PUA techniques don't work on college campuses, but that shouldn't surprise anyone. Running aroung and direct approaching girls like I did on the streets does NOT work at my college; it might work if you go to a huge state school of 40,000+ students, but not at a small private college like mine. At my college of 1400 students, it's more like a tribe -- status/reputation is what everyone is looking for. Eventually everyone knows everyone, and we're all connected by simply being of the same age group and sharing a campus: most conventional "game" techniques aren't useful.
Right now, I've become fairly popular on campus. I've spent my nights hanging out with everyone, from the international-student cliques to the athletes, getting drunk and wild and making friends with almost everyone. I've become the fun social guy, and recently I got a lot of respect for bringing some girls to a party. I've got girls number closing me, hanging out with me, coming to parties with me... I am already pre-selected... I went out, every day, just trying to be that Fun, Social Dominant Guy, not worrying about getting laid (read College Game by Mark Redman) but I still feel, as Redman puts it in his book, another one of those "goofballs, [that] still feels like they were a mile away from hooking up."
A lot of people in this community have been advocating the idea that you should just go out to have fun with your bros, and not to lay HBs. They say that this mentality is exactly what gets you laid. Hell, why even bother?
There's only a bit of truth to this, but otherwise it's totally WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!
You can be the Fun, Social, Dominant guy that doesn't give a shit, and not surprisingly fit the stereotype of the loveable goofball that doesn't get laid. Hell, this is where I was before I found the PUA community. No amount of inner game will ever fix that.
This thread isn't a book review, but after reading Mark Redman's book College Dating Dominance, which seemingly offers contradictory advice here and there, my eyes were opened to some important outer game things I may need to work on. Mainly, I think I need to work on qualification..
What have any of you learned from gaming college girls?
Right now, I've become fairly popular on campus. I've spent my nights hanging out with everyone, from the international-student cliques to the athletes, getting drunk and wild and making friends with almost everyone. I've become the fun social guy, and recently I got a lot of respect for bringing some girls to a party. I've got girls number closing me, hanging out with me, coming to parties with me... I am already pre-selected... I went out, every day, just trying to be that Fun, Social Dominant Guy, not worrying about getting laid (read College Game by Mark Redman) but I still feel, as Redman puts it in his book, another one of those "goofballs, [that] still feels like they were a mile away from hooking up."
A lot of people in this community have been advocating the idea that you should just go out to have fun with your bros, and not to lay HBs. They say that this mentality is exactly what gets you laid. Hell, why even bother?
There's only a bit of truth to this, but otherwise it's totally WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!
You can be the Fun, Social, Dominant guy that doesn't give a shit, and not surprisingly fit the stereotype of the loveable goofball that doesn't get laid. Hell, this is where I was before I found the PUA community. No amount of inner game will ever fix that.
This thread isn't a book review, but after reading Mark Redman's book College Dating Dominance, which seemingly offers contradictory advice here and there, my eyes were opened to some important outer game things I may need to work on. Mainly, I think I need to work on qualification..
What have any of you learned from gaming college girls?