THIS POST IS FOR A FRIEND OF MINE. He's going to make an account here. He's 22. First time poster here and wanted to get some expert opinion. In 2010 met a cute girl at a social event, talked for a bit and decided to keep in touch. I didn’t do much until recently mainly because:
I’m a huge noob when it comes to gaming chicks
I was in university taking classes in another city about 1.5 hours away
When I met her she was 15 (the legal age here is 16)
So in 2011, she turned 16 and recently decided to push my luck further and since January we got closer and closer, met up with her a few times and I thought we were pretty compatible. She dropped plenty of hints she wanted to get with me so last Saturday I met with her and made a move. After hanging out and pulling in her driveway, we start making out, decided to move in the backseat and things escalated but she wasn’t down for a blowjob or anything so waste of time.
I said whatever and talked with her, she agreed that we should continue seeing each other. Now, here’s the kicker. I used to talk with her every day then she ignores me for 2 days until Monday when she decides to drop this bullshit excuse bomb: “I realized that I’ve been jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend and I need some time alone to solve my issues.”
Now, I know she’s 16 and don’t expect much from girls this age so I was like fine, whatever but I left and deleted all contact with her (messenger, fb, numbers, etc.) because I figured it would be a waste of time continuing to keep in touch.
My question is what would you guys do from here? I was thinking of letting things cool off for a few months, do my own thing, then get in touch again. Any recommendations?
I’m a huge noob when it comes to gaming chicks
I was in university taking classes in another city about 1.5 hours away
When I met her she was 15 (the legal age here is 16)
So in 2011, she turned 16 and recently decided to push my luck further and since January we got closer and closer, met up with her a few times and I thought we were pretty compatible. She dropped plenty of hints she wanted to get with me so last Saturday I met with her and made a move. After hanging out and pulling in her driveway, we start making out, decided to move in the backseat and things escalated but she wasn’t down for a blowjob or anything so waste of time.
I said whatever and talked with her, she agreed that we should continue seeing each other. Now, here’s the kicker. I used to talk with her every day then she ignores me for 2 days until Monday when she decides to drop this bullshit excuse bomb: “I realized that I’ve been jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend and I need some time alone to solve my issues.”
Now, I know she’s 16 and don’t expect much from girls this age so I was like fine, whatever but I left and deleted all contact with her (messenger, fb, numbers, etc.) because I figured it would be a waste of time continuing to keep in touch.
My question is what would you guys do from here? I was thinking of letting things cool off for a few months, do my own thing, then get in touch again. Any recommendations?
