In the summer of last year, I broke up with my last girlfriend, who had been a complete bitch as far as I'm concerned.
A bit of background info...
I was in China, studying abroad for a semester.
She, a Chinese who was studying abroad in Germany (my second home country), had been visiting friends and family there at the time. We'd met in Germany and had been together for about ten months. As a girlfriend, she fucked up in too many ways for me to list here, but recent transgressions there were enough for me to decide that she could go fuck herself when she returned to Germany to continue her studies. Didn't officially break up with her there...just ceased contacting her (always some exuse on her end not to talk).
For my remaining time in China, I slept with eight girls and made out with another ten or so. Essentially no contact between us at this time.
Shortly before returning to Germany in August, I sent her a two paragraph email basically telling her it was over. No response. Basically haven't talked or seen eachother since.
Since then, I've been going through a bit of a drought. Little time to go out, plus the fact that getting casual sex in my city is a slow and tedious process (strong sense of cliquishness in clubs and bars with practically no "hookup culture", boring women, etc.).
I'm concidering trying to get into her pants again, but just as a fuck buddy/booty call. In general, she's pretty horny, leading me to think this just MIGHT work.
However, I've still got my pride to consider, and I don't want to look like the one who's comes crawling back. If it blows up in my face, she's definitly not going to keep this to herself, as she gossips like crazy.
Considering the above info, what's the best way to go about hitting her up for sex?
A bit of background info...
I was in China, studying abroad for a semester.
She, a Chinese who was studying abroad in Germany (my second home country), had been visiting friends and family there at the time. We'd met in Germany and had been together for about ten months. As a girlfriend, she fucked up in too many ways for me to list here, but recent transgressions there were enough for me to decide that she could go fuck herself when she returned to Germany to continue her studies. Didn't officially break up with her there...just ceased contacting her (always some exuse on her end not to talk).
For my remaining time in China, I slept with eight girls and made out with another ten or so. Essentially no contact between us at this time.
Shortly before returning to Germany in August, I sent her a two paragraph email basically telling her it was over. No response. Basically haven't talked or seen eachother since.
Since then, I've been going through a bit of a drought. Little time to go out, plus the fact that getting casual sex in my city is a slow and tedious process (strong sense of cliquishness in clubs and bars with practically no "hookup culture", boring women, etc.).
I'm concidering trying to get into her pants again, but just as a fuck buddy/booty call. In general, she's pretty horny, leading me to think this just MIGHT work.
However, I've still got my pride to consider, and I don't want to look like the one who's comes crawling back. If it blows up in my face, she's definitly not going to keep this to herself, as she gossips like crazy.
Considering the above info, what's the best way to go about hitting her up for sex?