. 3rd chick was an American vagina at a club on Friday night. The club had only opened about 15 or so minutes earlier so I was only one of a few guys there. She approached me right out of no where, and wanted to know where I was from, and where I lived. Right after I told her, and she told me where she was from, she ran back to her friends... 4th chick also at the same club, but much later on when the club was packed. I was with my friends, and I caught this chick always looking at me, but she said nothing to me.
I didn't kiss or bang any of them because I always think if I try it, they will slap me or something.... Question is, should I just say fuck it, and go for it anyway? I really have no idea.
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03-05-2012, 05:13 PM
Had that been me, and had I found the first Thursday night girl at all attractive, I would have escalated kino while answering her questions. Move in closer "so you can hear better" and put your hand on the small of her back. She's begging you to. A woman shows me that much interest in a night and I am banging her or getting slapped.
It's been said elsewhere on this forum many times, just ask yourself what is the worst thing that can happen. If she finds you creepy and walks away so be it, but what are the chances? She's flirting with you and showing interest. If she's teasing you, you've so got it made.
Same with the second Thursday night girl. If she stops to talk to you while she's leaving she's expressing interest in you. Talk to her about anything. Tell her a story. Same kino as above. Escalate as she gets comfortable with it. She'll tell you to stop if she wants you to stop and if she doesn't, keep going my brother.
So my long-winded answer to your question is, fuck yes you should go for it. Perhaps you're unclear as to what "go for it" entails. Touch her, tease her back, go in for the kiss and follow the instructions provided in Bang and elsewhere on this forum.
I like to think that had I been you on Thursday, I would have banged the first one. I'd have at least gotten slapped.
Peace.
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03-06-2012, 02:45 AM
I was not attracted to girl number 1 very much, I was far more attracted to girl number 2. There's a decent chance I'll see girl number 2 again. If I do, I'm going in....I need to stop being a pussy. I asked a friend who was with me about her later, and he said he knows her, so who knows? Would be it inappropriate to add her on facebook?
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03-06-2012, 02:54 AM
Do not add her on facebook, all it does is give her an ego boost while you get nothing.
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03-06-2012, 03:02 AM
How do I go about setting something up then?
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03-06-2012, 03:48 AM
You're putting way too much thought into one girl. Go out and meet some new ones. You said there's a decent chance of seeing her again so leave it at that. Also it sounds like girl #1 was damn near serving you the pussy on a silver platter. She may not have been what you wanted but I think the ego boost would have helped. Secondly, always take the sure thing when it comes to sex; holding out for a hotter girl sends you home holding your dick more times than not.
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03-06-2012, 04:50 AM
You're probably right... I'll definitely be working on other girls either way.
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03-08-2012, 01:07 PM
You know the hot chick who started to speak to me while she was leaving? Wel I sent her a message on facebook, and she responded right away remembering who I was. A good sign? This girl is a freaking 10 by the way.
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03-09-2012, 02:42 AM
OK, she sent me another message back and requested me as a friend. She said we could meet up soon, but tried that bullshit, "it's not a date thing." You know what I'm talking about, she says it's not a date without saying it's not a date. I've not hid my interest in her at all.
Should I try to bone her anyway??
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03-09-2012, 05:25 PM
So I said she could come out with me and my friends if she wants, and no response. She suggested we meet up.....then nothing when I suggested a time. Meh. She can't be that interested I suppose.
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03-09-2012, 06:28 PM
First, if a girl is definitely attracted to you without you doing much, always get her number at the bare minimum. She's going to respond. Sometimes logistics are just impossible. I've had some long term regrets over girls I just missed because I was distracted by someone else at a particular moment, and never saw them again.
I think the rest of your questions would be answered reading Bang... but if a girl is attracted to you and you keep just a little contact, you can absolutely come back and fuck her a year later. If she's giving you trouble now, just say sorry we couldn't meet up this time. Your getting plenty of action and can come back to her next round.
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03-10-2012, 12:44 AM
Hilariously, I met a married woman last night for some Spanish lessons, and she pretty much offered to be my wingman without me asking. She seemed to give me some of the same advice as you guys, and said that she will befriend the 10 for me and arrange a meet. I didn't even ask for this, but she offered!!
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03-10-2012, 12:47 AM
Oh yeah, the married woman is from Spain and hot herself. Shame she is married, as she thinks I am handsome. She has an incredible body.
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03-10-2012, 12:52 AM
Quote: (03-09-2012 06:39 PM)pitt Wrote:
Quote: (03-05-2012 01:20 PM)esperar Wrote:
I've already admitted on this forum that I am crap with women, but trying to improve, so I'm going to give 4 examples of what happened to be on Thursday and Friday night. I'm guessing each of these women were interested in me, but due to my lack of confidence, I didn't approach, because I am bad at judging when women are interested.
First 2 chicks were on Thursday night at a bar. One woman wouldn't leave my side, and kept being overly "friendly." She kept asking me questions, and teased me a lot. Second chick was sitting across from me and the first girl. I caught her looking at me several times, and when she was leaving, she made a point of coming up to me as she walked past and asked me loads of questions about myself. 3rd chick was an American vagina at a club on Friday night. The club had only opened about 15 or so minutes earlier so I was only one of a few guys there. She approached me right out of no where, and wanted to know where I was from, and where I lived. Right after I told her, and she told me where she was from, she ran back to her friends... 4th chick also at the same club, but much later on when the club was packed. I was with my friends, and I caught this chick always looking at me, but she said nothing to me.
I didn't kiss or bang any of them because I always think if I try it, they will slap me or something.... Question is, should I just say fuck it, and go for it anyway? I really have no idea.
Girls like you, this is very crucial when comes to bang lots of girls. I consider myself a good looking guy and gone are the days where women approach me. I dont know if it is the fact of me getting older or is it because i approach lots of girls and dont give them the time to approach me but these dont happen often anymore (although now and then i get approached by a chick, just last month i was approached by this 5).
My point here is that girls are making ridicuously easy for you. All you have to do is show interest and ask her where she lives and ask her what is she doing after she leaves the club. If she says she doesnt know, tell her that you have an after party at your house and that she should come with you, if she accepts to come to your house, you willl be fucking, just make sure you are going to escalate.
Get a wing that has game and he will help you in closing the deal with these chicks.
Sometimes I think women have to essentially "rape" me. I freeze when it comes to escalating, I have a mental blockage..
