[wolf]

I've noticed that when I call women after 9pm, they don't pick up and don't call back, period.

When I call befor 9pm there is better response. Friday evening forget it, never pick up the phone.

Another trend I noticed is I call 1st week, they don't pick up and I leave a message and they don't call back. Second week I call again, they pick up the phone, we schedule a "date" and we meet. I get a high chance of going out with them if I can get them on the phone. 60-75% chance I will meet them up if I get them to talk to me on the phone.

I can't even get my guy friends to hang out with me through text, much less a woman. As soon as I call I get what I want. So I don't want this thread to be about text.

[Laner]

I am a phone call guy as well, which in Sweden is completely pointless (so far).

I call. They text back. This shit drives me nuts.

But I still call, and I usually do it around "happy hour". Like between 4- 7. I usually feel pretty good at this time of the day, so there is plenty of reasons females will feel the same way.

[Caligula]

You want to catch them right after work before they're out. If you know a bit about a girl's schedule it will make it easier to figure out when the magic time is.

[speakeasy]

I'm not much of a phone guy myself, but I've found that between 10:30a-11a on a Sunday, most people aren't doing a damn thing.

[Basil Ransom]

(02-08-2012 12:40 PM)Laner Wrote:  

I am a phone call guy as well, which in Sweden is completely pointless (so far).

I call. They text back. This shit drives me nuts.

Yeah. I hate that. I've had guys and girls do it to me, feel like punching them when they do it. I can't stay friends with a guy who'd do that consistently.

I have a text or two, back and forth. If they're responding quickly, I'll call. Sometimes, I'll ask first 'Got a sec' sometimes I won't.

[Gmac]

Women are most horny around 2-4 pm interestingly enough. I throw my first text around then.

[azulsombra]

M-F I might hit a girl with a text or two around 2pm to establish contact, then I usually call around 6pm. I figure most women are finished school,work around this time so I can set something up that evening before its late and they already have plans.

On Weekends I hunt new girls and focus on getting snl's.

[metalhaze]

from my personal experience Best time to send a text is 4-8 pm tuesday to thursday. best time to call is tuesday to thursday between 7-8pm.

[MrXY]

(02-08-2012 10:25 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Women are most horny around 2-4 pm interestingly enough. I throw my first text around then.

That is interesting- and it jibes with my experience that I get the best response rate to texts i send between 2-5 pm

[bengalltigerr]

It's either 12-2 pm or 6-8 pm,these are the time slots when most chicks seem to pick up the phone.

[Iceinthewater]

sunday night, 6-9.

I shoot one or two texts to all the numbers I got friday and saturday, usually 2-4 really solid ones, and then sunday night I make my calls if time allows. Monday night is ok too, not as good as sunday. I call mondays if I didn't have time sunday.

I like to get women on the phone ONCE before we hang out again, just to get the emotions going again.

[tomtud]

I hate it too when they will textou immediately after you call. I thought of this too, when it's best to call and get a positive response. Ifnyounfeel like dicking her around, send this message, the cellular customer cannot accept SMS messages at this time. Maybe that will get her to use her voice to communicate.

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer using my voice to talk with women as opposed to texting. All I know is that when you say less and don't respond to texts it drive she bananas. There arebpostson this technique. Read bang, there is info on this sorta thing.

[Greek kamaki]

Texting is much better than calling for guys and calling is much better for girls.Girls can check a whole lot by your voice, the background noises, the call time, the duration of call, your immediate answer to their sh1t tests, can test whether you were ready to spend on call, what you were doing at the time, they can answer you call or not and check your reaction how many times you will call back and more importantly they can tell you to call back without being obliged to reach a decision about date.
Texting is massive advantage for a guy.Even if she is with boyfriend she will find some time to respond and has to give definite answer.She has no room for potential games.That is why many women hate texting and tell you to call them when you text them.

[thegmanifesto]

(02-08-2012 10:25 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Women are most horny around 2-4 pm interestingly enough. I throw my first text around then.

Interesting Gmac.

I have heard this a few times recently from girls. They said 3pm.

(02-09-2012 05:32 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

Texting is much better than calling for guys and calling is much better for girls.Girls can check a whole lot by your voice, the background noises, the call time, the duration of call, your immediate answer to their sh1t tests, can test whether you were ready to spend on call, what you were doing at the time, they can answer you call or not and check your reaction how many times you will call back and more importantly they can tell you to call back without being obliged to reach a decision about date.
Texting is massive advantage for a guy.Even if she is with boyfriend she will find some time to respond and has to give definite answer.She has no room for potential games.That is why many women hate texting and tell you to call them when you text them.

This post is almost like the Twilight Zone.

I agree with the complete opposite.

I look at this:

Quote:

Girls can check a whole lot by your voice

As a huge advantage.

[Greek kamaki]

You mean by convincing her with power of your voice? Yes, it works.Anyway sometimes you need to talk to the girl if you do not call she will be angry and feel neglected but texting is better to display disinterest.It is, complicated.Sometimes it is better to call and sometimes it is better to text.Girls usually notify you if you made the right decision.

[Basil Ransom]

(02-09-2012 05:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-09-2012 05:32 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

Texting is much better than calling for guys and calling is much better for girls.Girls can check a whole lot by your voice, the background noises, the call time, the duration of call, your immediate answer to their sh1t tests, can test whether you were ready to spend on call, what you were doing at the time, they can answer you call or not and check your reaction how many times you will call back and more importantly they can tell you to call back without being obliged to reach a decision about date.
Texting is massive advantage for a guy.Even if she is with boyfriend she will find some time to respond and has to give definite answer.She has no room for potential games.That is why many women hate texting and tell you to call them when you text them.

This post is almost like the Twilight Zone.

I agree with the complete opposite.

I look at this:

Quote:

Girls can check a whole lot by your voice

As a huge advantage.

I was feeling the same. I'm actually a better conversationalist on the phone than in-person. I've had several impromptu hour long conversations with girls I met online, knowing almost nothing about them beforehand. This Kamaki guy sounds pretty dubious.

Texting is worse because the girl answers on her own time, if at all. When you have a girl on the phone, you can press her into agreeing to a meet up. Do that over text, and you sound like a crazed stalker. Escalation over text looks weak.

[Iceinthewater]

(02-09-2012 05:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

I look at this:

Quote:

Girls can check a whole lot by your voice

As a huge advantage.

The more a woman can see/hear/feel me, the better. A screen with words is a screen with words, no matter the dude. When she can perceive the Brian, I win. That's why I go really slow when I approach - I want to give her time to take me in. Never hide yourself, that's weak shit.

[Greek kamaki]

Maybe if someone has better writing ability than being a conversationalist he should prefer texting.If he is not good in writing call is maybe better.Usually when I call girls say they get seduced by my voice and make choices which they later may regret.I do not know.Both texting and calling have advantages.By calling girls voice betrays everything she will be the same when you meet her in person if you meet her online.So to close the deal one has to call for sure.

[thegmanifesto]

(02-10-2012 05:01 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

Maybe if someone has better writing ability than being a conversationalist he should prefer texting.If he is not good in writing call is maybe better.Usually when I call girls say they get seduced by my voice and make choices which they later may regret.I do not know.Both texting and calling have advantages.By calling girls voice betrays everything she will be the same when you meet her in person if you meet her online.So to close the deal one has to call for sure.

By the way you write, you actually seem like you would be a better candidate for phone calls, instead of texting.