[Carl Sagan]

Well, I've had more than a half dozen dates over the last little bit. I met all these broads online (lame, I know). Anyways, I've ended every single date with kissing/makeout. None of this was me being super aggressive or anything. I was smooth, read the signs and just did it. All the girls were into it. So far I've gotten one bang out of these various dates (it was on date two with the chick).

However, I haven't had too many second dates. One second date had me on the girls bed but I couldn't get a single piece of clothing off. Never saw her again.

Recently I went on a second date with another broad which was abruptly cut short by her. We were all over each other on the first date. Second date, just some minor kissing and I could tell she was putting the brakes on. Doubt I will be seeing her again.

So, asking my friends they think I need to "slow down" with the girls and not go for the heavy makeout on the first date. What are your guys thoughts? Am I in the wrong here? Do I need to slow down? Is there something else I am doing wrong?

[FretDancer]

Be sure you are building enough comfort and rapport with your dates.

From your story, I'm reading you weren't sexuall aggresive/esclating, you might want to try and change that, and compare results. You will know what works and what doesn't.

[Carl Sagan]

(02-12-2012 08:23 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Be sure you are building enough comfort and rapport with your dates.

From your story, I'm reading you weren't sexuall aggresive/esclating, you might want to try and change that, and compare results. You will know what works and what doesn't.

Hmm, comfort.

I figure if the girls want me to kiss them, then they must be comfortable. Perhaps I'm wrong in this.

Guess I will have to pretend to like them a little more haha.

Back to the drawing board...

[thegmanifesto]

(02-12-2012 08:20 PM)Carl Sagan Wrote:  

Well, I've had more than a half dozen dates over the last little bit. I met all these broads online (lame, I know).

I think your problems start and end here.

Why not meet girls in real life?

[WestIndianArchie]

Not enough information.

Makes me wonder if I should put up a profile

[Screwston]

Slow down man. I'm the same way and try to get shit hot FAST. If you can tell that she's not comfortable with that, get her full of drinks and try again. Keep repeating this.

[Chad Daring]

(02-12-2012 11:00 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-12-2012 08:20 PM)Carl Sagan Wrote:  

Well, I've had more than a half dozen dates over the last little bit. I met all these broads online (lame, I know).

I think your problems start and end here.

Why not meet girls in real life?

I agree and disagree the "lame I know" seems to be a problem to me. Online dating isn't lame, sometimes its the best option, dont look down on what you're doing just because it doesn't fit the ideal perception of what you think is "alpha"

If you've got it in the back of your head that the date is "lame" because it started online then I bet you're not going at it 100% which is gonna (and seems to have) show through in your results.

[misterstir]

(02-12-2012 11:00 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-12-2012 08:20 PM)Carl Sagan Wrote:  

Well, I've had more than a half dozen dates over the last little bit. I met all these broads online (lame, I know).

I think your problems start and end here.

Why not meet girls in real life?

Anyone who can game online has good game. Never worked for me to get a half decent looking girl. I have 10x better chances of getting a number through the dreaded street game than online.

My suspicion is the same girls who throw up blocks to men online are suspect of everything and everyone online so don't want to get into anything too fast

[Parlay44]

Girls on dating sites are fat, socially awkward and have unrealistic expectations of getting a quality man. I believe they pad dating sites with fake profiles of hot girls to get guys to sign up.

Has anyone here banged an 8 or above from online? I doubt it.

[Screwston]

I just ranted about online dating in the Lounge thread in Everything Else. I'm done with it. I'm sick of the girls on there, betas, everything about it. I finally see why Mixx and gmanifesto don't fuck with it. American girls are driving me crazy!