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02-09-2012, 08:42 PM
Quote: (02-09-2012 06:55 PM)Iceinthewater Wrote:
I'm just not understanding all this talk about having to say something to the guy. Just tell the girl to come sit over here, or just start talking to her about you and her, and ignore the dude.
The problem with that is that it hurts in you in the long run with the girl. It gives you an air of weakness because you did not establish dominance with the other male with your presence/demeanor or verbally (in a calm, offhand manor).
You may think that you handled the situation by walking off but in the back of her mind she sees a chink in your armor.
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02-10-2012, 09:11 AM
Quote: (02-10-2012 01:57 AM)soup Wrote:
Quote: (02-09-2012 06:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Quote: (02-09-2012 06:11 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:
Love the story, but that woman is quite large.
http://www.memeface.com/pic/meme724018319_m.jpg
I knew someone would go there. Great story P-M and welcome aboard.
Soup, You have to get yourself to the point where you could go all in anytime. Hit the gym and learn how to fight.
Marlon Brando said, "there's always another guy in the bar next door who is bigger than you and can kick your ass."
I work out every day- I can do 29 chin-ups at a time. I'm not bulked up, but I've been told that I have a threatening vibe even though I am skinny/under-weight.. 5' 11'' about 150lbs.
Anyway, I'm also afraid of getting too built up, learning how to fight, and then ending up in jail. Also, I was told to not bulk up too much by my hipsterette friend. She said those kinds of chicks (the ones that populate my area) aren't into meat-heads, and that it's better to just be toned.
I was bigger than the dude who was talking to my girl. Maybe not big enough..
“It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.”
― Mark Twain
Don't avoid confrontation.
The other guys size doesn't matter.
When he looks in your eyes and sees if he pushes you that he will get fucked up.
He will back off.
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02-10-2012, 09:28 AM
I had this shit happening to me like 3 years ago.
So i go to this bar/club with this girl i was dating and this other girl i was fucking plus one of my homies. My homie was just walking around the club approaching every other chick in the club while i was chilling with these two girls.And because the girl i was fucking with was looking really hot that day, i would tell her to follow me to the toilet without my gf knowing it and we would just play about there.. i was kissing her, touching her and all that shit.. when i went back to my girl she said that one of the guys was asking her what girl i was dating, if it was her or the other one, she told him that i was her boyfriend, he told her to be careful and started laughing. I told her just ignore him. Minutes after i pulled the chick i was fucking to the toilet again and we were playing with each other, when i go back to meet my girl, she is all upset and telling me how she is getting annoyed about this dude trying to touch her hair and she told him not to do it. So i ask her who is that dude, she points out the dude and he is with 3 or 4 other dudes (just as a note, this is one of the roughest bar in East London frequented by many rude boys aka street g's). The friend i was with he is the type of guy that backs down when he sees serious rude boys, so i knew if shit was getting hot, i would have to handle it by myself. Anyway, this dude comes back again to my girl and this time im standing right there and he touches her hair, i pushed him and asked him WHATTT? I have done this in a agressive way body wise but my facial expression wasnt that agressive, basically i was trying to give him a mixed message as ''if you chill, i chill,'' without saying nothing more apart from the ''whatt''..the guy that initiated the madness just backed down, his home boys were getting ready but also backed down.
The only time i reccommend to become violent is if the guy is really trying to disrespect you or he notices that you are with the girl and he still wants to talk to her. If he didnt see me, i would just approach him and tell him that she is mine or just call the girl as icewater said, you take it to violence in case he doubts your ability of handling things, simple.
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02-10-2012, 09:30 AM
Pimpishmentality dammnnn that chick that you posted jesus christ,...i couldnt even look properly at the pic because im at work but later when i get to my room i need to see that shit properly but jeezzz.
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02-10-2012, 12:50 PM
I just did, she is fucking hotttttttttttt..damnnmnnn..
Iceinthewater did you see that ass? I dont know if thats your type of shit but damn i would hit it.
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02-10-2012, 02:28 PM
Quote: (02-10-2012 12:50 PM)pitt Wrote:
I just did, she is fucking hotttttttttttt..damnnmnnn..
Iceinthewater did you see that ass? I dont know if thats your type of shit but damn i would hit it.
LOL
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02-10-2012, 02:48 PM
Conveying dominance is what should be done from the start, but if you can tell the guy is about to get violent, its time to skip out!
If the girl is already into you she'll have no problem leaving the place, and if not, one random woman you met in a club/bar is not worth going to jail or getting injured (even if you can fight)
Some guys might prefer to be macho and go for the fight. Be my guest.
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02-10-2012, 03:32 PM
Never intentionally start a fight if you can avoid it. BUT ALWAYS BE PREPARED FOR ONE. Alot of the guys on this forum probably have the muscles or fearless mindset to back up their talk. If you think your getting punked then you need to start working out and changing your dominance displays. You need to look imposing.
I'd like to see some dude try to intentionally disrespect me when its obvious she is with me. Just not happening.
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02-10-2012, 04:13 PM
With regards to the AMOG is also important who knows the bouncer the establishment of the club or the guards in face control.Because if the AMOG is friend with them no matter what you do they will give right to the AMOG and kick you out in case of physical confrontation.
I have also observed that most guys give very weak punches no matter how muscular they may seem.Only Russian guys give real punches which you feel because they get trained in box.Russians always give punches to you to make you tough physically able to stand the pain.
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02-10-2012, 09:35 PM
It's a rainy night soup, not a hipster in sight, if I want to pull, it may cause a fight.
I'm three drinks back and heading out via cab now. I will check some spots but know they will be dead and where the ass is going to be in the places where the people are spending their tax refund money.
It's not going to be pretty but that's how it is until boat season ramps up local. The beauty is that most guys are scared shitless. The downside is you are a target if you dress nice. Oh well.
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02-10-2012, 11:44 PM
Quote:Quote:
"Later my nigga! We finna...fuck!"
LOL! Damn.. now, that's a closing
"Some May Never Live, But the Crazy Never Die..." ~ Hunter S. Thompson
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02-11-2012, 12:35 AM
Soup: you are big enough and you don't have to start worrying about being tough. the other guys are right about not communicating weakness, but there are different ways to handle it. Getting worked up and thinking about physical confrontation is probably not the best option except as last resort.
Amour Fou: right on. That's a great breakdown
Pitt: London dudes are fucking assholes. Rudest, most drunken aggressive idiots I've encountered.
And yes I would probably hit that lol. She's a little thicker than I like but I bet the doggie would be fun as hell lol