[Themin]

I would be totally upfront that you are interested in her and want to meet up as soon as you are there. Then build up "friendship" over the weeks you chat to her. 3 weeks may be a little long as a "incubation" period but for example I had a girl with whom I chatted with for about 6 months before we finally met! (a dentist)

[questor70]

(06-02-2017 08:21 AM)gework Wrote:  

Can anyone confirm this TopFace app/site is not good? Seems that they may ask for money just to accept messages in some case.

I got curious and tried Topface. First off, my credit card company started flagging transactions as potentially fraudulent, which is a clear sign that the company has been hit up with complaints in the past. Then I noticed the ungodly quality of the "talent" and that they are jumping on me like flies to honey despite 20+ year age gaps. I believe that there are some real profiles in here but maybe 75%+ of these women are bots or sockpuppets meant to get people to pay and keep paying. Basically what it is, is sort of a role-playing game where you can have totally inane chats with fictional women you'll never meet for a fee.

I think when it comes to the real women on TopFace, or Mamba for that matter, they give off a gold-digger vibe, which is to be expected. There are lots of staged pictures of women clutching big teddy bears. It's like there must be professional studios they can go to in order to take shots that are deliberately cutesy or fashion-runway-model-esque or whatever.

I think the same sort of thing is happening on Mamba but since you aren't strong-armed into paying that it's possible to play along in the hopes of establishing some genuine communication. But it's a time-consuming grind.